Today, I had a massive argument with my boyfriend in which he called me stupid repeatedly. I stomped out of his house and sent a very angry text to my best friend about him. She didn't text back. Then my boyfriend texted. 'My girlfriend is so stupid she can't even text the right number.' FML
I agree, your life sucks (10780) - you totally deserved it (47263)
On 05/09/2009 at 11:48am - love - by rawkdinosawr (woman) - United Kingdom (London)
Hahahah... okay that sucks, I've done that before... text the person you're talking ABOUT on accident, because they are fresh in your mind. But what he said is quite funny. Tee hee. I've been in those relationship-types of arguments before, and it sucks, but it's worth a chuckle, too.
hahahahahaha sucks that you bf is immature to be calling you stupid it also sucks for you that he might be right therefore the final score is
You 0
BF 1
I would have said the exact same thing if I were your boyfriend. You are an idiot.
#11 - On 05/09/2009 at 4:35pm by Jellybones
Well, you are stupid and he's making a good point. But was the message aimed toward you? Or did he text the wrong number as well?
#14 - On 05/09/2009 at 4:39pm by Duckasaurus
You should have said "My boyfriend is such an ass. Period."
But Y kinda DI, next time make sure you know who you're sending the text to.
#15 - On 05/09/2009 at 4:39pm by anglcdvl89
that's pretty funny. but don't worry, guys like stupid girls
#19 - On 05/09/2009 at 4:48pm by ilikesexyparties
In the words of the great Dan Savage, DTMFA -- Dump the Mutherfucker Already.
#20 - On 05/09/2009 at 4:48pm by luckysoandso
wow your bf is an asshole. i say dump his ass.
and apparently so are a lot of people on this site.
like you people have never texted the wrong number before? get lives.
#21 - On 05/09/2009 at 4:49pm by JordanAshley
He's an ASS. But next time make sure you send the text to the right person.
#27 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:04pm by ButterFly_16
your bf is a dick :/ dump him, he doesn't respect you like he should.
#31 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:08pm by McLaughlane
hmm...i wonder what the other side to the story is...i'm pretty sure your bf didn't come out of no where and start saying stupid over and over, though if he did he's a douche...
PS - 12 and 16....really? really?
#33 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:14pm by trackrunner525
ive texted the wrong person before, it happens. but you are stupid for staying in a relationship where your boyfriend legit calls you stupid. why would you ever put up with that sh#t?
and 12 and 16... haha woww
#34 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:16pm by realsmoothx3
Haha, owned by stupidity.
Also, if you two fight like that, why the fuck are you still dating?
And why is a 15 year old (#30) offering "make-up sex" as a suggestion?
Your boyfriend sounds abusive, if he calls you stupid repeatedly. Break up with him, please.
#44 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:36pm by mehwhateverr
Sounds like you should listen to him - he's obviously right. You must be hot if he's willing to put up with your idiocy. Just be thankful somebody does.
#44, sounds abusive? get a grip for fucks sake people have arguments. hitting her would be abusive but calling someone stupid in an argument is not abusive. are you really that fragile?
Heh, reminds me so much of my relationship with my emotionally abusive ex. He constantly called me stupid, too. And a worthless piece of .... and other such nice things. And then used my random silly mistakes as proof of just how worthless and stupid I am. Well, at least I'm smart enough to give people some space and not drive them insane with my obsessions and selfish demands. Unlike my ex. :(
OP, don't feel bad about that loser calling you stupid. You're not stupid, that mistake with the text can happen to anyone whose mind is occupied.
Edit: #47, go do some research on "emotional abuse". Such a thing exists and it is very real, I assure you.
#48 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:41pm by MoonlightSonata
How exactly is texting the wrong person, especially in a time of anger, a sign of low intelligence?
OP- Your boyfriend has no respect for you. End it.
I don't get why people are saying you deserved it. Your boyfriend should have learned in kindergarten not to call people names. Everyone makes mistakes when they are frustrated and texting the person your are thinking about instead of who you are intending the message for is a common mistake.
#50 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:50pm by lattrayant
i've done the same thing too. it was a very long text so he only got the first part and then after he got it all he called me and was very pissed. lol.
#51 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:52pm by likeduhhx4
Irony is rarely more cruel to a person than when someone's intelligence or common sense has been insulted, and their actions afterward only validate the insults.
Sorry dear, but YDI simply for making a classic foot-in-mouth error. His response, that is. I dunno what you did to be called stupid over and over in an argument, so I'll withhold judgment on that. Consider both dumping your boyfriend and screwing your head on tighter.
#53 - On 05/09/2009 at 5:59pm by Nakedsquirrel
That sounds a lot like mental dating abuse. Get out while you can or you'll j=kick yourself later, girlfriend.
