Today, I was telling my boyfriend about how self conscious I am and how I obsess about my weight. He said, "Don't be ridiculous, you don't need to lose THAT much weight." FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I was talking to my boyfriend about how I'm self conscious about my weight. He looks at me and says, "Don't worry babe, I've always been kind of a chubby chaser." FML
Today, my boyfriend encouragingly told me that he could tell I was losing weight, all because I had one roll fewer than usual on my stomach. FML
Today, I told my boyfriend that I gained a few pounds and thought I looked fat. He replied that I looked the same and that I shouldn't worry because he likes fat girls. I never thought I was fat before this. FML
Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me I should stop talking about his major gambling problem because he still loves me even though I gained weight. Apparently that evens things out. FML
Today, feeling confident, I asked my boyfriend what he thought of my new body, since I had lost 16 kilos over the past month. He told me that he missed the old me and wanted me to gain weight again. My boyfriend was the one that encouraged me to lose weight in the first place. FML
Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML
Today, I went to the doctor to talk about my depression and low self-esteem. He told me that I shouldn't think of myself as a fat pig for being overweight. I don't think that and I'm NOT overweight. FML
Today, while having dinner with my boyfriend's family, his mom told me that it looks like I've gained quite some weight. When my boyfriend told her that this was a rude thing to say, she said it wasn't rude, just the truth. FML
Today, my very handsome, fit, Russian boyfriend tried to make me feel better about being a little overweight by telling me, "It's okay, you're American, everyone expects you to be fat." FML
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jacketfootball 0
he was trying to be nice, you don't need to put it on fml.
oboewhore_xD 6
Wow. There's a lot of rude people on FML. No need to call her "fatty" or "lil piggy". :(
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Comments (300)
UglyBagOfWater 0
You can't be that self-conscious about your weight if you choose to remain overweight.
Christopher08 0
damn why you with an idiot your stupid
AmbrosiaFan 19
how exactly is this an FML? he said you don't need to lose "that much" weight, which IMO is a compliment.
tyty78_fml 0
You know what makes me sad? YOU DO! LET'S ALL GO TO MAMBY PAMBY LAND AND WHINE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS! GET WITH THE PROGRAM JACK WAGON!
Kellycblue 0
don't fish for compliments...duh
Niki0308 0
I don't get how it's an FML because he said you don't need to lose that much weight. If he said you need to lose a lot I'd understand. But he didn't so.... yea. I don't get it.
the_huldra 1
I never understood why fat people can't accept that their fat instead of getting mad at other why don't you get off your fat ass and stop being fat.
chellabella856 0
atleast he's honest
birdfreak 24
that's actually rather supportive saying you're not that fat maybe you're just chubby
Helpfulsolution1 0
That is what they call a backhanded compliment. That is one of those unintentional slams. I truly understand what you are going through. You want to stay away from public places because of the horribly people who stare and make you feel even worse about yourself. You dont want to go out to eat because you feel like everyone is looking at you if you dont have a salad. You also feel like your man is less attracted to you causing him to possibly stray. Dont worry about any of that, just work on building up the love you have inside for yourself. When you have love for self, people cant help but love you. Along with love for self, you have inner strength that can help you to overcome any obstacle. If you dont like your weight, change it! I know that is easier said than done but I am working on losing 40lbs as we speak but I know that right now with this weight, I am big and beautiful. I know how hard it can be to lose weight. This is what is helping me humblebeginningsin2cash2.com. Hope this helps.