Today, I spilled my guts out to my fiancé about some insecurities I've been having. I then turned to look at him through tears at his expressionless face as he texted someone. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I spilled my guts to my girlfriend, saying I'm scared that all I do is upset her. I then had to sit through a speech about how upset she was that I hadn't told her sooner. FML
Today, I finally got up the courage to talk to my four-year boyfriend about how insecure I've been feeling in our relationship recently, and how I needed his support while I try to get my self-esteem back on-track. He fell asleep mid-conversation. FML
Today, I sat on my own testicles while having a serious and tenderly sweet discussion with my fiancée about our future together. We were both crying, but for very different reasons. FML
Today, I confronted my boyfriend after he received a text with a bunch of hearts on it. After arguing, turns out it was from me. FML
Today, I had a nervous breakdown. My life has been going down the drain and I called my boyfriend for comfort. I was crying my eyes out, finally getting everything off of my chest that has been bothering me. I thought it was quiet because he was listening closely. I was wrong. He fell asleep. FML
Today, I had a mental breakdown. Many things have been going completely wrong in my life, and I finally decided to let my boyfriend know about it. After about an hour of explaining and pouring my heart out, his response was, "I think we were better off as friends." FML
Today, I went to go meet my boyfriend at a restaurant to tell him it just wasn't working out. Before I could do so, he proposed. I had to tell him no, so he started to cry and ran out. Everyone looked at me like some kind of monster. FML
Today, while out shopping, my fiancé started talking to a cashier in a flirty manner as if I wasn't there, and casually referred to me as his housemate. I felt my heart break, but I'm too weak to bring it up with him. FML
Today, I wanted to text my girlfriend but lately we'd been at a loss for things to talk about. I thought, "Come on, she's your girlfriend, what's the worst that could happen." One hour and twenty two minutes later, I was single. FML
Today, my friend needed to talk out bad feelings. Then she urged me to open up as well. I hate doing it, but it only seemed fair, so I confessed my deep insecurities. Not only did she agree with everything, but she also helpfully added that I'm boring, have no life, and all my dreams are unattainable. FML
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Top comments
Levi2411 41
If this is frequent behavior, and I know you must really love him to be engaged so it'll be hard, you should seriously reevaluate the relationship. And he needs to know that isn't okay; if someone can't be there for your worst and provide comfort and support-- they have no business being there for your best. Talk to him, and if he still acts like he doesn't care, that's a serious red flag. Best of luck, OP. Everyone deserves someone that helps with their demons.
distortedcognition 17
Where do you people find all these douchebags?
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Levi2411 41
If this is frequent behavior, and I know you must really love him to be engaged so it'll be hard, you should seriously reevaluate the relationship. And he needs to know that isn't okay; if someone can't be there for your worst and provide comfort and support-- they have no business being there for your best. Talk to him, and if he still acts like he doesn't care, that's a serious red flag. Best of luck, OP. Everyone deserves someone that helps with their demons.
blondie45 21
Agreed! It won’t get any better when you are married...
loliloveoniichan 14
What if op's fiancé is the type of person that is always expressionless? Since I was a kid even though I got raised right I actually never had empathy for anyone even though I got taught that, altrough I knew how to act when someone I cared for was sad or stuff like that. You can't just break up with someone just because they don't seem to be touched by what you tell them.
real life problems 26
He doesnt care about you before you even got married. Good luck on that relationship if you decide to stay with him.
distortedcognition 17
Where do you people find all these douchebags?
weeping_willow 25
They’re everywhere
tounces7 28
Toxic people are almost always attractive and good at sex. So they lure in a lot of victims.
bluhbluhbluh 14
The scumbag alert is strong with this one.
123Puppy 33
He's not good enough for you. You deserve someone better! I'm sorry OP!
pjsr 33
Oh, I’m sorry. I mean... Wait, what did you say?
lifeis4me 20
I think it would be best to start distancing yourself from him so you can prepare for a well-needed breakup.
tounces7 28
You aren't married yet. Still time to change your mind.
wtfdaemon 3
Drama queen shenanigans. I'm guessing that he paid dutiful attention the first ten times or so you played this card, and that he's ******* sick of it by now.