#54 - On 05/09/2009 at 6:04pm by rach_magoo
Today I had to read yet another post from someone whining about her relationships, and how she made a fool of herself. FML
I can't blame the guy for saying that. I'm sure you said some equally insulting things in the text you sent him. You absolutely deserve it.
Also, I agree w/ #47. "Emotional abuse" is just another B.S. term that our society has made up to make people who are over-sensitive feel better. Life skill #386: learn to deal with insults, cause they're not going to stop anytime soon (especially if you're going to continue doing stupid things).
#55 - On 05/09/2009 at 6:06pm by AlexNeenan
@#55:
Fuck you. As a (definitely not fragile, trust me) victim of an emotionally abusive relationship, and as someone who has watched several (also not fragile) friends go through their own emotionally abusive relationships, I can authoritatively tell you that emotional abuse does exist. It's more than just insults, though, it's an entire attitude, a way of treating someone, and a whole lot more, and I don't think we have enough information to categorize the FML as abuse (if it's just what it says, then it's not abuse) but emotional abuse exists.
Seriously, fuck you.
If he repeatedly insults, demeans, and belittles you, I'd consider that verbal abuse. You shouldn't have to put up with that. Find someone who respects you.
#59 - I now feel depressed because of the emotional abuse I have suffered from your comment. Hypocrite! Just kidding.
But you're right. Emotional abuse does exist, but it would be wrong to infer from just this one incident that the OP is in an emotional abusive relationship. I am just frustrated when people label ANY insult as emotional abuse. A lot of that depends on how you react, but we've become way too sensitive to this kind of stuff, and to label minor insults as emotional abuse is actually disrespectful to those who actually do endure true abuse.
Once again, I was wrong. Sorry to anyone who actually has been abused.
I still hate these kind of FMLs.
#63 - On 05/09/2009 at 6:36pm by AlexNeenan
dump him.
if he's calling you stupid you don't want to be with a cock like that
no real man treats his girlfriend like that
#66 - On 05/09/2009 at 6:49pm by were_giraffe
OWNED! This sounds like something my ex-gf would do! :P
#68 - On 05/09/2009 at 6:55pm by Monty_Python
I think you gotta find a new BF, no matter what the fight (unless you cheated or something), he shouldnt be saying hurtful things like that to you
#71 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:07pm by Ilovelife07
Lmao, wowww
Your bf is hilarious...................
and a jerk
the perfect man?
#72 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:09pm by offtheheezy
i don't understand why you would still be in a relationship after a fight like that. what an asshole. i would have dumped him the first time he called me stupid.
#73 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:24pm by secret
#63: Emotional abuse is not something like name calling, it is someone putting you down. They make you think like you are the only one for them and that you can not get anyone else, they draw you in keep you in & tear you down. And emotional abuse is just one start, and then once you try to leave things get messy with ABUSE. Maybe you shouldn't make such comments about things you should know, and maybe do a little research. Because you are probably the type to either slip into that kind of relationship and stay forever or become the abuser.
OP: Rofl, I've texted the guy I like on accident thinking it was my friend there names are close in my phone book and I was like I think _______ is so cute. But I convinced him it was a person on Gossip Girl.
#74 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:31pm by ohhhhshizzz
I've done that quite a few times, text the person I was thinking about instead of the person I really meant for it to go to. Doesn't mean you are stupid at all. We don't know the details of the fight, but regardless, a boyfriend should never talk to his girlfriend that way, even if you two are fighting he shouldn't treat you like that. You might want to rethink being in this relationship
#76 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:51pm by koalabear77386
Yea, I'd break up with him. He shouldn't call you names. You only deserve it for putting up with it.
#77 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:52pm by coffeennicotine
yah if he's calling you stupid...END It. You're nopt stupid at all.... i do that too sometimes! Don't feel bad! Good luck! :/
#79 - On 05/09/2009 at 7:58pm by sxyblnd307
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Welcome to any comment string.
I'm in complete disagreement with almost everyone else. This is not a FML, but it a simple mistake. It sounds like this guy is verbally abusive. He has no right to call you stupid, and deserves a slap. I agree that you should end it.
#85 - On 05/09/2009 at 8:28pm by VirginVoyager
I suggest dumping him.
He sounds like what my twin brother does to me. And it's very annoying.
By the way that must have felt really embarassing to have such a moment like that. Ouch.. :P
#89 - On 05/09/2009 at 8:49pm by curious_cat
That is not funny in the least; that is offensive and abusive behavior. Stand up for yourself. He was rude and disrespectful and no one who loves you will call you stupid. Dump his ass and leave him be.... find someone who isn't an asshole and who doesn't behave in such a way that it provides a story for FML.
