Today, less than a month from our wedding, my fiancé told me that he doesn't trust me and will be cancelling our wedding and new apartment lease if I don't give him all the names, numbers and addresses of my exes. All because I received a text from a wrong number that said, "Hey baby." FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Today, my fiancé accused me of cheating and broke up with me. I texted his best friend, who I've never talked to before, to see if he could talk some sense into my ex. Turns out he has several fiancées and was cheating on me since day one. FML
Today, my fiance told me that he no longer loves me, that he still has feelings for an ex. The wedding is off and he needs the ring back to give to the right woman. FML
Shelve your plans
Today, I discovered that my fiancé had responded to an online missed connection posting. He has been emailing, exchanging pictures and making plans to go out with this girl. We are supposed to be married in the fall and just put down the non-refundable deposit on our reception site. FML
Today, I found my fiancé is cheating on me. Our wedding is in 26 days and everything is already paid for. FML
Event canceled
Today, I had to cancel my $15,000 wedding and send a mass e-mail to 90 guests that there won’t be a wedding. My now-ex fiance got fired from his job. Normally this wouldn’t be an issue, if it wasn’t for the fact he got his colleague pregnant. FML
Crasher
Today, I was supposed to get married to the love of my life. My ex-wife ended up crashing my wedding and created drama. My now-ex-fiancée decided she wants nothing to do with me anymore, and that, "if she wanted baggage, she’d go to an airport.” She walked out of the wedding and blocked my number. FML
Today, my fiancé told me he wished he never met me and that he wished I didn't exist. Our wedding is next week. FML
Who asked you?
Today, my fiancée's ex sent me screenshots of their conversation. In it, he told her how badly he’d wanted to marry her, what a great life he'd have given her, and what a huge mistake she'd made by letting him get away. My ring, our house even our pets should’ve been hers. Gee, thanks for settling. FML
Never again
Today, I called off my engagement, after finding out my fiancé is cheating on me. I recently started a new job, and in anticipation of getting married, I asked that my username include his surname. They can't be changed, so now I get to log in every day under that sorry bastard's surname. FML
Suspicious minds
Today, I found out that my fiancé has been lying about where she lives to avoid me. I think she's also sleeping with who was supposed to be the best man at our wedding. FML
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AscendV 19
That's a bit ridiculous. Does he not realize accidents happen?
sorryheadphones 26
That is unhealthy lack of trust. If he is that immature or paranoid, maybe it is better if you didn't get married
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KrDizzy 16
Maybe trade phones for a few days, then let's see what happens. I'm sure the tables will turn ;)
jsstyd 4
THIS.
TiddlesWiddles 15
Brilliant!
ohSNAPyall 27
Won't he harass all her friends?
patrickalamo 48
Signs of impending doom ahead. Cut and Run...
beararm 11
Idk marriage is a serious thing, and talking from a guy that's been seriously burned, there's no way to tell if ur girl is using wrong number as an excuse or rly a wrong number. All I'm saying is, yea it sounds like a crazy request but if u love him and want to start your new life with no doubts, i say comply with what he asks, and he'll do the same when the time comes.
dposspan 11
If you're still having these kind of trust issues, you have absolutely NO business getting married. A successful marriage is built on trust for your spouse, not on fear that they'll repeat something that an ex once did years ago.
kirasant 19
No. A relationship needs trust to function. To have concerns is one thing, but to demand the full contact info for every ex is unreasonable and not even helpful. She could lie about who her ex's are. She could meet someone new and cheat with him. She could pick up random one night stands with homeless people under a bridge. In the end, there's no way to be 100% sure someone isn't cheating. You have to trust them. Sometimes that goes wrong, but you have to take that risk. I'm not saying be completely blind when something is clearly wrong, but a single text message doesn't merit such paranoia on his or anyone's part. If you feel the need to get the contact info for everyone someone has dated previously, you clearly don't trust that person and shouldn't be with them.
dannnngthatsux 19
Don't do it. I'm a jealous husband and I know that's beyond healthy, beyond just sick. Shoot makes me look like a trusting four year old. If you can't reason with him that it's ridiculous, and maybe even if you can, then chuck him. I love my wife but if she pulled that 'gimme their numbers' crap she'd be gone. There are 7 billion people on the world, being unhappy isn't worth it.
ViviMage 40
Ok, I only have 2, and I don't know their current addresses and phones. Throw the number up in Google and do a search.
Brandi_Faith 34
I was thinking the exact same thing. I have no idea what my ex's phone numbers are or where they live. In fact, all of my ex's are married now and almost all have kids as well.
katekoala 13
Don't marry someone like that
alfonze07 12
Our insecurities are a reflection of one self At times
guitarki 11
It sounds like he has some trust issues. It's not your fault, it's his problem and he needs to work that out with himself. It isn't fair for him to push blame onto you when he's the one with an issue.
brvnnx 18
Wow he really doesn't trust you then.
dakatabg 31
I don't know how this marriage will go