Today, I found out that my girlfriend of two years broke up with me because she wants to become a lesbian. I also learned that she's coming to my house for dinner tonight. My sister is her date. FML
I agree, your life sucks (45637) - you totally deserved it (1813)
On 07/05/2009 at 12:46pm - love - by fd_uplife (man) - United States (Massachusetts)
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dude, that sucks. maybe u can join them one night if u get my drift. hopefully u live in Arkansas and it won't be too weird
the only thing that sucks is that she dumped him other than that i find it totally hot
#95 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:16am by deaththekid
Uhm, join in. On a threesome. Featuring his own sister?!?!
#134 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:57pm by cheesefest
That sucks. But seriously. If she didn't break up with you it wouldn't be fair to either of you.
Dating you sister must be little weird, though.
She could have at least waited.
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At the very leastyou don't have to worry about some dude droppin a sick load on your sister's face :-D
#4 - On 07/05/2009 at 4:58pm by cobraclutch
Thank you for the most beautiful image you just formed in my mind.
Added to the many mental scars i already have.
[Even though this disgusts me, is it true that it's good for your skin? Just curious!!!]
FYL dude, FYL.
#4 - Do you really sit around worrying about that? I think you have some jealousy issues w/ your sister.
haha supposedly it's true...but it's one of those earthly hidden secrets. no one is really down to try it anyways lol
#163 - On 07/13/2009 at 1:25am by Young_Sparta
Look at your average pornactress. Most of them resemble more of an ass than a face, so my guess is no
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I would say there is potential for a threesome, but only if your from the south and can dig that sort of thing
#5 - On 07/05/2009 at 4:59pm by TheJawsman
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YDI for not licking her pussy enough.
#8 - On 07/05/2009 at 5:13pm by I_am_stupid_also
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"She wants to become a lesbian" -- See? It is a choice.
no, in this case, it was a choice
it's not a choice every single time.
#12 - On 07/05/2009 at 5:17pm by FXCKMYLIFE
Yes because using one person and one situation is a great way to go about making a ruling on a group or topic as a whole *sarcasm*
#16 - On 07/05/2009 at 5:29pm by Moviefreak321
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it is a choice
#23 - On 07/05/2009 at 5:54pm by aaaaa12345
I'm pretty sure he did nto mean she literally decided to become lesbian.
#25 - On 07/05/2009 at 5:58pm by thatguyoverthere
she probably tried dating him but found she
was more into the same sex.
Theres always 2sides of the story dumb ass
DONT assume.
#33 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:24pm by ilovetaylor
NO NO NO. She didn't choose, she came out.
You have a guy who's JEALOUS that his girlfriend realized she was actually hot for his sister.
He claims that she chose, because his cocky ego's smashed.
#44 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:53pm by xTIGERxLILYx
There are a few possibilities:
1. The girl has been a lesbian all along, and for some reason the OP decided to report it incorrectly.
2. She's actually straight, but wants to become a lesbian. Unfortunately, this probably won't work.
3. She's bisexual (or bicurious, or whatever your preferred label is) and is beginning to explore her attraction to other women.
4. Other.
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It is a choice every single time.
#115 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:20am by Maroonblood
homosexuality is caused by an excess of the opposite hormones. In her case, it's an excess of testosterone that was transmitted to her in the womb. it is not genetic, and it is most certainly not a choice.
She chose to play games and then came out because she was too cowardly to be truthful to herself and him. Of course he's jealous - his girlfriend led him on.
#146 - On 07/06/2009 at 7:45pm by Leaveittosteven
@115
You're probably a troll but let's assume you aren't. If who you are attracted to is a choice, there wouldn't be many gay people now and there wouldn't have been any a hundred years ago. Why would you choose to be something that is hated by most of the world?
Worst excuse on her part ever. You don't choose to be a lesbian. Either:
- She never was straight
- She's bi and wanted your sister more than you
- She's a lying bitch, and she somehow thinks this is a way to cover up... something
- She's a lying bitch who thinks being gay is automatically cool
Or she's a teenager that just discovered her liking for girls.
