Today, one of my closest friends informed me that she wasn't going to invite me to her wedding, because I'm too shy and not enough fun, and she doesn't want her 200 or so guests to feel uncomfortable. I was the one who set the happy couple up. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my best friend told me that I wasn't invited to her wedding, saying that I was too pretty and that I would outshine her at the ceremony. I laughed and said that she was being ridiculous. She eventually confessed the real reason why I wasn't invited: apparently I'm an annoying bitch. FML
Today, I rang up a good friend to ask her to be one of the two bridesmaids at my upcoming wedding. Before I could ask, she let me know that she would not be attending my wedding, as, "Weddings are expensive, so I'm not attending ones for people that are just acquaintances." FML
Today, my best friend of over 16 years is getting married. I was supposed to be her Maid of Honor. Instead I was uninvited a few weeks ago. FML
Today, a friend asked me if I could help him set up the stage for his wedding. Feeling honored that he considered me a close enough friend to aid him on his special day, I agreed to help. Turns out we aren't so close. I was asked to leave after I was done because I hadn't actually been invited. FML
Today, after I spent months assisting my 'work bestie' with planning/arranging her "Surprise!" wedding, Surprise! I wasn't invited. FML
Today, I arrived at my best friend's wedding and found out that my invitation was no longer valid. His brother tried to explain that they'd decided to make the ceremony for family members only, then two our classmates popped out to say hello. They're not related, neither to my friend nor to his fiancée. FML
Today, I was invited to a friend's wedding. When I got there, I was surprised to see that it was a surprise wedding, meaning I wasn’t invited at all. I stood there awkwardly for an hour, until the bride's mother finally noticed me and whispered, "You're not on the guest list, are you?" FML
Today, I told my sister I felt like her friends didn't like me, since they were ignoring my questions, opinions, etc., in the bridesmaids' chat, but were all over each other's messages. She kicked me from her bridal party, saying her friends wouldn't want me at the bridal shower and bachelorette party. FML
Today, a year after I moved out with no contact since, my former housemates texted me out of the blue to tell me I'm not invited to their wedding. Seems she thought I'd just turn up and "embarrass" myself. I never indicated that I intended or even wanted to go. FML
Today, I was told I'm not invited to my best friend's birthday party. Apparently, being divorced and childless doesn't "mesh" well with the rest of the group. My parents are still watching her kids so she can go away for the weekend. FML
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Top comments
nightowl713 25
I know it hurts, but I wouldn't go even if she change her mind. She obviously doesn't consider you as close a friend, as you do her.
Likian5 26
This ungrateful friend doesn't deserve to have you at the wedding.
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Comments (104)
Ayanpatel95 7
U did good for someone, just think of it as if u were out if town, would help u to keep u guys close
bvbarmy4ever 12
I know this will probably make me sound like an asshole but if I were u I would've went and crashed her wedding if she didn't invite me
Msktlol111 4
what a bitch! at least you know how "close" you are. good luck on finding another "closest friend", a real one.
panda_lou 11
I'm sorry to hear that a close friend did that to you. I know that hurts. However I would like to make a comment on the brides POV. I personally have a friend that I HATE having to take anywhere I want to have fun. Now this girl is my best friend and I love her to death but she is the biggest buzzkillington. She sits in the corner complaining the entire time she's bored (while tweeting about the badass party she is at) she gets mad if anyone talks to her or jokes around. If you're like that I'd prolly not bring you either. Or maybe she feels she has to babysit you when you go places to make sure you are having fun. Weddings are all about the bride so maybe she doesn't want that stress.
missalice0306 19
Does this really justify not inviting her to a wedding because she could potentially bore 200 people (which is a bullsh-t excuse imo)? Weddings aren't just about the party-it's seeing someone you care about beginning a new life with their spouse and supporting them. The fact that the bride doesn't want the OP there speaks more about how little she means to her.
kelseeinez 10
LMAO
ShakeDisPlace 10
Talk about a slap to the face. Crash that wedding OP.
chanta24 10
Beyond bitchy!
chabelo 10
marry me, we should get married the same day and throw a super party with some celebrities as guests lol
SynysterNero 20
I don't think she's a very good friend in that case. Looks like you need to drop her for better friends.
hurley12 30
That's not a real friend. I am so shy and awkward and my friends still invite me to everything.