Today, while mourning my friend's recent passing, my dad told me to shut the fuck up because "worse things are going on in the world". FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, I told a co-worker to "lighten up, and stop wearing black all the time, it makes you look depressed." I didn't know his father had died the week before. FML
Compassion
Today, while crying at my grandma's funeral, I was told to "man up". FML
Thanks, I feel better!
Today, my dad told me, in the form of a soliloquy, to have a better attitude about death and dying. I have terminal cancer. FML
Internet words IRL
Today, I decided to open up to my friends about losing my dad last year. To my horror, all they could do was laugh at and mock me, all because I said that he "unalived" himself. FML
Arseholes
Today, it was dad’s funeral and I intended to speak but I was crying so much I couldn’t finish and mom had to help me back to my seat. Unfortunately, most of our family are arseholes and I could hear someone saying, “Disgraceful, shaming his dad like that.” It was the worst day of my entire life. FML
Support system
Today, I tried to tell my dad that I was really struggling with my mental health and didn't think I could stay alive much longer. He laughed. This comes after telling my "best friend" last week and having to wait three days for a reply. FML
Today, my dad stood by and nodded in agreement as my sister told me that my clinical depression is "getting REALLY old." FML
Angry man
Today, I learned that now that my mom is dead, and my dad doesn't need my emotional support during her illness anymore, he's going to go back to insulting me every time he talks to me. FML
Empathy lives
Today, my mom walked in on me crying in my room and yelled at me for being a "weak little crybaby." I’d just found out my best friend died in a car accident. When I told my mom that, she said, "Does it look like I fucking care?" FML
Gatekeeping grief
Today, after my cousin recently died, my aunt basically told me that I shouldn't be sad, because we fought. FML
Top comments
Fmlano 16
Insensitive much?
Dallasluver19 14
Death is the worse thing that can happen.
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Comments (111)
igot2sayfmday 4
your dads a jerk
myandmylife 14
My condolences. I know how you fell; my Mum said the same thing when my boyfriend died. Hope you can find someone to talk to about how you're feeling.
Mr_Fluffy15 4
Well it is true.
Omniprism 15
Oh god, your dad is horrible. I'm so sorry for your loss. Grieve as long as you need. Maybe even go talk to someone about how you feel and also how to deal with family members who don't relate to your struggles.
bswitz82 3
Your old mans cold!
doglover100 29
I hate it when people try to compete over what is more tragic. "There's worse things going on....." No, just no. It's all tragic.
robotiick7 23
Your dad is an insensitive prick op. I'm sorry for the loss. I feel your loss, I lost my best friend during a car accident
DerpCarlos 8
If someone close to him dies, say what he just said
bane_0f_kings 14
cut his balls off. then tell him worse things happen
Slawter16 24
I can't stand people who say things like that. It's like saying you can't be happy because other people in the world are happier than you. He was being insensitive. OP, I'm sorry for your loss.
doglover100 29
Those people deserve to be slapped.