Today, well into my second year at university, I still haven't made a single friend. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
This pandemic hit some of us harder than others
Today, I've had to accept that, despite my efforts to stay in touch with the few friends I made at college, I have zero friends. FML
Today, I read my university's newsletter. Apparently we're starting up a "buddy" system for international students. I'm signing up, because this will help me complete my goal of making my first friend at university. FML
Moving on
Today, I saw yet another dear friend from uni get married, living the good life in their new home. Here am I in my 30s, with no love life, and feeling like that's never going to be for me. FML
Today, I found out that despite having attended every university party held over the last two years, the only physical contact I have had with a member of the opposite sex is when the security guard stamps my hand. FML
Bass players unite
Today, it's been a year since I graduated high school and nobody, not even my own friends, has hit me up since then. I may as well be dead to them. I was in a band, but I'm now realising they only pretended to be nice to me since I was the only person in the school who knew how to play bass. I haven't talked to a soul other than my family and myself since. FML
Today, I sent a friend request on facebook to the only person I became friends with this semester at college. He denied me. FML
Today, I found out that my friends from high school have yearly meet-ups to catch up and talk about what they've done since school. They've done this for 3 years. I havent even been invited once. FML
Lonesome today
Today, I've noticed a pattern with my classmates: Every time a new student shows up, they are treated by my classmates as though they've known each other for years. Everyone except me. When I first came along, I was more or less a wallflower. No one wanted anything to do with me. The same is true today. FML
Help this person out, please?
Today, I have no close friends, only "people I know and occasionally talk to." I have no idea how I got here, and how to re-socialize back. FML
Today, I realised being the only female engineering student sucks. I have exactly one friend, because everyone else is too busy staring at my boobs to have a conversation. FML
Top comments
Susan Yee 9
I didn’t until 3rd year. The people I met prior either religious-nuts or like drinking and smoking. I met people I clicked with (video games, non-alcoholic) on 3rd year, through a classmate, who is now my husband.
TomeDr 25
Is it because you’ve been working hard and studying instead of partying? If so, you’re doing okay. But be sure to take time to do something enjoyable. Find clubs or groups where you’ll find people that you have a common interest.
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pins91 27
Oooof. I’ll be your friend!
slowhandjp 18
so do I 👍
Poika Nicholas Hoa 2
Jesus!!!! Exactly the same!
TomeDr 25
Is it because you’ve been working hard and studying instead of partying? If so, you’re doing okay. But be sure to take time to do something enjoyable. Find clubs or groups where you’ll find people that you have a common interest.
Teri Green 9
most people don't like me because I'm not a gossip so I feel your pain
Sonotsuave 37
I would suggest joining some clubs or doing work study because that’s how I made a bunch of groups of my friends. Also try to make some allies in your classes, it’s helpful if you miss a class or have questions
Susan Yee 9
I didn’t until 3rd year. The people I met prior either religious-nuts or like drinking and smoking. I met people I clicked with (video games, non-alcoholic) on 3rd year, through a classmate, who is now my husband.
丛仓 2
学中文吧,这样我们就能交朋友了
NPDclusterBaware 8
Saaaame!!!
BurnInDemonFire 39
I'm 32 years into my life, and I don't have a friend, either. It's great. I do everything on my own time, within my budget, and I haven't been called a f*ggot in years, except online, but I just ignore that.
kdmittens 9
you gotta change your vibe! people might be finding something off about you!