Today, I broke up with the guy I was seeing because he has a bad temper. He refused to believe me and decided that the best way to prove me wrong was to completely destroy my newly built house, inside and out, while I was at work. FML
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hi_im_ughlee 19
Hey, guys! I'm OP. I'm glad most of you are supportive about this! Charges have been filed and he will be sued for all damages. He actually did break in, and he broke all the windows and doors, smashed all the lights and mirrors, took a hammer to the brick outside and the walls inside, and destroyed my deck. I had mini cameras installed to make sure no one would steal anything while the house was still being worked on, so I've got irrefutable proof that it was him and slowly but surely he will be brought down.
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lvg_fml 10
Involve the police. Someone capable of that is a criminal and may decide to go further and take it out on you
TacoloverSWE 23
Put a restraining order on him. With a temper like that he surely wont be glad you broke up with him in the future.
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Comments (100)
meg13rocks 26
And he wonders what you mean by a bad temper? Sorry OP, FYL.
liv1222 29
Press charges . Sue the hell out of him for ALL the damages. Plus a restraining order as #2 said. He's ******* crazy.
TacoloverSWE 23
Put a restraining order on him. With a temper like that he surely wont be glad you broke up with him in the future.
splinteredApple 36
I'm sure more than a restraining order is necessary. Her ex-boyfriend vandalized her property, and (assuming OP locked her doors) broke into her house. So that's vandalism, breaking and entering, and who knows what else he did.
ImmortalSyn 17
2- skip the restraining order and go straight to the cops. What he did is a felony and I doubt a person like that would listen to a restraining order.
Iamfiredog 5
A restraining order is just a paper it has very little to back it up
Googolman 29
A restraining order? I think a prison sentence is in order.
Tball22 7
not necessarily. she never said they didn't live together. might only be a misdemeanor and if he gets off easy then he'll be even more pissed.
lvg_fml 10
Involve the police. Someone capable of that is a criminal and may decide to go further and take it out on you
friday9733 11
The guy probably already tried to.
putitinpark 7
Wow. So... We talking like actual parts of the building ruined, or things in and around the house?
vasili123 5
File a law suit and a restraining order or you can go f*ck up his house either way it could be a win win
SwedishMaria 16
Yeah, because doing the same to him is really the way to go..
Talonshere 14
win win!? She still got her house destroyed. That doesn't seem to be a winner.
RockstarJAy 16
I think what they meant by "win-win" was OP's boyfriend got to destroy her house while she would have gotten to destroy his.
chinaski7628 32
This isn't really a situation that needs revenge, especially if the guy is that violent and unstable. It needs the police involved. Why would you want to do anything that could possibly escalate the situation?
Tripartita 45
Well, at least you won't need a crane. You'll still to pick the broken ruins up again and mend your heart.
killmenow03 21
English. Do you know it?
Tripartita 45
¿Qué?
TigranPet 24
Can't win them all
Grayness_ 26
Where did you find him?? So he destroys your home, so you can know he doesn't have a bad temper. Because that makes sense.
max_dilbe 14
Go to the cops, sue that stupid f***, and then get a restraining order... Sorry about all this OP!!
superwhovian 16
Call the cops and press charges,
alicecooperfan 18
I'm glad you got away from him! Get the police involved and get a restraining order.