Today, my wife told me she had stopped taking her anti-depressants a month ago in hopes of increasing her non-existent sex drive. I asked her if it had helped, and was about to suggest she start taking them again for her own wellbeing. She replied with, "Anyway, I'm just not attracted to you." FML
I agree, your life sucks (6704) - you totally deserved it (800)
On 11/07/2009 at 2:06am - intimacy - by iMarriedmymother (man) - United States (California)
st8erboy that is the worst advice ever!!!
if she isn't attracted to u get some couples counceling, n see what ur options are from there. if this fails, id prob say get a divorce.. keep ur chin up.. its gonna get bad before it gets better :D xx
#5 - On 11/07/2009 at 7:41am by kravitzz1990
It explains why she is not attracted to him.. she birthed him. Why would she want him back up there?
That sucks. Depression really takes away your sex drive in general, along with the ability to be physically attracted to others. It sounds like the depression talking. Maybe she should ask her doctor about trying a new therapy?
oh mahn, your married life sucks . did you try any other medication? that happend to my mom too . my dad got depressed . but everything fine's now after a not so long therapy . i knw how it feels so FYL . hoping your wife'll get better :) lol
#11 - On 11/07/2009 at 12:31pm by emilialoriana
That's how my marriage ended. Expect her to cheat on you very soon unless you break it off first.
Double FYL if you have kids.
#12 - On 11/07/2009 at 1:42pm by popemichael
let me guess you have her listed under bitch in your cell phone contacs.
#14 - On 11/07/2009 at 2:56pm by ladiesman14
Wow man that fucking sucks. I think she's cheating on you
#15 - On 11/07/2009 at 4:06pm by Mortanious
Take her a nice wine tasting and then take her home and eat her out. Start bringing a bottle home, give her wine and then eat her out. Do this at least a few times a week until she starts expecting it every time she sips some vino. Slowly make a glass of wine part of dinner and her girl parts will start humming for you halfway through the meal. Don't let her get drunk, but you're totally gonna need to Pavlov her ass.. :]
hehehehe :) that might actually work or be fun trying! Hmmm, interesting... :)
OP: Sounds a bit complicated. sighhh... Antidepressants does kill ur mojo. It's retarded but true. She and her therapist really need to weigh what is most important to keep her sane and safe, healthy sex life vs well being. All is not lost, but couples therapy might help you both get to your happy place again :)
So her antidepressants keep her from wanting to screw you, but without them she's too depressed to screw you. Wow, you're screwed.
Ignoring all of the typical "hahaha look at me I'm funny" internet comments...
She married you, so she most likely had to be attracted to you at some point (so its still in there somewhere -- but you may have to adjust your older mating dance a little). You are probably just getting in a rut which can happen in any relationship at some point in time. It's a good thing that the attraction level can be helped out by doing things to help improve your own image, both from your point of view and hers. If something is bugging you about yourself, she's probably picking up on that too, so see what you can do to change it for the better. If you don't already workout, find some time to fit that in somewhere and possibly work out together since it relieves tension and stress (i.e. helps depression too). Too tired? Do it anyway because it will give you more energy later and get easier the more you do it. Maybe you need to change your style a little? Spend a little money and buy some clothes that will make you feel good and make her want to jump your bones when you walk in the door. This in turn will have her start dressing up for you (hopefully), and it should be game on from there. And last of all, try finding some romantic things to do that you'll both like. I'm not trying to say its your fault at all, but at least these are some things that ~you~ could do to get that spark going again.
#22 - On 11/08/2009 at 8:57pm by MayKnowU
dude thats TOTAL bullshit. i totally feel you. my ex broke up with me because of that and she was also on like anti-depressants and you know its just bullshit you work so hard to make them feel better and then they totally stab you in the back. im so sorry. youre not the only one i guess. fuck her
#24 - On 11/20/2009 at 10:57pm by gogogoalie
i dont get girls that have no sex drive...my gf has none either. fml as well
#25 - On 11/30/2009 at 2:21am by Coffee4lunch
your wife is a bitch.
there are 3 options
1) rape her. It will spark the flame back in her sex drive
2) dump her ass like the bitch she is
3)do both
#26 - On 11/30/2009 at 12:50pm by Senken_
thats complete and utter bullshit that queen B needs a big ass dose of reality i really feel for you because im am also in a one sided sexdrive marriage really sux bro all i can say is cant nobody love you like you once you realize that you will begin to see that there are sooooo many fish in the sea fish with drive like a trucker ALL NIGHT LONG you dont need her!!!
#27 - On 12/01/2009 at 5:24am by BruceBanner
