Today, I discovered that my fiance only got with me because he has a fetish for black women (he's white). That's the only reason he started dating me. Never mind my career or anything else. All that mattered to him was the color of my skin. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out why my ex of three years started an argument with me that quickly lead to our break-up. He said he would be talking to people of a different race to make life "easier." I should've seen the fact that he dislikes our own race from prior conversations. He ended up getting into a relationship two months later. FML
Today, it's been a year since the man I loved for more than a decade moved in with me. I felt so lucky at the time, only to suddenly notice more and more that he's a huge racist. Against MY race. Bye bye decades of my wasted time. FML
Today, after five years of being with my boyfriend, I found out that he is apparently very xenophobic. FML
Today, I got fired, apparently for being racist to black people. When I told my boyfriend, he couldn't stop laughing. He's black. FML
Today, my fiancé and his family accused me of being with him only because he's rich, refusing to go ahead with the wedding. I accepted his marriage proposal 4 years ago, when he was penniless and unemployed. FML
Today, I found out my fiancé is in the market for a new girlfriend. How? He used my credit card to sign up for 3 dating sites. FML
Today, I found out my husband only started to date me because he thinks I look like his daughter. She was 5 at that time. FML
Today, I found out that my fiancée wishes she'd never said yes when I proposed, as she is in love with another man, and has been hiding their relationship for years. FML
Today, my fiancé of two years told me he was bored of me and he'd just prolonged the engagement to see if anyone more interesting would come along in the mean time. He was upset because no one did. FML
Today, I found out my ex just got engaged to a girl he met 3 months ago, shortly before he ended our 5 year relationship. His reason for breaking up was that he didn't believe in marriage and couldn't be with someone who wanted to get married. Right. FML
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tiptoppc 21
I will say, the fact that my wife is a mix of 3 minorities, is a bonus. It surely pisses off my family in Louisiana. Knowing how racist they are, gives me joy to know I angered the bigoted rednecks that I’m ashamed to be related to. But I love my wife for many more reasons than that.
Jdr1020 1
Sounds to me like that he was objectifying her.
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Morten Bork 6
so he loves you for your skin color? so what? as long as he also loves everything else about you, what is the problem? you don't wear nails? color your hair? wear fancy clothes? just catch someone's eye. but you don't expect them to love you only for the nails, or the hair? do you? this is about the most ignorant conclusion I ever heard....
Jdr1020 1
Sounds to me like that he was objectifying her.
ellenness 14
it's not the same normal attraction - a fetish dehumanises and objectifies people.
clewis531 10
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White men are disgusting
tiptoppc 21
I will say, the fact that my wife is a mix of 3 minorities, is a bonus. It surely pisses off my family in Louisiana. Knowing how racist they are, gives me joy to know I angered the bigoted rednecks that I’m ashamed to be related to. But I love my wife for many more reasons than that.
lexxiasaurus 31
In my opinion your career also shouldn't matter when dating, but I pray you find healing and don't continue this relationship since you're only being fetishized ❤️🙏🏽