Most girls go through a denial period before they admit to themselves that they're gay.
hey, 60 years ago people were saying no to interracial marraige.
so stfu. besides, it has nothing to do with this fml.
there is a huge difference between freedom from physical persecution and bondage and petty verbal discrimination toward another orientation.
therefore, i think your comparison is moot
@86, um no there isint. Speaking as someone who deals with both, it's tragic and morbidly offensive ppl dont think the persecution of gays is similar to the persecution of other races. While im the first to say the civil rights mvt is /= to gay rights, the struggle for acceptance and equality is very similar. being gay is obviously not a choice...if it is that would mean being straight is a choice...and when exactly do you make this choice anyway? Yeah yo don't. around of even b4 puberty your sexuality shows itself to you. you realize that girls that were icky, suddenly don't look so bad anymore; for gays they realize that they are attracted to members of the same sex.
#128 - On 07/06/2009 at 5:20am by Hard_Echoes
of course, i see your point.
i meant that even though both discriminations progressed similarly, and both can have a detrimental effect on someone, enslaved people were shipped across oceans in infected and overcrowded boats. Many of them died. The persecution toward homosexuality primarily affects the mind unless people take it too far like in schools or whatever. Something of a "sticks and stones" deal for me
If shes lesbian
she doesnt want dick.
Sorry.
That only happens in pornos and if shes a slut.
#34 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:28pm by ilovetaylor
What do you mean decided to become a lesbian, it's not a choice did she say this or did you imply it?
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It's a choice
#116 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:23am by Maroonblood
Lol you are retarded. Being gay is not a choice. It is not like I could just TURN (randomly) gay. And even if I could, I never would! You made it seem as if out of nowhere she becomes gay. Now that is off my chest....... Your own sister? That is messed up and traiterous. Lmao though (no offense!!!!).
#28 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:08pm by eli_guerra
Threesome!!!!!!!
Unless u think it's gross to fuck ur sister
#29 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:08pm by soccerboy101
....... and i guess you think that's cool?
Just like, I'm assuming if your brother wanted to fuck you, you'd be fine with that too?
#45 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:57pm by xTIGERxLILYx
You live in Massachusetts: Get used to it. It's very hard to find a nice straight girl especially in Northampton.
#30 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:12pm by RelayGraham
"wanted to become a lesbian" There's the problem. You don't just want to be a lesbian. It's in your brainwork if you're gay or not
You can have sex without being attracted to someone, dumbshit. You can't CHOOSE to be attracted to people of your own gender. You just ARE.
# 38... Your username is "smartornot"?
Clearly your comment tells us just which one you are.
#47 - On 07/05/2009 at 7:02pm by xTIGERxLILYx
Yeah you can choose to have sex with the same gender but you can't choose if you're actually attracted while doing it. Do your research, genius. :]
#49 - On 07/05/2009 at 7:17pm by wheels_forever
Sure, engaging in the behavior is a choice. Desiring is not. You do not choose what you're attracted to.
#50 - On 07/05/2009 at 7:19pm by SomeonePosting
it would be best to ignore smart_or_not.
That thing is on EVERY POST involved with the Words "gay or "lesbian""
starting shit...
CONSTANTLY...
#53 - On 07/05/2009 at 7:41pm by Jazzywrites007
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Oh my gosh. Finally someone talks some sense. GAY IS A CHOICE.
#56 - On 07/05/2009 at 8:12pm by xClarkGable
xClarkGable- Do you get a kick out of ignoring all of the logical, sound arguments posted before you in order to spout your nonsense and offer no reasonable support of your own?
Depends on who's reading it...
If homosexuality isn't a choice, then there's nothing wrong about it, right?
if it wasnt a choice then there would be nothing wrong with it...but i would have to say that i have to go against the majority on this one.
i dont get people when they say if someone dates a person the opposite sex and then dates a person of the same sex and then goes back to dating someone of the opposite sex is not a choice. example: so what happens when a person has bad experiences with the same sex and switches dating the same gender. then realizes that it isnt what it is all what he or she thought. then finds a great opposite sex partner and is happy. dont yell hate words just kindly state your opinion.
#71 - On 07/05/2009 at 9:53pm by hotjavalava
So according to your logic, you MUST have sex when you wake up, but you get to choose who with? Sorry, but sex in general is a choice, so your point is retarded 38.
#72 - On 07/05/2009 at 9:54pm by Awesomesaurus
If you guys actually knew the answer to whether or not we're born gay or not then you would've had it published and there wouldn't be a debate about it. Personally i don't care and i don't see why others should care either.
