Today, after I offered my boyfriend of a couple of months to come stay at my place for a few days, he turned up with suitcases… along with his 2 children, who he'd never mentioned having before, despite one of them being a toddler. They seem intent on staying a while, so I'm wondering what to do now. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my boyfriend asked me to go to his parents' house for the weekend. He didn’t tell me until after we’d arrived that all his siblings and their SO's would also be coming. His parents live in a 2 bedroom, one bath house. So far there are 16 people here and he’s refusing to drive me back home. FML
Today, I came home to find my husband allowed several of his family members to move in without even asking me. His parents are in the spare room, his brother and wife are in my den and they expect me to make my daughter share her bed with two older cousins. I’m ready to take the kids and leave. FML
Today, my boyfriend and I moved into our own house. He proceeded to invite his parents to stay for the week. The same parents we've lived with for the past 5 years. FML
Today, my boyfriend informed me that the mother of his children, from whom he is not divorced yet, is moving back into his house because she broke up with her boyfriend and has nowhere to go. FML
Today, it’s only been a few months but I’m seriously considering leaving my husband. His kids were fine during weekend visits, but now that they live with us they’ve become absolutely insufferable fucking monsters. He won’t discipline them, and when I try they, tell the most awful lies about me. FML
Today, it's now the third week my boyfriend's best friend has been sleeping on our bedroom floor because he doesn't want to face the consequences of his actions back at his parents' place. My boyfriend sees no problem with this, and says he can stay and live off us as long as he wants. FML
Today, my sister is upset that I won’t upturn my entire life by letting her kids stay at my house 4-5 days a week. She decided to move in with her boyfriend after one month, before even introducing him to her kids. Now he’s decided he doesn’t like the kids, so she wants me to keep them. FML
Today, my parents left on a trip. I wanted to invite my girlfriend over for a few days so we could spend them together. Then my grandparents turn up, "just for a few days, until your parents return, so you won't be all alone in this big house." FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend of two years has children. Not one, not two, but three. Not with one, two, but three women. FML
Today, I’m living out of a suitcase this week, so that my ex-boyfriend, who moved across the country and was going to stay with me for a little while, can quarantine in my house with his girlfriend, who I requested wasn’t in my house in the first place. They didn’t ask, just decided while I wasn’t home that it was okay. FML
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Anderling 33
Sounds like he withheld information specifically so that you would feel obligated to let him stay since you already agreed. That’s not good. Definitely check tenants’ rights in your area and get him out.
Chazzster 32
Suggestion - Obviously boyfriend lied or at the very least withheld important information so he could move in with you. It’s over - Kick him out as soon as possible. He’s not suddenly going to become an honest and trustworthy person. The sooner you get him out of your life the easier it will be.
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Anderling 33
Sounds like he withheld information specifically so that you would feel obligated to let him stay since you already agreed. That’s not good. Definitely check tenants’ rights in your area and get him out.
RichardPencil 32
Become a mommy?
Chazzster 32
Suggestion - Obviously boyfriend lied or at the very least withheld important information so he could move in with you. It’s over - Kick him out as soon as possible. He’s not suddenly going to become an honest and trustworthy person. The sooner you get him out of your life the easier it will be.
dreams2383 20
Tell him right now the date her needs to be gone. Set boundaries now.
Crowned Sataness 12
Do NOT let him stay, no matter how much it kills you to put children out. Once he's there long enough to establish residency, you're screwed
WhataStrangeTripThisIs 24
You're so right about this. I guess it may vary by location, but I've had this happen with a long-term boyfriend that simply refused to leave, and the cops told me they couldn't do anything unless I formally evicted him. They even told me that I could go live in a shelter in the meantime if I didn't feel safe with him around.
Taurus_ChicKa 37
Time to talk to him about it, then tell him that the invitation was for him alone, not with his unmentioned kids.