Ok, well apparently half the people on here are people with no lives that have never been in a relationship before. Or at least not in a long relationship with someone.
Fights are NORMAL in relationships, so don't be screaming "ABUSE", "DUMP HIM", etc. for one little argument. Especially when you know when 2 people get in a heated argument, they tend to yell hateful words. And also to get in a fight with someone else, you usually have to make them angry first.
At least the boyfriend was only calling her "stupid" and not a "bitch", "cunt", etc.
Now if this is daily thing (verbal fights, etc), then yes, I would suggest to dump him. But the OP makes it sound like it was just a one-time fight.
But anyway, this is just my 2 cents, and unless we know the whole info, I wouldn't be jumping to conclusions.
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Anyway, this entry made me laugh. My friends do this all the time (There isn't anything insulting in the texts or anything).
that is absolutely fantastic. favorited
but your boyfriend is a total dick
#95 - On 05/09/2009 at 9:54pm by musicloverr
wow i dont get it. why the hell do you people automatically assume that the boyfriend is a douche or an asshole. yeah sure, people get into fights(oh, and im sure the OP wasnt all nice and harmeless in the fight), but seriously??? if you cant understand how to text a person then you seriously deserve to be called stupid.
when you do stupid shit like that you just prove him right and he totally hd the right to sabatoge yuo lke that.
i don't know how stupid you are but i know that until you and your boyfriend can sort out your shit without childish name calling you shouldn't be in a relationship
#99 - On 05/09/2009 at 10:11pm by harlehatschi
mmm. you kind of ruined your whole argument with that one. I've texted the wrong person before. it's embarassingly stupid. = )
epic failure
jw but does your contacts list your best friend by your bf
if so thats understandable
if not then tats pretty f'n stupid
#102 - On 05/09/2009 at 10:32pm by DarkestSaint
#94 wins
i'll bet all of the people who have screamed "dump him" have never had a relationship longer than 2 months.
#105 - On 05/09/2009 at 11:28pm by genius_man16
ouch.
not smart.
but your boyfriend sounds like a total ass.
you can't let him treat you like that.
#109 - On 05/10/2009 at 12:44am by sarahface55
hahahahahahah lmfao! your boyfriend's AWESOME!!! fucking gnarly!
#111 - On 05/10/2009 at 1:02am by arieanacrust
#105, no point in being miserable in your relationship longer than 2 months
#113 - On 05/10/2009 at 1:03am by arieanacrust
Ok guys if u read the thing right then u would notice that the bf purposely texted her calling her stupid cause she txted the wrong number
Nd OP sorry but I gotta agree with your bf on this one you are stupid
Way to prove his point. He doesn't sound very nice, but wow, way to sabotage yourself, there. I'm sorry.
#94 While I agree that jumping to the conclusion of her being emotionally abused is really far-fetched...I still think he should dump his ass for calling her stupid.
Yea, couples fight...my ex and I used to get in horrible fights because he had a severe anger and temper problem and he did call me a bitch on occasion when I was being a bitch to him...and I never complained about that. He did however NEVER call me stupid...sometimes he'd say "It was pretty stupid of you to do this" and then he'd say "Don't get me wrong, I'm not calling YOU stupid, I'm just saying it was a stupid decision you made"
So...calling someone stupid is absolutely disresepectful and in my eyes unacceptable, because it means you're talking down on someone saying they lack intelligence and that is a very hurtful thing.
And yes #105...I have had a relationship for more than 2 months! In fact I've been married for over a year now...
#117 - On 05/10/2009 at 2:56am by Puolukka
I have NEVER had a boyfriend call me names like that. (Except for when we're joking around, but never seriously.) I can't imagine how it's okay for an argument to degenerate into name-calling and I can't imagine how it's useful, either.
DTMFA. Dump him hard and never let anyone call you names like that again. "Stupid" isn't the worst thing you could be called, but that doesn't make it right.
And #117, even if you're being "bitchy" it doesn't mean your SO should be calling you a bitch. Your behavior, sure, I'd allow that, but not you yourself. Noun vs adjective. Why is "bitch" so much better than "stupid"? Because you're a woman? Would he feel the same way about you calling him "ass" as long as you didn't call him "stupid"?
Everyone deserves to be treated with some amount of respect, and those who would resort to name-calling in fights are either too selfish (only care about how they look/sound in the fight) or too short-sighted (resentment can last forever) to see why that's a bad idea.
Emotional bloody abuse -_- Hear the other side of the story before you point any fingers and shouting dump him.
Happens sometimes though, careful who you text time
#48
Your ex called you stupid and highlighted your "random stupid mistakes" as proof. Is it possible that an objective party might label some of those "random stupid mistakes" as "colossal fuckups". I think it is more than likely.
Ladies, being called stupid sucks, but if the shoe fits...
