Today, I overheard my friends laughing about how my anxiety means I'll be single forever. I was too anxious to confront them. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my parents kept on trying to create drama in my long-distance relationship,and telling me that my life is a mess. But when I tell them they played a huge part in my crippling anxiety, they change the topic. FML
Today, I decided to go to a therapy group to help with my anxiety and to meet people who felt similar. I joked with my friend that no one would turn up as people might feel anxious about going. I was right. I was the only one there. FML
Today, my boyfriend shared with me his anxiety about death, so I shared with him one of my ridiculously irrational fears. He thought I was making fun of him and now won't talk to me. FML
Today, I realized that I'm at the age that whenever I mention a friend of the opposite gender, my family's first response is asking whether that friend is single. I've already accepted no one will want a pathetic freak like me, so their poking around what few friends I have makes it awkward. FML
Today, I went to see my girlfriend to talk about my anxiety, because it's been a big issue. She broke up with me instead. FML
Today, I have no friends because I have severe anxiety and severe social anxiety. I thought I had family but as it turns out, my family is trying to get rid of me by sending me away. FML
Today, I was sitting in class when I overheard a group talking about how much they don't like me. When they saw me there, they burst out laughing. FML
Today, I walked into work and overheard three of my female coworkers talking and laughing about how ugly my face is, and how they’re sorry for whoever has to marry me. They went on to name the coworkers they actually would sleep with. I’m 25 and I've still never had a girlfriend. Thanks for the self-esteem boost. FML
Today, I finally went to the doctor's about my severe anxiety. I'm so used to putting on a happy performance around people that she didn't believe anything was wrong with me. FML
Today, I found out that my friends have been "fake laughing" whenever I make a joke just so that the situation doesn't get awkward. FML
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ourtneyc 14
friends who don't even try to understand mental health issues aren't friends at all OP
AidanKozak 13
What kind of friends are they? Get people that can understand and accept who you are.
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Comments (51)
tpeer92 5
Those are friends. Anxiety and depression isn't something you can control and they shouldn't judge you for having it. Time for some new friends OP! Keep your head up
awesomeamandas 37
They aren't your real friends. You deserve better than them. As a severe anxiety sufferer I know first hand how difficult it is meeting new people, in the dating world and out, but trust me on this one, you won't be forever alone. When you least expect it you'll meet someone worth going after, someone who'll love even the worse in you. Anxiety isn't a life stopper, all it does is put your life in slow motion, and in some cases on pause, but with a little work you'll eventually be able to hit the play button again. Your 'friends' are assholes. I wouldn't bother confronting them on this issue, just cut them completely out of your life.
introvert20 6
I know that feeling OP. It sucks but you will be ok ❤️ (I have anxiety too) They obviously aren't real friends. You deserve better.
DankNissan 11
"Friends"
moodyreallyrocks 27
You need better friends OP! Hope you feel better soon..
ChiefKoala 30
Okay seriously **** them. I'm so riddled with anxiety and depression and I've still had girlfriends. You have to keep your chin up OP. And i know it's hard, trust me.Lately I've been contemplating suicide (and no, this isn't a joke), but I've forced myself to do stuff. So i know it's hard having anxiety and having people make fun of you for it. I know it's hard even existing, even ordering food on your own can seem like an impossible feat (because it is for me). In fact, if you happen to see this please don't hesitate to message me on here if you need to talk to someone because i know exactly how this feels. My dad and mom make fun of my anxiety all the time. Stay strong OP, and drop those "friends" of yours. You don't need them, and they obviously don't care much about you from what was said in your FML. Please keep your chin up doll, it's going to be okay some day.
tessas 7
Your advice is good. Please keep it in mind for yourself, and remember there are people out there who can help you. Suicide is forever and things are going to be okay someday.
violet_lipstick 12
Your "friends" are jackass's not friends .I'm sure you will have someone when you feel it is best to do so.
amayraniescobar 15
Those are not real friends...
Niedermayer_20 12
Aww so cute, Be strong. Youll outwit and outlast them.
haddiej 21
It's cute too make fun of someone with a mental disorder? Seriously?
Le_ponderer 14
Dear anon OP, love will find you. You will not grow old alone because there is someone out there who will adore you as you are. Do you have a pet? Having one to care for and talk to sometimes helps.