Today, I was dumped by my boyfriend because he “wasn’t ready for a serious relationship” after being in a serious relationship with me for over a year. FML
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Today, I am pregnant, and my boyfriend dumped me, saying that he didn't want to be stuck in anything too serious. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me, saying, "I'm not ready for a serious relationship." We're supposed to get married in a month. FML
Today, I was dumped. My boyfriend was too afraid to break up with me, so he sent the girl he cheated on me with. FML
Today, I found out my ex-boyfriend is getting engaged. He broke up with me five months ago because our relationship was too serious for him. FML
Today, the man I loved broke up with me, because he felt like his feelings for me were not enough for a serious relationship. As much as I'm thankful that he didn't drag me along, this hurts like hell. FML
Today, I told my boyfriend that I loved him. Being dumped wasn't the reaction I was expecting. FML
Today, I dumped my boyfriend before school for not putting enough effort into this relationship. He said okay, and then HE WAS WALKING WITH A WHOLE NEW GIRL AT SCHOOL. FML
Today, my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months when he told me I’m the only person he’s ever been with who’s made him feel safe and able to be vulnerable and open up for the first time… and made him realise he has trauma to work through. He then dumped me on the spot so he could work through it. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years proposed to me. Less than two minutes later, he decided he wasn't ready for the commitment. After I had already said yes. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me over something that happened 5 years ago. We've only been together for 2 years as of this July. FML
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Chazzster 32
“It’s not you, it’s me”… People often try to avoid confrontation (at least at first) when breaking up. They may not actually tell the real reasons for the breakup because they don’t want to argue and fight. It’s not entirely fair to the person being broken up with - But neither is trying to force someone to stay with you if their heart isn’t in it… The time to work on a relationship isn’t when it’s over - Relationships require constant give and take while they are ongoing. In the long run every relationship requires both parties to be happy with the relationship, although just as with anything in life there will be good days and bad days… You cannot force someone to love you no matter how much you want that. Boyfriend is now your ex…
lalalaila777 24
sometimes we don't know we're not ready for things until we're knee deep in it. it isn't fair to assume that people will never change their mind or heart.
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Chazzster 32
“It’s not you, it’s me”… People often try to avoid confrontation (at least at first) when breaking up. They may not actually tell the real reasons for the breakup because they don’t want to argue and fight. It’s not entirely fair to the person being broken up with - But neither is trying to force someone to stay with you if their heart isn’t in it… The time to work on a relationship isn’t when it’s over - Relationships require constant give and take while they are ongoing. In the long run every relationship requires both parties to be happy with the relationship, although just as with anything in life there will be good days and bad days… You cannot force someone to love you no matter how much you want that. Boyfriend is now your ex…
lalalaila777 24
sometimes we don't know we're not ready for things until we're knee deep in it. it isn't fair to assume that people will never change their mind or heart.
RichardPencil 32
Couldn't you just have downgraded to a silly or frivolous relationship?
DLBL 23
He didn't want to say it, but he means he wasn't ready for a serious relationship with YOU. I've been through this. Be glad it was only one year and not a longer time.