By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States

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Today, I hooked up with the guy I've been seeing. Apparently he doesn't believe in condoms and took it off without my knowing; I didn't realize until after. When I asked him in horror why he would do such a thing, he said "I love you. I want you to have my child." It had been our second date. FML
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....

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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.

Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.

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I'm pretty sure OP means the guy she was seeing didn't believe in 'using' condoms.

Reading comprehension? Do you have it. It clearly states that the guy took off the condom without her knowing.

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[edited out. stupid FML comments section -_-]

non_ame 0

and what exactly would the cops do? if OP is over 18 then they can't do anything because she was consenting.. they would most likely just tell her that she should have been more careful or something of the sort

Yes because we are perfectly safe as long as we take a pill everyday... Loser

monnanon 13

She did but the guy took it off. Not every women in the world can go on the pill or have the implant.

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Sue him for any medical bills! Intentional infliction of emotional distress and battery!

bskballa92 0

And going by your picture musikbox, there is no reason for you to be on the pill.

Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.

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Balls, this posted to the wrong comment.

Jorddaaan 0

hahah im american this should affend me but your so right. no one here takes resposiblitly for their actions abortion isnt birth control, and sexis a resposibility