Today, my husband of 6 years told me he has a 5 year-old. In fact, she was conceived the night before our wedding. Apparently, the “one last time fuck as a single man” with his female bestie was too good of an opportunity to pass up. He doesn’t get why I’m not speaking to him. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my fiancé “thought he should let me know” that he has a 3 year-old son. We’ve been together for 7 years and our wedding is this weekend. He says it’s no big deal, because, “It was just a one-night stand and she has a new man now.” He doesn’t get why I’m angry and calling off our wedding. FML
Today, my husband decided it was time to tell me he had a 3 year old son. We have been married for 5 years. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me and now has a 4 year old, and as he’s told me, we should get married. FML
Today, after 6 years of dating, 2 years of marriage, a daughter and another one on the way, my husband decided that he’s "not the one for me" and told me he was leaving for his co-worker who he’s only known for a few months. Apparently they’re more "meant to be." FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend of six years has a five year-old daughter. FML
Today, I ran into my ex at the mall. He’s married, with a 2 year-old. Three years ago he ended our 6-year relationship because he said he didn’t believe in marriage and kids. Sorry for not being good enough to achieve those things with. FML
Today, I went to my husband’s work party where employees could bring a plus one. There, I met the colleague he talks so much about. She looked noticeably disappointed and said to my husband, “Wife?! You told me you were single!” We’ve been married for 7 years. FML
Today, I found out why my now ex-boyfriend abruptly dumped me out of nowhere. Turns out his friend separated from her husband, and apparently, “the opportunity is too good to pass up.” We’ve been together for 5 years, and have a kid together. FML
Today, after I'd left the love of my life because he didn't want kids, got into another relationship, he now tells me he's changed his mind about having kids, 5 years in. FML
Today, my five year-old had to break the news to me that my husband was leaving me for someone else. FML
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Habacadavarus 12
Don't let anyone tell you leave him or stay. anything you do is something you have to accept one way or the other. If he had told you then, how would you have felt? He never gave you the chance to decide, instead he betrayed you and kept that truth from you to protect his interests. It's not something anyone should dismiss lightly. You don't have to forgive him and you don't have to let it go. How you deal with it needs to feel right for you and only if you choose to include him in that, should how he feel even matter.
1known 34
No further involvement? He has a child, so yes there is an ongoing involvement. One that will last all his life. As for people who say he didn’t cheat, I doubt they were in an open relationship.
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Chazzster 32
I understand your feelings - You just recently found out you were cheated on 6 years ago… But as bad as this was, if it was 6 years ago with no further involvement, maybe you should learn to let it go. I know feelings are not logical, but if you cannot get past this it’s going to cost you and your husband a marriage.
1known 34
No further involvement? He has a child, so yes there is an ongoing involvement. One that will last all his life. As for people who say he didn’t cheat, I doubt they were in an open relationship.
Habacadavarus 12
Don't let anyone tell you leave him or stay. anything you do is something you have to accept one way or the other. If he had told you then, how would you have felt? He never gave you the chance to decide, instead he betrayed you and kept that truth from you to protect his interests. It's not something anyone should dismiss lightly. You don't have to forgive him and you don't have to let it go. How you deal with it needs to feel right for you and only if you choose to include him in that, should how he feel even matter.
RichardPencil 32
Well, he didn't cheat on you before he made the official promise not to. So, there's that.
vchan 20
So according to him being in a relationship, being engaged is « being single »? And unmarried couples don’t know the concept of fidelity ? Furthermore, unless his best friend just told him he was the father, it means he LIED to you for years about the existence of HIS child. Would he have accepted the reverse (you having a child from a pre-marriage one night stand)? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone with that mindset ?
ODBeefalo 10
I don't get his line of thinking. is it not cheating while officially dating? or being engaged? is there some dictionary definition I am missing where it only applies to married people? also, if he is finding loopholes in basic decency, op may want to figure out exactly how many loop holes he thinks he found...
Sonotsuave 37
Yeah that’s ex husband you mean