Today, I was at a guy's house that I’d been seeing for a while. After watching a movie, I confessed that after these past few times we’ve hung out, I’ve started to catch feelings. He looked at me and said, "I actually don’t think I want anything serious, but are you down to be friends with benefits?" FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I casually hooked up with a guy with no strings attached. Later, we had a great conversation and I suddenly realized that I have feelings for him. He wants nothing even close to a relationship and probably doesn't like me back. FML
Today, it's been 3 months since I've been talking to a guy. He told me that he doesn't want the responsibility of being in a relationship. He likes me and would still like to have sex, but not ready right now for something serious. FML
Today, the person I was seeing asked to be just friends. A few hours later, they tried to talk me into having sex. FML
Today, one of my friends confessed his love for me and said he wanted to be more than friends. Jaded by guys who only wanted one thing, I pushed him away saying, “Oh really, is that what you think you need to say to get in my pants?” He frowned and stormed off. Later, I found out he really did want a relationship. FML
Today, I finally got past my anxiety and confessed my feelings to the guy I like and have been intimate with. He responded that he just still wants to be close friends with me and still bang me monogamously, but with no relationship. FML
Today, I had a date with a guy I’ve known casually for a few weeks. Everything was OK, until he asked me to come back to his place because he had something “to share with me.” Apparently, he’s double jointed, because his mouth reaches below his waist. He even finished. FML
Today, I was talking to a guy I've recently started developing feelings for. We've been talking for a while, but he revealed that he wasn't being serious with anything we've been talking about, and didn't have any feelings for me. FML
Today, after I confessed my feelings towards my long time crush two weeks ago and was rejected, he messaged me asking for a quick fuck, with no strings attached. I guess that’s all I am good for now. FML
Today, I was hanging out with a guy friend I hadn't seen for ages. The sexual tension was off the charts. We were making out and think were progressing, hands were roaming to both nether regions when I freaked out and blurted out, "But aren't we just friends?" We then sat and watched TV. FML
Today, the guy I was hooking up with said he wasn’t “looking for anything serious.” That’s not what he told me when I agreed to the hookups with a promise of becoming something more. When I mentioned this to him, he said, “Well, that was before I knew what you looked like naked.” FML
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QueenSaru 28
I mean, this isn't really a FML or YDI to be honest? You both clearly want different things so you go your separate ways. Do NOT go the FWB route unless that's truly all you want, because it's unlikely he's going to suddenly feel differently and it's just going to hurt you in the long run. Thank him for his honesty and stop seeing him.
RichardPencil 32
Nope. Leave now while there's still time. It's the least bad ending you can expect.
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QueenSaru 28
I mean, this isn't really a FML or YDI to be honest? You both clearly want different things so you go your separate ways. Do NOT go the FWB route unless that's truly all you want, because it's unlikely he's going to suddenly feel differently and it's just going to hurt you in the long run. Thank him for his honesty and stop seeing him.
cuz803 46
Better luck next time around. I suggest not being friends with him anymore since you two have different motives and keep searching for someone more worthy. I had to unfriend my former best friend who wanted friends with benefits with me years ago. She was aggressively sex addict and would call me pleading for sexual interaction. It was a toxic mess that had to be cleaned up by cutting ties with her. Highly recommend you distance yourself from him.
RichardPencil 32
Nope. Leave now while there's still time. It's the least bad ending you can expect.
Silver_helmet 10
"No, it does not work for me. You are honest and that's appreciated." Then leave and find peace to heal.
Brightside86 31
Props to him for being so honest, many would have strung your along.
magnumpeyote66 6
Just **** him. like a lot. the human body works that way more often then not. the more you kiss hug and **** the more attached and more feelings you get. I say try it. never know may change his feelings.