By Lady_Gunslinger9 - 11/08/2015 21:38 - United Kingdom - Durham

Today, I told my boyfriend I was scared to open up to him because I had lost people in the past by doing so. After an hour of him trying to convince me to share my thoughts with him, I finally agreed to tell him some things that were worrying me. He broke up with me a minute later. FML
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Hey guys I'm the OP, just thought I'd make an account and give you all some extra information. I have an anxiety disorder and depression, he knew about both of these and he could tell I wasn't feeling okay so he asked me what was wrong, I tried to convince him it was nothing because I don't feel comfortable opening up to people because of things that have happened in my past. When he eventually convinced me I wasn't going to lose him if I opened up, I took a risk. I told him some things that were worrying me and no it's nothing crazy or weird (although the murder comments did cheer me up a little). The conversation led to talking about our relationship and that's when he ended it. I'm better off without him because anyone who cant deal with me telling them small things that everyone goes through certainly couldn't handle something big if it ever happened. I am sad it ended but I know its probably for the best

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What the hell are you telling these people??!!

People like that are why I have trust issues!

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Rectov 10

Did you commit genocide by chance?

subzero22 8

Wow compared to what I went threw I probably wouldn't have done that unless you confessed to murder or something.

Sorry he was such a douche, OP :/ unfortunately people can be completely heartless and leave people instead of trying to help them get through whatever's bothering them.. I have trouble opening up to people for the same reason but don't worry, you'll someday find someone that'll stick by your side no matter what your problems are c:

happened to me too, I'm sorry you had to go through that. No one deserves that.

someone who really loves you will stay with you no matter what you tell him...

What did you tell him? Are you a serial killer?

purplegold 19

You should write an fml about things that are worrying you

I'm sorry OP, I get how you feel. I've had people breaking up with me when they learn some more about my past b/c they "didn't want to deal with that shit." I think though that this is all for the best, it means that you can find someone who'll accept you.