...oh wait. There is one group of people that do care. Religious nuts. Because in some old ass fairytale book someone wrote that they don't like men sleeping with other men. Thus that's why people actually give a rat's ass if people are born gay or if it's a choice. Because if they're born gay, then that's totally fucked up because "god" basically condemned that baby to hell before it was even given a chance. But if being gay is a choice... well now... that would imply gay people are wicked and knowingly practising evil.
#74 - On 07/05/2009 at 10:02pm by TuxedoBento
hey that is very offenseful. no one even brought up religion and you have to go on your religion (most likely mean christianity) messes up the world rant. dont start ranting that till either someone tries to use religion in a wrong manner or you have proof that there is is no God.
#80 - On 07/05/2009 at 10:51pm by hotjavalava
Do YOU have proof that god exists? FYI: Saying "the bible said so" isn't proof. In that end, your argument for the existence of god fails. I can bash any religious nut all I want until they get the fuck out of government,politics and keep their stupid beliefs to themselves. Till then? BASH AWAY!
#96 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:19am by bollywood_rocks
/sigh. First, the word is: 'offensive'. Second, TuxedoBento has a point.
However blurry the line between religious and social ideology becomes, the argument of homosexuality being a choice or not is rooted in *religious* ideology.
I assure you, the government would collect taxes from straight or gay couples just the same.
It's the folks claiming homosexuality is an affront to their divine entity, that gave birth to the idea that homosexuality is a choice. As Tuxedo stated- were god to have created homosexuals, 'it' would be in error. Ergo it must be a human decision to 'choose' to pursue their wicked, sweaty man-desires.
...I say man-desires because I have yet to find any passage condemning lesbians. But I'm sure it's in there. Likely hidden amongst adulterer stoning and hot daughter(s!)-on-father-action. I'll get back to you guys on this one.
Remove the divine entity's will from the equation, and the only reason people give a flying f is because they don't want their homosexual associates to like them "that way". Which... is no more different or awkward than an opposite-sex friend developing romantic feelings that you unaquit.
...and yes, unaquit is a word, despite a certain spell-checkers' saying otherwise >.>
#97 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:21am by justanotherhuman
You must stfu simply because you used the word "offenseful".
#103 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:38am by Jazzywrites007
That's the point, someoneposting. She WANTS to be a lesbian - lesbian here meaning a female that engages in homosexual behavior. Have you ever met a lesbian that didn't?
Then they should decide to mix it up abit, but it has nothing to do with choice, they may decide to pursue option 2 due to option 1 being pure crap, and you could say the same about gays, they could decide to have a straight relationship to hide it, or whatever the case maybe
#118 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:35am by Insomniatic
in reply to #71 hotjavalava:
in my world it's usually that way: i fall in love with someone or begin to develop feelings or what you want to call it. that is the reason why i want to date this person and not because i made bad experiences with another person. and because i fall in love with a person and not with a sex, it can be a man or a woman i fall in love with. so it isn't a choice. when you are bixexual you simply fall in love with a person regardless of the persons gender.
And whats wrong with the notion above (It's a choice because I like to fuck women)
is that straight women can fuck other women and not be considered lesbian.
Lesbians are those things that Fuck the same sex
Love the same sex
Kiss the same sex
Passionately fight with the same sex
Make decisions with the same sex
Buy a home with the same sex
Share pets with the same sex
Adopt with the same sex
You get my point.
More importantly, it is not just about hot sex.
It's a feeling that can't easily be described; much like straight unions...
#145 - On 07/06/2009 at 7:32pm by Jazzywrites007
uh thats fucked up of ur sister, but if ur girlfriend decided shes more attracted to women then she does have a right to be happy.
Damn I don't get people! How did she not choose to become a lesbian. This is messed up. For all you people saying she did not choose to be a lesbian you are a dumbass! But anyway that really sucks dude.
#40 - On 07/05/2009 at 6:37pm by Josh223344
She "wants to"? Would be funny if it weren't for the whole "breaking up and dating the ex's sister" stuff
#51 - On 07/05/2009 at 7:29pm by fenrisulfr
wow thats really lame. yea in this case its a choice. shes one of those stupid bicurious shizznits.
i hate bicurious people. i think its stupid.
either your straight or your not. theres no "curious" in that whatsoever.
now me, im a lesbian so dont be thinkin that im all against gays
#55 - On 07/05/2009 at 8:05pm by StfuHomophoes
Not everybody is lucky enough to know from an early age that we're different. A lot of us do wind up going through a phase where we have to question who we are.