"Ownage. He made the same mistake as you... and hes calling you stupid. yeah, hes a keeper.
#12 - 05/09/2009 at 4:37pm by jen_kay
Report abuse"
you are an idiot. he was calling her stupid for texting him that message by accident. to her face.
And I bet you are still with him. If you are, he's right, you ARE stupid and YDI.
If not, he was a verbally abusive jackass, and you are much better off without him... FYL.
#122,
"Your ex called you stupid and highlighted your "random stupid mistakes" as proof. Is it possible that an objective party might label some of those "random stupid mistakes" as "colossal fuckups". I think it is more than likely."
No, please do not defend that asshole. I am talking about 'mistakes' such as using a smiley he did not approve (it was a long-distance relationship so we talked on MSN a lot) or accidentally going against his "rules" like "you must always immediately tell me what happened when you get back from somewhere, even saying hi is a waste of time and results in me telling you how you just can't do even simplest things right!" It was little things that would really not matter to a sane person.
#128 - On 05/10/2009 at 12:56pm by MoonlightSonata
Eh...he shouldn't be calling you that, no matter how angry he is.
>_>
#129 - On 05/10/2009 at 2:49pm by awkwardass
You should've texted back saying, 'My boyfriend's so stupid, he can't figure out that I meant to send that text to him'.
Your boyfriend sounds like a douche to me.
Dump him now.
FYL.
dump this guy he shouldnt be saying this stuff to you even if you did text him by mistake
#134 - On 05/10/2009 at 9:10pm by Carlynator09
Why do people always assume the guy is the bad one? Maybe the OP was being a lot more rude than just calling someone stupid. It just sounds like the OP wants people on her side because everyone else agreed with him or something so she came on this website and told only what happened to her.
I have to say YDI OP because I bet you did something to him to deserve being called that. If he was the asshole he probably would have used the word bitch instead of stupid.
#136 - On 05/11/2009 at 2:11am by Foodeater133
Relly!!!!!!!!!! How do you text the wrong number unless they have the same name, and even then you put him in the phone as something else!!!!!!!! It is not rocket sciense!!
#144 - On 05/11/2009 at 7:00pm by cassey_lea
These people saying that the way your boyfriend is treating you is NOT abusive are full of shit. you're not fragile, emotional abuse is very real and should NOT be tolerated with. I really hope you dumped him, because calling the person you're supposed to love or be in a relationship with stupid is utterly disrespectful. respect is one of the most important things in a relationship.
and that's the end of my rant.
wow, what has society come to that "stupid" is more preferred than "bitch". people get called stupid all the time and im sure that the girl was probably saying worse things than stupid. so does that mean he should automatically dump her?
You guys are perfect for eachother! You're both equally stupid. :]
#149 - On 05/12/2009 at 9:09pm by ThisVampyricLust
Wow, calling someone stupid now counts as emotional abuse? A little banters good for a relationship. By the sounds of these comments this site is some sort of emotional messup magnet.... If your aim were to stay single for the rest of your life and maybe own 20 or so cats when your older, the advice here may not be so bad :p
On topic, epic fail with the misstext :p better luck next time.
first, #149 well said:)
it is mean that he was saying that to you, but he seriosly got you there, next time be more careful
#151 - On 05/13/2009 at 2:12am by slow_hands
BAHAHA! well, he's not so smart either, if HE texted that to YOU.
#153 - On 05/14/2009 at 2:55am by onlypandorashope
Gack.
I did something similar to my brother once D:
Sent a text to my friends about how he was being a douche, and accidentally sent it to him.
I seriously thought he was gonna kill me D:
@#153
He knew that he sent it to her. He did it so that she would know that she did not send it to the right person and to make her feel dumb.
everybody saying "dohohoho well your bf is dumb if he texted that to you how ironic hahahaheheheheohohohoho" is a fucking idiot
#156 - On 05/14/2009 at 11:55pm by mister_moops
lmao,
oh boy,
but like ..
if he's gunna be immature .
& call you dumb every ten seconds .
drop him
you deserve better .
#158 - On 05/23/2009 at 1:56am by _nevershoutnever
Loads of people are saying how he's an idiot for sending the reply to YOU... But surely that was the point?
Also, in all seriousness, YDI for proving his point...
#160 - On 05/28/2009 at 5:26am by CannibalGuy
Your boyfriend sounds cool. You sound like the typical teen idiot though. Texting your friend about a fight that happened two seconds after it ends? That's so pathetic.
I'm sorry your boyfriend called you stupid that's mean, and it's no big deal that you texted the wrong number, people do that all the time
"you're stupid." *gets extremely mad*
How old are you? 6?
#167 - On 11/09/2009 at 1:13am by Bloonbloon
