Today, one of my closest friends informed me that she wasn't going to invite me to her wedding, because I'm too shy and not enough fun, and she doesn't want her 200 or so guests to feel uncomfortable. I was the one who set the happy couple up. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my best friend told me that I wasn't invited to her wedding, saying that I was too pretty and that I would outshine her at the ceremony. I laughed and said that she was being ridiculous. She eventually confessed the real reason why I wasn't invited: apparently I'm an annoying bitch. FML
Today, I rang up a good friend to ask her to be one of the two bridesmaids at my upcoming wedding. Before I could ask, she let me know that she would not be attending my wedding, as, "Weddings are expensive, so I'm not attending ones for people that are just acquaintances." FML
Today, my best friend of over 16 years is getting married. I was supposed to be her Maid of Honor. Instead I was uninvited a few weeks ago. FML
Today, a friend asked me if I could help him set up the stage for his wedding. Feeling honored that he considered me a close enough friend to aid him on his special day, I agreed to help. Turns out we aren't so close. I was asked to leave after I was done because I hadn't actually been invited. FML
Today, after I spent months assisting my 'work bestie' with planning/arranging her "Surprise!" wedding, Surprise! I wasn't invited. FML
Today, I arrived at my best friend's wedding and found out that my invitation was no longer valid. His brother tried to explain that they'd decided to make the ceremony for family members only, then two our classmates popped out to say hello. They're not related, neither to my friend nor to his fiancée. FML
Today, I was invited to a friend's wedding. When I got there, I was surprised to see that it was a surprise wedding, meaning I wasn’t invited at all. I stood there awkwardly for an hour, until the bride's mother finally noticed me and whispered, "You're not on the guest list, are you?" FML
Today, I told my sister I felt like her friends didn't like me, since they were ignoring my questions, opinions, etc., in the bridesmaids' chat, but were all over each other's messages. She kicked me from her bridal party, saying her friends wouldn't want me at the bridal shower and bachelorette party. FML
Today, a year after I moved out with no contact since, my former housemates texted me out of the blue to tell me I'm not invited to their wedding. Seems she thought I'd just turn up and "embarrass" myself. I never indicated that I intended or even wanted to go. FML
Today, I was told I'm not invited to my best friend's birthday party. Apparently, being divorced and childless doesn't "mesh" well with the rest of the group. My parents are still watching her kids so she can go away for the weekend. FML
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Top comments
nightowl713 25
I know it hurts, but I wouldn't go even if she change her mind. She obviously doesn't consider you as close a friend, as you do her.
Likian5 26
This ungrateful friend doesn't deserve to have you at the wedding.
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Comments (104)
Eleanor_6141 1
Just tell her to call 1 800 smack-a-Hoe..
TheyCallMeDamien 18
She sounds like a user.
teals 8
Not a close friend in fact not a friend at all
MayMars 4
Idk why but I have a feeling you might actually be more cute and fun than her and that's why she doesn't want you in her wedding so you don't make her look bad. I call that jealousy 101.
free_a_nipper 11
Ouch! That hurts but do you know what... she's actually done you a favour. She has been honest in telling you your worth in her life. Besides feeling hurt, you can take that information & reestablish your own network of friends, you know you don't have to pander to her now, you can suit yourself. **** her. Any so called friend of mine that Z listed me or blanked me like that can get to ****. So as I said...either spend more time with other friends or get out there and make some more. Be around people that value your time. And do whatever makes your heart sing. Rant over.
Cowsxgoxmoo78 8
I have been invited to weddings of people I don't know/don't like. If someone thinks that little of you, they aren't your friend. Even without knowing you, Op, I can tell you, you deserve better... It hurts but your better off without someone like that
BadKitty13 28
WOW ! What a BITCH !! I'd go to the Church and Trip her Ass while she is walking down the Isle.
crhoe 2
Total bitch move
BubbaJ80 11
Just show up
ajgwa 8
You mean one of your ex closest friends?