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When I modded this I said NO.... Didn't you look for a wedding ring. Most guys are stupid and don't take them off. Follow him home and tell his wife!
well it was their first date, and he probably took it off during. It's not as much an FML as it is finding out only after you've slept with the guy and all.. but still sucks..
#60 - On 07/03/2009 at 2:06pm by mylittlecrow
"Most guys are stupid and don't take them off."
Don't make stupid assumptions.
#59, some people are surprisingly smart. And usually, girls would notice a ring on the guys finger. So why would you say no? This was a good one, even though it sucks for her.
Not everyone (especially men) wear wedding rings, maybe because they find them uncomfortable. My father has been married nearly 20 years and doesn't wear one.
Dude your life sucks, hope you tell the wife..
#2 - On 07/03/2009 at 10:02am by SSC
That sucks! Break up with him!
A first date does not a relationship make. She can't break up with him if there's nothing to break up.
OP - That sucks, what an asshole. What kind of a guy goes out on a date when he's MARRIED? Unless #48's right, and he wanted to blow you off in some kind of seriously moronic way...
I was gonna question the whole "First date = relationship" thing..but it seems as though you already have. Thank you #50...you have saved me work :)
The nerve of him! What an asshole. Tell his wife.
Tell his wife-she deserves to know her husbands a cheating creep.
...and that's when he gets a "first date slap in the face." I agree with #2 and 4 - tell his wife.
At least he told you now instead of the many others who have posted saying that they discovered that they were the other woman.
And you said:" no, you were supposed to tell me during our first conversation". you didn't say that? at least you didn't find out two years from now.
#8 - On 07/03/2009 at 10:07am by Qup
Or when he's dead and gone.
Ha! I broke the chain.
He's dying in 12 years? That's a pity.
ahhhhhh married men that date suck ass! I hear you, and feel for you honey - I had one of these assholes a couple weeks ago - although this one said he was 'exploring potential'. Explore potential elsewhere dickheads!
This actually made me laugh.
but that sucks though.
wait wait wait, are you sure it was a date?
Sooo.. Did you kiss him anyway? I mean the guy was straight up with you, the least you could do is give him a tug.
i'm w/ #11 (wtfxckmate) on this one...maybe he didn't think it was a date and after awhile had the feeling you did, so of course he had to tell you he was married.
if he really was a cheat he wouldn't've said anything.
If he didn't think it was a date, why was there a kiss?
yeah she stated AFTER the kiss he told her.
it didn't say they kissed, it was the time the end of the date kiss would normally happen if it were a date.
the fml doesn't say whether or not they actually kissed
Dumbass, it sez, and i quote "After the 'end of the date kiss' came 'I suppose this is where I tell you that I'm married'"
#61 , I don't see anything wrong with what #23 said.
You're the one who didn't reply your comment to what those people were saying.
Quit being an ass.
haha Hope you told the wife. She deserves to know.
Tell his wife. She didn't deserve this.
YDI for dating an asshole
Oh, so I suppose the guy that she dated had a sticker on his forehead that said "I'm An Asshole"??
Holy snap at least come up with a reason that makes sense to click YDI. I doubt he did have a sticker though.
Did he pay? You got a meal/movie/whatever for the price of a kiss. Not a bad return.
But yeah, what a jerk. FYL indeed.
#21 - On 07/03/2009 at 10:42am by lesp
meh, i read it again and maybe you guys are right and it happened after the kiss. well in that case, FYL
#25 "I agree with #25" Pime taradox! 0.o.O.0.0.o
Did someone divide by zero?
Why ppl assuming op is a female?
Because she is. Didn't you notice the new feature that tells you more about the poster?
YDI for trying to be a home wrecker.
If she didn't know until after the date, how is she "trying to be a home wrecker"? First dates are where you find out about a person. Unless she stalked him beforehand, or they knew each other for a long time, there's no way she could have known. It's entirely his fault for being MARRIED and asking out another woman.
sounds like fun....? wait what?
fyl and f the wifes life even more.
#36, you're either a boy, a cheater, an idiot, or have a bad habit of trying to make excuses for other people.