That said, it does seem to be a fad for kids to go through a "bi-curious" phase just to be cool, or to explain away otherwise normal experimentation, so you're kinda right. But be nice to those who didn't figure it out as fast as you did.
#91 - On 07/06/2009 at 12:09am by theintrollama
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Who the hell would choose to be a lesbian? She's crazy. I hate these posts, because so many people think you're born gay. :D
#57 - On 07/05/2009 at 8:14pm by xClarkGable
It's not your fault, she probably was always lesbian but wanted to try having a straight relationship. FYL for her rebounding with your sister, though...
At least you can watch hot lesbian sex >:3
#61 - On 07/05/2009 at 8:21pm by kirbyfan23
this only sounds like a good idea if she's not your sister. think it through bro.
#77 - On 07/05/2009 at 10:20pm by worstpersonalive
@ thejawsman: fuck you!!! I am from the south and incest is just as nasty here as it is in the north!!! Try actually learning from something other than family guy asshole!!!
so is it just me or is the concept of a threesome with your sister just a little sick or maybe even a lot. and to the person who said " watch them have hot lesbian sex" really thats just as bad watching your sister get it on. but dude thats does suck
#65 - On 07/05/2009 at 8:57pm by VA_longboarder
hahah "she wanted to become lesbain" hahah you got to be kiddin me!!!
good thing she dumbed your dumb ass...
who would decide to be gay/lesbain..
its life!!!
you dont decide...
you are or you arnt!!!
yeah and be she with you sister to rub it in your face...
hahah yeah right...
how about look some shit up...
dont be so air headed and relize!!!!
stupid fuck!!
#67 - On 07/05/2009 at 9:15pm by mrtoesnthings
there's some irony here in you calling him a dumb ass.
#76 - On 07/05/2009 at 10:17pm by worstpersonalive
oh dude that sucks! I would totally get revenge on my sister!
#68 - On 07/05/2009 at 9:22pm by vengeancegirl
so she slept with you and your sis? who's next, your mom?
#70 - On 07/05/2009 at 9:44pm by deliapearl
gross generalization- but in the context of this FML: lol
#99 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:24am by justanotherhuman
you honestly have no idea how bad i feel for you right now ... lmao oh my god
#73 - On 07/05/2009 at 9:57pm by xij3ss
wow...what an image isn't there like a sibling rule that says your sister can't date your ex but if your sister is hot and your into that it could be a great night for you ;) but still fyl
Ummm... regardless of what his sister looks like, I really hope he doesn't think of her as hot. It's one thing to say you have an attractive family member. It's another to be attracted to them!
I can imagine you saying this. In my mind you're gritting your teeth.
#78 - On 07/05/2009 at 10:39pm by jewelzgalore
it really must suck to be you.
you shold get mad at your sister.
i wonder if you knew she was a lesbian.
Well. Welcome to the most awkward night of your life. Enjoy.
#82 - On 07/05/2009 at 11:04pm by bipolaradhdfml
many points here...
1- you can't become gay. you either get enough hormones in the womb, or you don't. science totally goes against the theory that it's a choice. if it wasn't, who in their right mind would want to be gay? if i had a choice, i'd be straight cuz i hate the critisim from douchebags that think "homosexuals are the devil!" but i don't, so i gave up fighting what my brain and heart have been telling me since elementry school.
2- your girlfriend might be following the whole "katy perry i kissed a girl" bullshit that makes half the teenaged straight girls my age make out with eachother cuz their BOYFRIENDS think it's hot. that's not gay. bi-curious at most. on the other hand, your girlfriend might be bi, or bi-curious.
3-and that's totally not cool of your sister, dating your ex like that.
thats my rant for the night.
by the way, gay christians do exist. we just live with the fact that we're breaking one of God's incy weensy rules. lying and cheating are worse things to worry about than love.
peace.
haha, THAT SUCKS.
and it must be sooo akward, I can't even imagine.
you must feel guilty that YOU turned her lez ;)
threeeeesome.
I doubt your girlfriend decided to "become" a lesbian. That's not how it works. More likely she just realized that she was attracted to women and not men, and realized that she wanted to be with your sister. You shouldn't blame her or get mad at her; at least she broke up with you first instead of resorting to cheating.
Still, FYL because I'm sure it hurts to have that happen.
