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While going through his phone is wrong. At least you know something's going on. I'm sorry man people can be cruel

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It might not have been in a bad way at first and he stumbled across something that made him dig deeper. I've looked at the pictures on my best friends phone before, it's not that big of a deal.... unless you find some of your GF I guess..

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Ugh, I hate comments like yours. "Yeah, you're cheated on and that's not nice... BUT YOU DESERVE IT FOR SNEEKING AROUND, MOTHAFUCKA!!!" Being cheated on > sneeking around. It's not very respectful to go through someone else's phone, true true, but in all honesty, is there someone on this site who never did it?

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Yeah, it could have started out innocently, like looking at some photos of your friend's new dog on your phone. And then when you exit, you catch a glimpse some dick pics in another folder. Happened to me once, it's never fun.

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I feel as though with these fml's telling them to not go through someone's stuff is like chastising that kid that tattled. They know not to do it but had no choice.

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Uhm I always follow my instinct to go through a phone. Your guts always right. & if he wasn't meant to go through it he certainly wouldn't of found anything. That was meant for him to see but FYL OP. Shes a whore & he's not a "best friend". It'll get better.

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1) Well, yeah, technically going through someones private things is wrong. But, in this kind of situation, it's both good AND bad. ( That's what I believe to be right.) If Op hadn't looked through his best friend's phone, he wouldn't have found out about his friend's relationship with his own girlfriend.

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And they'd have looked him in the face wide eyed and denied it. Come on, let's mix some reality into the story here.

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That's a douche thing to say. Like other people said, it could have been completely innocent or he had a reason to look. Either way it doesn't mean he deserves it.

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This is why my phone is coded with a complex password with letters, characters, and digits, you never know when someone will pick your phone up and go through it. Whether or not I have anything bad on it I still hate people touching my phone.

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86: As far as I was concerned it is morally wrong and an invasion of privacy, it isn't illegal. If that were the case, most of us would have had our wrists slapped by now.

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*Raises hand* Uh, I have never, ever, EVER gone through any of my friends phones, not even a little bit. So please, speak for yourself.

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I'd keep the phone to show both of them. Then dump your gf and lose this "best friend." Sorry to hear it OP no one should go through that.

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52- Make copies of the photos. Send them to your phone. You can't just "keep the phone" because your Girlfriend is cheating on you. Stealing is still stealing.

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Should have posted the pics of her to Facebook and twitter, as long as they are both 18 or older. (don't want serious criminal charges if you are all underage.) They show up on his accounts, everyone sees them, she gets mad, and you get great revenge. Just don't forget to break up with her after seeing them on his account.

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Something tells me that plan is doomed to fail.. Considering OP's friend and GF are both cold enough to do this I don't think they'll care about a blackmail attempt, which makes it ineffective.

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17 - I think they would care if their friends/classmates/etc. were shown the pics, let alone the Internet where everyone can see them and they will never be erased. 18 - if OP is on his friends phone, he could simply send the pictures and screencaps to his own phone.

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You'd be suprised how shameless people are these days. Even with threat of those following them for life(after being put on the Internet) some don't care. Hell some do it to themselves.

While going through his phone is wrong. At least you know something's going on. I'm sorry man people can be cruel

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Yeah but even if they get together, she could cheat on him too- once a cheater ... and it's good you found out about her shenanigans before you made a more serious commitment!

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I find the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" to be false. I've made mistakes before and I think most people have also. It doesn't mean if you're in a serious relationship you're gonna bang someone else just because you may have cheated before.

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103- I agree with that, though I also think there is a difference between making a mistake, one time thing, drunken hookup, just happened etc., and repeatedly and shamelessly sexting and hooking up with other people when you're in a committed relationship.

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What is wrong with you? Just stop. Every comment that I have seen of yours has been thumbed down, & when you attempt to make a joke, they just fail. So, like I said, PLEASE STOP!

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38- you're mad that 31 is "poking her nose in" but aren't you doing the same thing to 7? So you can give your opinions of people's comments, but others can't do it to you? If you're going to dish it out, you have to be able to...oh just shut the fuck up.

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31- Freedom of speech doesn't cover being stupid. Know and UNDERSTAND your rights before you casually fling them around when it's convenient for you.

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31: A couple of things: 1.) This is a French site, not American. Freedom of speech does not apply here. 2.) 97% of the time I see some idiot say "Freedom of speech" on here, they're American. Can someone explain to me why people think their Bill of Rights transfers exclusively to the Internet, something used internationally?

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74- I believe she was trying to make me look ignorant. I do that by myself, but she thinks by bringing in our Constitution, she looks smarter than I.

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Id like to point out that the fml says that if i go through my friends phone i will find sh1t. I checked his phone and theres nothing. Not only is he a liar but nothing bad happened to him. Why fuck his life? Apparently my gf is sexting my best friend! Sorry for unrelated reply but the world must know!!!

I'm sorry OP, that's awful! You need to dump her and find a new best friend. They both don't care about you and your feelings. You deserve better.

Seems like every guy's girlfriend is cheating on him, or he's cheating on her ( banging her sister or something) in either case time to ditch them both

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