Today, I'm unloved by my partner. She has not made love with me for one and a half years. On our anniversary two years ago, she told me we had nothing to celebrate, that I had achieved nothing in more than a decade we have been together. I lost 25 kgs and got a new job earning around 80K a year. Still nothing. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I love my partner but also have negative thoughts as well. She stopped being interested in me about 6 months into our relationship. We have been together for 12 years. We have made love on 3 different occasions in the last 4 years. FML
Today, after nearly 4 years together, my girlfriend told me that not only does she not love me anymore, she was lying about wanting to work things out because it would be "too hard" for her to go back to financing her own life. I'm nothing more than an extra wallet. FML
Today, I discovered my girlfriend of 5 years would rather split up than make any shred of effort to revive her utterly dead libido from the last 2 years. She promised the whole past month to make an effort, before admitting she never gave a shit when my patience with her ran out. FML
Today, I'm sad. My wife of six years cares very little about my satisfaction. Intimacy is my receiving love language, and while we do have sex sometimes, she wants me to "take" or "use" her. I want to be felt up and be shown I'm wanted, too. FML
Today, I found out that my partner of 18 years has officially decided that our physical relationship is over. We hadn’t been intimate since my youngest was conceived 5 years ago. I had always held out hope that it would come again, but now I have been told it’s over and I’m at a loss at what to do. I still love her. FML
Today, on my 11-year anniversary with my wife, I bought her a nice necklace and we went to an Indian restaurant where we had the most sensational banquet meal. When we got home, I suggested we made love, to which she replied, "I don't like you enough to do that." FML
Today, it's been 10 months of a sexless marriage. Also my 10-month wedding anniversary. We waited until marriage, and she hasn't wanted me since. FML
Today, after celebrating our 5 year anniversary, my girl told me that’s she loves me, but is not in love with me. FML
Today, it was a milestone birthday - another zero year - and I got many acknowledgments from everyone in my family, except for the one person that means the most to me: my wife never acknowledged my birthday. No card, text or anything. I truly believe she hates me. FML
Today, it's been almost 3 years since my wife has wanted sex, and I get turned down every time I ask. Even when I insist on a romantic date night, we just sit with no idea what to say to each other. How did we drift so far apart? The only thing keeping us together is the mortgage and the cat. FML
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Top comments
Anderling 33
Just leave, dude. You can't make someone love you when they have made it abundantly clear they're not interested, and life is too short for you to be miserable together.
headlock95 3
My guy, why are you still with her, if she clearly isn’t in love with you any more? You’re only going to spiral further and further into a depressive state just til you leave and find someone who does live and appreciate you
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Anderling 33
Just leave, dude. You can't make someone love you when they have made it abundantly clear they're not interested, and life is too short for you to be miserable together.
headlock95 3
My guy, why are you still with her, if she clearly isn’t in love with you any more? You’re only going to spiral further and further into a depressive state just til you leave and find someone who does live and appreciate you
RichardPencil 32
Losing 25kg is not so impressive if you started at 200kg. And what is 80K in real money? If she's from a rich family, your earnings are still chump change. Plus, she's probably screwing someone else.
lilacgold 16
If she treats you so poorly and feels there's nothing to celebrate in the relationship, getting out is the best use of your time. Take your 80k income and set up a life on your own, and maybe down the line you'll find someone to appreciate you.
mechgineer 3
Dude, she’s putting you down so you will feel like you deserve her abuse. Even without your amazing personal and professional successes, you don’t deserve it.
Someweirdhobo 12
time to leave her bro. she is the toxic one
Sonotsuave 37
And you’ve remained with her why?