Today, I decided I need help, so I confessed to my mother that I'm bulimic. After she looked it up online she started screaming at me for "Wasting food that I'm not paying for." FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Today, I admitted to my parents that I have an eating disorder. Instead of trying to help, my mom stared at me and said, "Duh". FML
Wow, thanks, I'm cured
Today, I told my mom that I'm bulimic and have been for a few years, and that I needed help. She responded by saying, "Well that's clearly not working for you. Why don't you try anorexia?" She then patted me on the head, smiled, and walked away. FML
Today, I finally broke down and told my mom that I'd relapsed with my eating disorder. She told me to quit whining and eat a burger, because she didn't want to pay for another therapy session. FML
Today, my mother called me a "wasteful child" because I threw up my lunch. FML
Today, I felt sick to my stomach, so I told my mother I didn't want to eat dinner. She started accusing me of being anorexic, so I ate a little bit anyway to make her stop. I then threw up, only for her to take it as confirmation that I have an eating disorder. FML
Today, my morbidly obese mother gave me an angry lecture at dinner, saying without any trace of irony that my vegetarian diet is "unhealthy and utterly unacceptable". FML
Today, after I skipped dessert for the third day in a row, my mom cornered me and accused me of being anorexic. I'm actually not far off being clinically obese and I'm just trying to diet, but nothing I say will convince her. She wants me to see a psychiatrist about a disorder I don't even have. FML
Harsh words
Today, I told my mom that I think I’m anorexic and she told me she didn’t care. When I asked why, in disbelief she replied, "Honey, you are 5’3 and over 350 lbs, at this point you NEED to be anorexic." FML
ED much?
Today, my step-mom asked if I was having some eating issues. I admitted that maybe I've picked up some bad habits from friends and school. Now she won't stop bombarding me with self-help books and therapy websites. FML
Understanding
Today, after struggling with an eating disorder and hiding my symptoms for months, I got up the courage to tell my mom that I need help. Then she asked if an ice cream would make me feel better. FML
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mcgoldy 0
OP, I'm sorry 90% of the people in this thread are being assholes. I'm a recovering bulimic myself and I know how hard it can be. If your mom doesn't understand, please seek therapy so you have someone to listen to you and help you through these difficult times. And to everyone giving her crap for "wasting food middle Eastern kids could eat," it's not as though she's physically stealing food from underprivileged. Her not throwing up her pizza isn't going to buy one for a refugee camp. If you're so concerned about starvation, donate food or money or time to charities helping them instead of sitting around mocking someone on the internet. You might think you're Mother Theresa, but bitching on FML isn't putting food on anybody's plate.
oohla32 0
Lame. That sucks that your mother did not react how you needed her to. I hope she comes to be more supportive. I wish you the best in your recovery.
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binaryalice 0
HMM. my step sister suffered for many years from bulemia, but on the other hand op's mom sorta has a point. it kinda does waste food. im only saying this because it literally does, but i am not taking into account how serious the disorder is and how hurtful it may sound. :/
alexxe31 0
Well, in Bulgaria, having food on the table is a hard thing so YDI for puking it all back up. I ebasi srama bre, teia kiufteta otivat po diavolite vmesto da si gi hapne niakoi sladko sladko. Ako ne gi iskash, prashtai mi gi v Kanada xD
Alitsia88 4
lol, you took the words outta my mouth!!
saraa615 0
Bulimia, Anorexia, and EDNOS are serious, and shouldn't be laughed at. It isn't the OP's fault. Eating disorders are psychological disorders and it takes a lot of hard work, time, dedication, a loving & supportive family/friends, and a professional to treat it. I would know. I've suffered from both Anorexia and Bulimia at different stages in my life.
Daddys_Defect 0
All these people who are being assholes don't know what going through an eating disorder is like. They are just so miserable in their own pathetic lives that it makes them feel better to say mean things to people. But remember, they are probably pathetic fat ugly losers who sit behind their computer all day playing games and setting up fake accounts on chat sites to hook up with girls they will never meet but always dream about. You are beautiful the way you are. Remember that. You don't need to change anything for anyone. Be persistent if you are serious about needing help. Download info off the web about WHY people have eating disorders and give it to your mom. Make it clear that you want to stop being bulimic. It will take a while for her to understand. Turst me. I've had to deal with it for 3 years. Don't give up, and don't let anyone get you down. You can do it.
YouDontFuckWith 0
Stop wasting food **** or ill eat you...out
Kat125 0
good luck with recovery :) it must have taken alot to tell your mom that, so props for that! its sucks she reacted like that though, I hope everything works out
anon85 0
I came out as Bulimic 2 years ago, 'recovered' and am 'relapsing'. whatever. I have been puking up everything (almost EVERYTHING) I have eaten since 2001. I am 24. Good luck to you, and I hope all goes well with your recovery. It sucks, and it will be one of the most difficult thing u'll have to do. Again, good luck.
britnisima 0
I am currently dealing with the same thing. I applaud you on your decision to get help because its harder than a lot of you people know.
gigi89paris 0
rape happens to people , molestation happens to people, death, unimaginable stress and hardships break people and the only way they find relief from such catastrophic pain, is to hurt themselves in another way. it doesn't make sense but it makes them feel better.
morthug 11
I used to have bulimia....