Today, I finished moving cross-country and signed a 13 month lease to be closer to my on-again / off-again boyfriend of the past five years. I showed up at his place to borrow his truck just as his "local" girlfriend was leaving. FML
RoadGoesOn4Ever tells us more.
I'm the OP. I originally moved away from him to finish my degree/get my Masters. We've been on and off because he runs private security for the government and spends the majority of his time overseas. I signed a 13 month lease because I wanted to live in a house and I have two big dogs. He was all for me moving out here. Long story short, IMO: the situation blows, we're over and done with, and I have an awesome new house/job in Vegas.
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itouchguy360 3
never move in with your on again/ off again boyfriend! It is a disaster waiting to happen!
MissSaraMarshall 0
kinda of a stupid thing, the move closer to a guy whose on-again/off-again. I'm guessing your desperate, or you don't know your self worth.
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Comments (76)
marc_with_a_c 3
You deserve it for not talking about it with him first.. unless you did and he agreed to it, then **** your life, but I highly doubt you did. either way it's your fault for dating a guy across the country for 5 years before deciding to do something abuot it
sweetpandora_fml 2
That's what you get for leaving everything behind and taking all the risks for an unstable relationship. I hope it'll never be "on" again this time. YDI and FYL for spending five years in this joke.
BikerMike 0
A five year on again off again relationship should tell you somthing. You were either too dumb or desperate to figure that out. I bet this guy will string you along for several more years before you are smart enough to figure it out.
Sappheyes 0
What exactly did she think he was doing during the "off" time?
Thecommish 0
It amazes me how dumb people can be. On again, off again = give up! Geez.
lostfaithinpppl 19
OP, YDI for many reasons already stated by others.
zungg 5
Let's say...We all have long term goal and short term need.
Starfire22 5
Wow he sounds like a keeper.... As stated by everyone else, if it's off/on again relationship you don't move for the relationship..
failuristic 3
Wooow. Yeah, on-again off again-boyfriends you DO NOT move in with or near to. YDI- have fun with that 13 month lease ;D
yesmynameismy 0
how did you know it was his gf