Today, I broke up with the guy I was seeing because he has a bad temper. He refused to believe me and decided that the best way to prove me wrong was to completely destroy my newly built house, inside and out, while I was at work. FML
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hi_im_ughlee 19
Hey, guys! I'm OP. I'm glad most of you are supportive about this! Charges have been filed and he will be sued for all damages. He actually did break in, and he broke all the windows and doors, smashed all the lights and mirrors, took a hammer to the brick outside and the walls inside, and destroyed my deck. I had mini cameras installed to make sure no one would steal anything while the house was still being worked on, so I've got irrefutable proof that it was him and slowly but surely he will be brought down.
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lvg_fml 10
Involve the police. Someone capable of that is a criminal and may decide to go further and take it out on you
TacoloverSWE 23
Put a restraining order on him. With a temper like that he surely wont be glad you broke up with him in the future.
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Comments (100)
Mathalamus 25
I'm kinda impressed that he managed to destroy an entire house. Maybe you should have him put down? I would.
FailStaff 15
That's what they make lawsuits for
hi_im_ughlee 19
Hey, guys! I'm OP. I'm glad most of you are supportive about this! Charges have been filed and he will be sued for all damages. He actually did break in, and he broke all the windows and doors, smashed all the lights and mirrors, took a hammer to the brick outside and the walls inside, and destroyed my deck. I had mini cameras installed to make sure no one would steal anything while the house was still being worked on, so I've got irrefutable proof that it was him and slowly but surely he will be brought down.
domolovesyoshi 33
I'm sorry about your house but I'm glad you have the proof.
Geckosrock99 33
Way to put him in his place OP! That'll teach him not to mess with you!
beeferjay 34
good job not telling the ex about the cameras. that is diabolical
Spongegirlcs 17
Oh thank goodness. You dodged a bullet there. That is actually a red flag to future domestic violence if he is willing to destroy your things like that. I'm sure you are aware of the since you did break up with him. Good luck OP! May you celebrate single hood with gusto!
Brandi_Faith 34
I'm so happy you're pressing charges and that you have proof he did it! These type of guys need to be shown that they are not above the law and not invincible. They walk around thinking their better and smarter than everyone else and that no one can touch them because of how "tough" they are. Nothing like a reality check and time spent with the police to bring them down. Sorry for your house, but it's nice to know that he'll be paying for it (or what he can) and that he'll be going down for it. I bet it almost makes it worth it...almost. Hope your place gets put back together quickly and that the charges and punishment go through fast!
tlnorman 18
Fantastic I'm sorry you had to deal with this but good on you for putting in the cameras.
countryguy91290 16
smart putting the cameras up. good luck by the way
marcranger 29
Holy hell, this week's FMLs and my own past history make me wish FML had some kind of Creepy Asshole Exes Wall of Shame. I wound up dropping charges against my thief of an ex due to fears of financial repercussions, though I did successfully get a restraining order against him and his parents. Good for you, OP, for sticking it to yours! I hope the courts wring him dry.
RoseCrystal 17
Good for you! Stick it to that son of a bitch!
Mcstud1y 30
Good luck OP
HnyBee13 26
I'm glad he only hurt the house and not you OP! The house can be fixed. You are irreplaceable!
False_Stupidity 42
Wow, he really proved you wrong didn't he! Glad it wasn't you although it sucks about your house.
zenrael 21
If I could say anything to you it would be to also file a restraining order, get a concealed carry permit (assuming you have morals,) and install an alarm. Never be alone with this person ever again no matter what they say. Recently my good friend's niece was stabbed and choked to death by her ex after breaking up with him. He also had violent tendencies which is why they broke up.
2013bchan41 20
Honest to god I hope they put him behind bars so that he doesn't do this to anyone else. You deserve so much better OP :(
Helldemon 32
Glad you had proof and hope you can get your place fixed back up quickly :)
screamviolenc3 19
So sorry to hear this happened, OP! Glad you dumped the asshole and have everything caught on camera.
bobbyguy 17
Hope everything goes well! Update us as to how everything goes. Good luck with this situation OP!
BestPosts 2
Sorry to hear that, it makes me very happy to hear you had cameras though.
obake_neechan 14
Glad you can nail him, OP. :D Best of luck!
hi_im_ughlee 19
Thanks!
zarrganaut 17
Bad temper? That's just borderline psychotic!
amileah13 26
Oh god. Thank god it wasn't you he took his temper out on, your body I mean. Sounds like he was heading down that path
tlnorman 18
Definitely OP dodged a bullet. If he can inflict this amount of damage on a building there's no telling what he would have done to her if she "pissed him off". He's clearly psychotic and I sincerely hope he goes to jail.
DoomSkuller 28
Damn, what a bastard
xxkrystalxx 14
Call the police and have him charged for destruction of property. Get a restraining order on him. And hell while your at it i would see if you can get your hands on some pepper spray. Someone like that might decide to come after YOU in the future.
nishimehta 21
Go and register a complaint. Get the shit outta him. Do not tolerate his tantrums!
takeittoem 8
Take it to the police, press charges - then SUE.