Today, my mom and dad were talking about how if I lost weight, I would be attractive and have guys all over me. My dad said, “That’s exactly what I’m worried about.” It took me a while to realize they both think I’m ugly. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I told my parents I wanted to try modelling. I thought that since I have such a low self-esteem, that it might benefit me, and make me feel better about myself and how I look. The first thing out of my dad's mouth was, "What? Why? You're ugly." Thanks dad. FML
Today, my aunt said that it looked like I lost some weight. I was pleased with this, since I've been trying to lose some. My mom, for some reason, thought it was insulting. She pulled me to aside to assure me that I most definitely don't look any skinnier. FML
Today, feeling very self-conscious about my looks, I told my mom I felt ugly and wished I could be as beautiful as her. She only said, "Yeah, I'm pretty, I wonder what happened to you." FML
Today, my drunk dad told me I'm smart enough that any guy could overlook the fact that I'm fat, but not smart enough that they could overlook how ugly I am. Gee, thanks. FML
Today, I came out to my parents. My mother laughed and, when I asked her what was so funny, she told me, "Well, most gays are attractive, muscular, funny and can dress very well. You're ugly, fat, boring, and have no sense of fashion. Good luck." FML
Today, my father decided to "prepare" me for the real world by telling me that I'm ugly. FML
Today, I asked my parents if the outfit I was wearing made me look fat. My mom looked at me and paused for a while; my dad said, "Honey, that outfit doesn't make you look fat. Your fat makes you look fat." FML
Today, while at my mom’s house, my mom told me that I need to seriously curb my food intake. Then I went to my dad’s house and he told me I need to gain weight. I can’t win here. FML
Today, after coming home from hanging out with a few friends, my mom told me that I shouldn't hang out with them any more. Why? Because "they are way hotter than I am and I'll never get a boyfriend if I'm always the ugly one in my group." FML
Today, during a conversation with my in-laws, I opened up about my insecurities concerning my looks. My mother-in-law responded, "But you're not beautiful." She then repeated it. FML
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anRNsLife 11
I think you misunderstand. They think you are so pretty that if you lose some weight they are going to have to stand by the door with weapons to keep the guys from stalking you. And they are probably very scared. So they don’t want to see that happen and don’t build up your confidence like they should. You do what YOU want and what makes you happy. You need to live for yourself and not for another soul.
Felice Godin 19
no parents should talk negative about their child negative words from a parents can have a lasting effect on the child
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RichardPencil 32
No, they think you're fat, and would be very attractive at a normal weight. I feel bad for ugly, fat girls. They can go through the hard work of losing weight, but it won't really make a difference.
anRNsLife 11
I think you misunderstand. They think you are so pretty that if you lose some weight they are going to have to stand by the door with weapons to keep the guys from stalking you. And they are probably very scared. So they don’t want to see that happen and don’t build up your confidence like they should. You do what YOU want and what makes you happy. You need to live for yourself and not for another soul.
Felice Godin 19
no parents should talk negative about their child negative words from a parents can have a lasting effect on the child
Beth Baskett 12
You must have misunderstood them. I didn't read anything about you being ugly. Your dad thinks you're pretty and doesn't want to have to worry about all the boys jumping on you. They might think you're overweight, but you know if you are. Don't be sad, sweetie. They love you.
Iamthebanzai22 21
OK, here's the thing. They said "overweight" but you chose to hear "ugly". It is not the same thing. Overweight means that the ball is in your court and there is a LOT you can do about that. Start with some basic things like walking around the block every day and maybe eating one healthy thing. Do you want to hear them having this conversation again next year? If not, do something about it rather than feeling sorry for yourself. Sorry, I don't mean to be hard on you and I know there are many pschycological reasons why people overeat but you have to take control of your life.