OP - I've been in the exact same situation, the only advice I have to give is to suck it up for your daughter and hide your pain. Kids shouldn't pay for their parents mistakes and even though it kills you to be getting her ready for the bastards wedding it makes you the bigger person. I cried after sending my 7 year old to her fathers wedding but I knew I was doing the right thing. All that matters is our childrens happiness as I'm sure you already know. Hang in there, life will get better xoxoxox

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guys i think #s 4 and 38 wefe both joking lighten up a bit

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That's how I feel about it too! Everyone seems to just keep going on and on about how she's his daughter too.

so what it's HER DAD that's like not going to ur funeral

OP, that's very selfless of you and also the right thing to do. I hated it soo much when I was young and my parents vented their relationship frustrations on me or made me feel guilty for bringing up any part of my life that involved the other parent experiencing any happiness. Your children will always love both parents and it's important to allow them to maintain those relationships no matter how broken your's and your ex's is. Divorce is the worst and so is your cheating ass ex husband, but again, you're doing the right thing!

where's bin laden when you need him?

he's getting married to more than one woman in the same ceremony? am I the only one who caught the 'women' typo?

it's still his daughter too! I understand OP.