Today, I confronted my boyfriend about him and his female friend’s friendship making me uncomfortable. He responded by throwing the mother of all fits and punching a hole in the wall. He said I have to pay for the repair, because I "made him do it." FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my husband threw an epic tantrum about how “men are allowed to have female friends”, smashed stuff in the living room, for him to storm out and slam the door, making the house tremble. All I did was tell him that his friendship with his secretary made me uncomfortable. FML
Today, my boyfriend punched a hole in a door. This is on top of the broken handle, cracked sink top, dented fridge, and other holes in the wall he has also made. We are 4 months into our year lease. I don't think we are getting our $720 deposit back. FML
Today, I went through my boyfriend’s phone and saw texts between him and his female friend. I confronted him about it and smashed his phone to pieces. He seems genuinely more upset that he can’t talk to her anymore rather than me being mad at him or his expensive smartphone being broken. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me I had to get rid of my cats, or he would leave. He punched a hole in my wall when I told him I chose the cats. FML
Today, my boyfriend and roommate got into a fist fight over a magic trick. They ended up putting a huge hole in the wall that's going to be expensive to fix. We're renting my boss's house. FML
Today, my boyfriend starting going off on me, calling me a psycho, all because I opened our bedroom door while he was in there. FML
Today, my husband and I got into an argument. I tried to assault him with a laptop. He yelled, "Don't hit me with the computer." My apartment neighbor yelled through the wall, "Do what you gotta do, girl." FML
Today, my friend got a text showing his girlfriend cheating on him. Sounds like his FML, but he was at my house. He then worked his way through a bottle of my whisky and went into a drunken rage. He threw my furniture through windows, punched holes in the wall, and smashed stuff until I had to call the cops. FML
Today, I overheard my mom’s boyfriend viciously berating and verbally abusing her. I got in his face and started yelling that he can’t talk to her that way. He stormed out and we haven’t heard from him since. Now my mom is pissed and wants to kick me out for “ruining” her relationship. Sorry I guess. FML
Today, my boyfriend has never gotten along with my dad, but this afternoon during what I thought was a completely normal conversation, he just stood up, yelled he couldn’t take my dad anymore, punched him in the nose, dumped me, and drove away. FML
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Top comments
Doom_Kitty 14
Yeah...run! I mean, having friends of the opposite gender while you're in a relationship should be totally fine for both. That's the base of a working relationship: being together but also being an own personality with an own life. BUT: getting violent and blaming the partner is one of the biggest red flags he could wave so get out there and have contact with people who at least communicate as if they were adults^^
Michael Wood_279567485 8
I don't know whether there was anything untoward in that friendship ... but to be honest that is 100% irrelevant here, because there is ZERO justification for that outburst. If you feel safe doing so, it needs to be a conversation. Be clear that he needs to apologise and it NEVER happens again. If you don't feel safe having that conversation, you need to start making an exit plan. If he tries to justify his outburst without apologising, just walk.
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Comments (18)
Silver_helmet 10
Just run.
Anna Betts 9
So many red flags. Run.
mentalissues 12
Leave him!
Hempseed 27
Nah, dude. If I were you, I'd get the **** outta dodge. If he does this shit again, he might not aim for the wall.
PeaceSignQueen 6
RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!! Not kidding in any way shape or form!!!!!
Dylan Borg 12
"You made me do it" My abusive father used to say that while beating us. Get out while you still can.
MechanicalKid1 5
Run.