Today, I found out my boyfriend regularly has his ex stay over. They even share a bed. He doesn't see a problem with this. FML
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Today, my boyfriend posted pictures of him at the bar last night with his ex. And ones of them in her bed this morning. I guess we're sleeping with other people? FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend of 7 years has been communicating extensively with his ex, who lives out of state, for over 6 months. She booked flights and a hotel nearby in a month and invited him. He didn't say no. FML
Today, I just found out that my current boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend are rooming together at college. Visits are going to be extremely awkward. FML
Today, it's now the third week my boyfriend's best friend has been sleeping on our bedroom floor because he doesn't want to face the consequences of his actions back at his parents' place. My boyfriend sees no problem with this, and says he can stay and live off us as long as he wants. FML
Today, I found out why my boyfriend of over a year is so obsessed with cleaning his entire place before I come over. He's been hiding the ex-girlfriend who never moved out. FML
Today, I found out that my new roommate is dating my ex-boyfriend. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend added his ex on Facebook and Instagram, all within a few days. Lucky me. FML
Today, my boyfriend came over. My mom told him the story about the time she caught me having sex with my ex-boyfriend. My ex is his best friend. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend's mom still refers to his ex as 'the daughter she never had.' FML
Today, my boyfriend informed me that since he's doing a project with a girl in his class and carpooling with her in the morning, she'll be sleeping over at his house. FML
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Cartera 10
Relax. They just talk about cute boys and gossip about girls they don't like.
lincolnick4 19
Then there shouldn't be a problem dumping him. You deserve better OP.
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Comments (105)
XxcaitanatorXx 12
you half to set boundries with your boyfriend
TheOnlyMizLiv 22
I think thats only half the problem.
TheOnlyMizLiv 22
*that's... dammit
bethers_ 22
I think not knowing the difference between half and have is a problem, too.
SwaggCapone 11
Ask if he see's a problem with you dumping him
applebramble 22
Screw the boundaries , dump his stupid ass!!
crudeandrudeguy 29
It's probably just loveless hate sex, nothing to worry about...
cieloalicia 16
That's not even worth trying to work out, obviously he still has feelings for her and doesn't respect you. Find someone with less issues.
ShyAnn29 15
It kind of depends, if he has NEVER given you a reason to not trust him, then it could be that nothing is happening between them, just because two people share a bed, doesn't always mean that there's sex going on. On the other hand, it depends on how close they were, and how close they are now. I hope that makes sense!
cieloalicia 16
88- what the ****??? It doesn't matter if they didn't have sex. They can be friends, but friends don't do that kind of shit, especially if they dated before.
nystev 13
Friends don't share beds...? I've shared a bed (non-sexually) with many friends (mostly girls) before, sometimes we even fit three inside a double bed. It's really a matter of how comfortable you are with people being in ''your space'', and also what's the more comfortable sleeping option at the time (I'd rather share a bed with my friends than take the floor).
ShyAnn29 15
91 I wasn't saying that there is nothing wrong with it, and I agree it is different if they have dated, I was just saying that sharing a bed with a friend isn't uncommon, I've shared with friends several times. I did explain my last comment right, sorry
How_you_doin 10
does it make sense to you?? if so, we have a serious problem!
etoilenuit 15
I have sleepovers with my friends all the time. True sleep overs, not sex. Boys and girls so I'd say if its someone whose always been a friend that's one thing.. But an ex? Not okay.
ShyAnn29 15
I don't think it's ok with an ex, that's just inviting trouble, but with friends, I think that's ok.
cieloalicia 16
I let girls sleep in my bed. Guys on the sofa, especially exes
mfmylifesrsly 30
I've slept in beds with my guy friends before. Although not ex's, **** no. Also if I'm dating someone I'd ask my boyfriend first if he's okay if I shared a bed with a male friend, although I probably wouldn't even do that.
nightbirdblue 27
I have to admit that I've sleep in the same bed with my ex. Her boyfriend knew about it before hand and was okay with it. He actually thought we were doing a lot than we actually did. He thought that perhaps there might of been a sort of **** buddy thing going on, but didn't mind since he felt it was helping sate her desires for a female lover. However, we really did nothing more than cuddle. We were best friends before and after our relationship. I don't really see a problem with this as long as the person you're in a relationship with and the person that your ex is in a relationship with knows about it and agrees with it. Rules should be set of course.
Rababco 29
Yeah, but OP's obviously not okay with this, he didn't ask her if it was alright either.
sara_wil 5
You ***HAVE*** to set boundaries. You eat HALF of a banana. Learn You're English!!!
Carrie_Chaos 28
your*
lincolnick4 19
Then there shouldn't be a problem dumping him. You deserve better OP.
Enslaved 38
Just think, after the OP dumps his ass, she'll also get those special sleepover invites!
olpally 33
Break up with him already!! Kick him in the stones for being a douche. :/
rebel501 4
Yaaa right in the stones
sugarbuzz13 5
Break up with his sorry ass
Cartera 10
Relax. They just talk about cute boys and gossip about girls they don't like.
Pesticides 19
yeah op, stop being so up tight about their tickle fights as well
allie2590 31
And that screaming you hear is just because they're watching a horror movie.
ILoveMyArm 15
The creaking you hear isn't what you think, they are just having a pillow fight.
TheDrifter 24
Eatin' ain't cheatin' isn't gonna get him out of this predicament.
CallMeMcFeelii 14
My ex girlfriend said something similar but it was "suckin' ain't ******", so I went out and blew a bunch of truckers.. She was not too happy.. Haha.
snugglesMcGee199 23
It took me a few seconds to get that.....now I can't stop laughing.....
emeraldisle 30
Steel panther is awesome.
CallMeMcFeelii 14
I doubt too many people know who steel panther are, 102. One of my favorites by them has to be fat girl. "There she blows" haha.
confundo 7
It's okay 102 I got the reference. My friend literally showed my some of their songs just last week. Including fat girl haha.
wonders8 3
Maybe you should make this current 'boyfriend' of yours, your ex boyfriend. Either way that sucks OP he just wasnt meant to be don't worry you'll find someone:)
Rddvl 11
I seriously hope you meant to write ex boyfriend..
Epikouros 32
What does it matter whether he shares his bed with an ex-girlfriend or an ex-boyfriend?
cieloalicia 16
It matters that he is dating someone different now...
JimmyRustle25 6
Why do you allow him to do that? Tell him you don't like that!
ksuth 25
It says OP "found out", so I highly doubt she was allowing it to happen.
JimmyRustle25 6
Oh, sorry. My mistake.
Wittledinosaure 7
Oh, your not supposed to do that...?
Clioo_fml 17
Why, is being empathetic and considerate new to you?
Clioo_fml 17
Oh, heh, I think you're right. I didn't even stop to think that #12 was sarcastic! Sorry...
Wittledinosaure 7
I guess you better work on your sarcasm detector
iAlissa 34
You can't always tell over the Internet, 71. On the flip-side, this is FML. It's pretty much nothing but sarcasm.
emeraldisle 30
12 - *you're
Cinn_fml 23
Books have way more context and character development than what most people would get from a simple FML comment. Especially a commenter you've not seen around before.