So I suppose I 'chose' to have my entire (Catholic) family hate me, to be made fun of, to lose most of my (Catholic) friends, and to not be able to have many of the rights that straight people have, just because I 'felt' like becoming a lesbian? Ooh, what fun! I'm going to get a girlfriend and turn my entire life upside down, because I just want to! Awesome!
Seriously, no one would 'choose' to 'become' gay knowing what they're going to have to deal with once they're out. But, once you accept yourself for who you are, you find out who your real friends are, and you don't have to pretend anymore, which is always a relief. I'm quite happy being who I am, and nothing you can say will ever change that!
#89 - On 07/05/2009 at 11:35pm by maureen0789
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#89 - what rights are you missing out on?
Also, you say your family and friends are Catholic... If you are, too, you could have chosen a celibate life.
She doesn't have the right to marry the person she is most attracted to. Having the right to marry a guy is BS made up to justify a conclusion that has already been made.
Let me guess, you have never engaged in onanism and you have always kept the Sabbath holy.
#112 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:15am by I_am_stupid_also
#112 - ...So... She's missing out on a right that's total BS and, if I understand you correctly, meaningless?
She has a right to marry people she is not attracted to. So she has a right that is worthless to her.
She is denied what she really wants, which is the right to marry the person she would choose.
#119 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:51am by I_am_stupid_also
But you JUST SAID that getting married is "BS made up to justify a conclusion that has already been made."
Sorry, but the institution of marriage was created in part to properly bring children into the world. Gay couples can't do that.
Hich, Shut The Fuck Up, Dude.
You're not gay, and you don't know what gay means or feels like.
All You Can Do is speculate and most of the time speculation by an esteemed individual such as yourself is BULLSHIT...
For instance, if I look at a scantily clad girl and call her a slut and treat her as such I have made an observation without knowing WHAT issues she may be coping with and I am now treating her accordingly BASED ON my opinion which is undoubtedly unfair for her.
You, My Dear, and looking into the window of homosexuality and some FUCKED UP Idea that you possess makes you think that you can throw rocks through that window, bang down the door, and burn down the house just to get to the people inside and bludgeon them to death.
How's about you go focus on tht happy celibate life you possess.
My Opinion?
Maybe if you got some ass of your own occasionally you would leave everyone else alone.
K My essay is done now.
=)
#135 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:18pm by Jazzywrites007
Exaggerate much?
I was asking questions. I never used an insult, or a slur, or personally attacked ANYone. You say you're defending your ideals? So am I.
Don't try to make me the bad guy because because I question you - you're doing the same thing.
If marriage is for procreation and that is why gay couples can't marry, then infertile women and sterile men should not be able to marry, and women who have gone through menopause should not be able to marry, and couples who do not want children should not be able to marry...
#143 - On 07/06/2009 at 7:18pm by caticaticati
You seem mildly intelligent so I suggest you re-read your comments and realize what a condescending ass you were being.
You're not merely asking questions; What you are doing is challenging one person's Catholic upbringing and challenging homosexuality.
In reality, Your opinion isn't needed on either of those topics.
I never claimed innocence. I NEVER Said I was defending my ideals because I didn't rebuff those ignorant ass comments you made. But I suppose I'm a bad guy just like everyone else on Earth.
The only difference is that YOU are instigating.
#144 - On 07/06/2009 at 7:21pm by Jazzywrites007
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Because they decide to be gay. They're not born gay.
#114 - On 07/06/2009 at 2:18am by Maroonblood
... people are born gay just like people are born straight. it is not a choice, dumbass. i suppose you thought long and hard about which gender you would be with the rest of YOUR life? no. it is pure instinct.
People can't be "born gay" as this implies that there is some genetic determinant for homosexuality. It doesn't make evolutionary sense for nature to allow homosexuality, because two organism of the same gender can't produce offspring. If at sometime there was a "homosexual" gene it would have died off in that generation.
Well, at least if she's realized she's lesbian, it's better of her to go ahead and let you know than to keep leading you on for months or years.
This reply was like that time: /insert *any* Family Guy skit.
Please state your reasoning x-D
#101 - On 07/06/2009 at 1:26am by justanotherhuman
you've never had an elementary school crush? alot of the time it's obvious what your orientation is from a very young age, even with things that don't involve anything sexual.
I'm pretty sure that she can't just decide to be lesbian.
#121 - On 07/06/2009 at 3:15am by uberchicken
@109: Well, I did. I kissed a girl in my babysitter's basement when I was 5. Several times. It's something I have always known.