This is a problem because adultery is immoral. Duh. The fact that this guy is married and dating (provided it's true) means that he is an asshole. Clearly the OP wasn't looking for random play, seeing as she's upset by this, and that's all she'd be getting from this guy. Not everyone just wants the "fun" part. =P
alright im gonna say adultery is immoral, evil, a sin, and blah blah blah
but this never would have happened if the spouse was "spicing up" the relationship and had been a good wife in general
thats the problem about 99% of the time
there is that 1% that are evil heartless cheating sinful lunatics but thats 1%
this happens with both genders and spouses
OK?
; )
#53... where did you get that statistic from? please verify your sources before you post percentages
I disagree completely. You can be the best spouse possible, but your partner might just cheat because they feel like it. It's not always the spouse's fault - and even if it is, you should work on your problems instead of using that time and effort to cheat. It's cowardly, selfish, and pathetic.
I'll let you criticize me after just 100 yards!
Yeah, that way we're a mile away from you AND we have your shoes -.-
Tell him that adultery is a sin.
*shrug* Did you get laid?
why everyone says "tell his wife"? just dump him and never call him Back. shit happens.
Well, who knows ? Maybe you two will fall madly in love & live happily ever after, ya know ?
Get married, and then get cheated on, right? :]
That sucks. At least he was honest sooner than most cheaters would be (most wouldn't fess up unless caught) - not that that makes it right.
Oooohhhh I get it lol yea seriously do not be the bitch that everyone hears about that pulls a relationship apart. Would you like to get cheated on??
Either cut things off now or let him understand it ends here unless he legally turns single now. Or you're a bitch ass whore.
Nothing wrong there. Give the ass up!
ouch.. this kinda happened to me.. but it wasnt on the first date.. it was after sex.. oh and trust me.. i told his wife.
LOL that's actually funny!
so.... what if he just said that so he didn't have to see her anymore, maybe she was a bad date or maybe it was the only thing he could think of so she wouldn't try to contact him anymore.
Oh MY God!! That's....weird. Disspointing too. But I also agree with #48. That could be true. But if he really was married, WOW. That's all that I can say
#49 - On 07/03/2009 at 12:42pm by englandrulz
now this needs to be more clear is it your husband and this was your "First Date" or you were cheating if it was you and your husbands yes FYLR but if not well you were an idiot
This woman went on a first date with a man. At the very end of the date, the man confessed that he is already married.
After that, you should have looked at him calmly, and said "I suppose this is the time when I beat the shit out of you." or maybe a slap to the face would suffice
someone call Joey Grecko from Cheaters
he should have said this while coming to pick you up.
you don't give people false hope like that !
Wow that really sucks!!! but you're lucky that it was just a first date.. I'm sorry that happened to you though that guy's gonna get back what's coming to him.. don't worry about it.
HAHA i did this once were i teased a guy than when he came over i said i had a boyfreind hahaha i know how it feels cauz he got pissed
you're old enough to date a married guy ?
it was your FIRST date ? ..
thats more of an FML than this, no im joking, it isnt :P
but still
FYL.
First date with that guy. Not first date ever.
:O Wow ! THATS GROSS AND MEAN... right Laura?
Tell his wife? What gives you the right? Pump and dump. Good thing dumb girls are plentiful.
What gives the husband the right to cheat on his wife? If he thinks he can cheat, then the OP (or absolutely anyone else who knows that the husband is cheating) has the right to tell the wife, and she DEFINITELY has the right to know!
Why does everyone assume the husband is cheating? Maybe he was still married to his wife because divorce is a tedious process. That doesn't mean they're still "together."
You should have just hit him.
ohhh.....welll...no im sorry i can't put good spin on this one....
why is everyone saying husband? she could be lesbian
FYL indeed. He should have waited until after the sex to tell you.
well its a good thing to know..
dump him, dump him, dump him
You gotta love open relationships!
ouchh that sucks. at least it was the first date where he told you rather than 3 months into the relationship or something
#95 - On 07/04/2009 at 5:50am by ms33
Maybe he felt guilty after the kiss?
ur fucking stupid and deserve to rot in hell!
Well at least he told you, right? Still, to steal a kiss BEFORE mentioning it was--well, lets just say he's a bastard and leave it at that.
At least your date told you he was married. I dated an "amazing" guy for three months before finding out he was married after I found him on facebook. (You wonder how anyone would leave that stuff public, especially if they're cheating on their wife.) I was going to write his wife a letter, but this guy's latest facebook picture is now a baby sonogram...
wow, that's really.. terrible.
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