#123 - On 07/06/2009 at 3:31am by coopcas
I would just like to put forth that most of you are despicable.
If this was a girl who's boyfriend left her for her sister, you'd all be screaming bloody murder.
Instead you're screaming about how his girlfriend was with him, and he said she chose to become a lesbian.
Take a step back and look at how you judge differently, based solely on gender.
Yes exactly haha. Typical FML morons (read: white suburbanite Americans in general) defending people based on political correctness. His ex lied... She doesn't get a free ride because gays are typically persecuted. Who gives a damn? The complaint in this FML is this:
1. His ex led him on
2. His ex pretended to be straight when in fact she was pining for his sister
3. His sister is now dating his ex
4. He was betrayed both by his ex and his sister
5. Holy shit
#147 - On 07/06/2009 at 7:53pm by Leaveittosteven
The OP is not married. His girlfriend is free to choose who to go out with. The OP just needs to suck it up.
#150 - On 07/07/2009 at 2:08am by I_am_stupid_also
Well, you should really ask yourself why she decided to become a lesbian. ;)
But I agree FYL, your sister needs to learn her boundaries and lay off your ex's.
#139 - On 07/06/2009 at 5:56pm by OrgasmicTactic
For all you idiots who are arguing about homosexuality as a choice, gay rights...etc.:
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Seriously, no one cares and its completely irrelevant to the FML.....sooo....STFU plz
This is the funniest FML I read in a while. I'm sorry. Just bring a really really hot date and keep pointing out how hot and straight she is thought the meal
that is fucked ok your girlfriend likes girls but not your sister. and for your sister there is unwritten rules in my eyes you just don't do that. there are to many other girls out there,and people may say she is your girlfriend i don't care who she is. plain and simple you just don't do that !!! i will not being talking to my sister for a long while it's just me.
damn, if it wasn't ur sis u could watch or even do a threesome
#156 - On 07/07/2009 at 7:58pm by Squirrellord911
Haha! Lesbians for the win! Don't you know that lesbian sex is prefered to straight sex? Just sneak into their room one night, record it all, and BOOM! You're good for life!
When life gives you lemons make grape juice and let the world wonder how you did it.
#160 - On 07/10/2009 at 11:41am by epicFAIL_Sometim
i know how you feel.
this sort of thing happened to me about a month ago.
it hurts so bad.
and it can be embarassing.
#167 - On 08/06/2009 at 3:46pm by forgetme_not
How do you just magically raise your testosterone? I've never heard of anyone CHOOSING to actually "become" a lesbian.. usually girls trying to get attention or fit in.
I know for a fact that people don't just up and choose to be gay/lesbian. I live in Alabama and grew up with my parents and older brother and pretty much my whole family going to the Church of Christ about everytime the doors were open. I was raised to trust in God and the plan he had for my life and I was also raised to think that homosexuality is wrong and that it was a choice... But that's not right. I love my family and I would never choose to purposefully hurt or disappoint them but I had to be true to myself and stop lying to everyone including me. I came out a few years ago when I was 20 almost 21. And the speeches I got about God and how I was hurting my whole family with my "choice"... I will never get over what that felt like. If I could choose... why would I choose to hurt my family... But it came down to them having to deal with or me be unhappy and alone for the rest of my life. I chose dealing with it and now my parents havent really come around totally but they do ok... better than I expect sometimes and I'm in love with the most wonderful, beautiful woman I have ever met and plan to spend the rest of my life being happy with her and raising a family. So I'm just saying... for me... it was most definitely not a choice except where I chose to be myself and be happy and proud of who I am and how God made me.
#169 - On 09/12/2009 at 4:11am by thisismenotyou05
Dude, People don't just decide to become lesbian. If they choose, then they're either bi or just straight up fake. If people could choose their sexual orientation then I'd probably have a chance with the girl I've been in love with for god knows how long.
#170 - On 10/08/2009 at 6:10am by Sorrytohearthat
dude my sister did the same to me only i took her to my room went to get a few beers cam back and my date was eating out my sister
What? So you have a problem with lesbians now?! That's Fucked up. Be happy that she and your sister are happy. GAY PRIDE!
I did the same thing to my last boyfriend. I was 12-13 durring our 1.5 year relationship an I left him for his 17 year old sister, that lasted 5 months till she left for University of Florida. now I am proud to say I'm a lesbian.
