Today, I texted the girl I'm going to homecoming with in a couple days to say hi. The conversation started OK, but then morphed into her saying that she doesn't feel anything between us, and wants to stop being friends after the dance. I have to buy her dinner and a ticket, out of my own wallet. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Switcheroo
Today, I got a text from a girl that I've had a crush on for a long time, asking me out to dinner. I agreed and went to the restaurant. Not long afterwards, I got text from her saying something had come up, so she couldn't make it. As I was walking back to my car, I saw her walk into the same restaurant with another guy. FML
Nice try
Today, I was texted out of the blue by a girl I treated to dinner last year. Since then, we'd chatted and met in passing a few times, but she'd turned down or cancelled all my other date invitations. Sadly, she wasn't trying to meet up. She wanted $500 to benefit a male friend, who was down on his luck. FML
A tale as old as time
Today, I went out with a girl, I paid for the drinks, and thought everything went well, even though I didn’t make a move, I guess I wanted to take it slow. I texted later to invite her to a private beach next week, only for her to reply that she’s not gonna be available for the next few weeks because her boyfriend is coming to visit. FML
Nice try
Today, this girl I've been talking to texted me, saying she was going to visit. Trying to be sweet, I bought her $50 worth of chocolate and a cute card. Turns out she meant to send that text to her ex. Seems like the only thing I'll get from this relationship is diabetes. FML
Hell no!
Today, the girl I've had a crush on for a year finally said she'd go out with me. On the way over to pick her up, she called me and said she couldn't go because she was going out to dinner with her ex-boyfriend to talk things over. She asked if she could use the reservations I had made. FML
Today, I was on a date with a girl I've had feelings for since I was 14 (I'm 22). I took her out to dinner, then to a movie that we both liked and had a few drinks afterwards. I thought it was going really well until I was driving her home and she asked to be dropped off at her boyfriend's house. FML
Today, I asked a girl I like to homecoming. I brought her to my house beforehand for dinner with my family. My brother asked her whether we were just friends or dating, she shouted, "Just friends!" and then starts flirting with him with me in the room. FML
Today, after seeing a girl for a few weeks on and off I sent her a text to see if she wanted to go out the next saturday. Predictive text changed "go" to "in". So..."Why don't we in out on saturday?" She stopped calling me. FML
Today, I took my girlfriend of a year out on a date, a nice fancy dinner and a movie. After dinner, I said that I was feeling sick and just wanted to go home. I didn't have the heart to tell her that dinner was so expensive that I didn't have money for the movie. FML
Hate the game, not the player
Today, I really liked this girl, and it seemed like she maybe liked me too. We texted a lot, she invited me to a party, and we played games together. I asked her out, worried about waiting too long, but got a really ambiguous answer. Now she’s playing the same games she used to ask me to play, just with a different guy. FML
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FreeTheRainbow 14
Or tell her you aren't feeling this dance with her and don't pay for her.
matt729 7
Sorry op, but really you don't have to... Find someone who respects you!
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matt729 7
Sorry op, but really you don't have to... Find someone who respects you!
awildwhisper 30
I agree, why exactly are you paying for this girl if she's obviously using you for a free ticket.
happysmile987 24
I think it will be tough to find a girl though, as it says homecoming is only a few days away.
KhaleesiDannie 26
Who cares better to go stag than to go with a bitch who just wants your money she's most likely going to ditch him during the dance anyways
stormy0307 16
I had that exact thing happen to me twice. Once at homecoming and once at prom. Different girls, but as soon as we got in the door they took off to go dance with their friends and basically pushed me away from the group
kirasant 19
She was honest, so I'd say all she gets is a ride. As she has zero intention of even being friends, then you don't owe her the ticket and meal. I really don't get why anyone would do this to someone.
Tres_1st_Names 3
High School...High School never changes.
FreeTheRainbow 14
Or tell her you aren't feeling this dance with her and don't pay for her.
el_bell3618 29
You most certainly don't have to for someone who won't appreciate it
sboghani 9
I would rather go alone than with a fake b*tch
salvorican 24
Well, she did tell him she's not interested. So she's not being fake about it. Just a b*tch taking advantage of him.
Brandi_Faith 34
But she's not just saying she's not interested and using him, she's saying she doesn't even want to be friends. So ya, she's pretty awful in my opinion. Op, I'd go alone if I were you. As someone else already said, chances are she'll leave you and go dance with her friends and hang out with them all night and completely ignore you. If she has this lack of regard for your feelings now it's not like she's going to be any nicer during the dance. Get out while you can.
dorothy675 15
Don't take her! It sounds like she just wants a date.
alphafish17 16
You don't say?
dorothy675 15
Fight me.
Roaster94 5
Alpha fish I thought it was a little funny. But I agree with 5, this girl is obviously just using this guy. Not his fault he is a beta male. OP don't succumb to a girl like that.
collinchildress 12
Here's a thought, ditch the witch. No guy deserves someone like that op.
ChadHelton 8
better thought, don't buy the ticket and text her you "don't want to be friends before the dance" about 5 min before your scheduled to pick her up.
darkbob101 16
dude... just don't take her. that simple.
Abhimanyu 14
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
Is it really that big of a concern for you to spend a few dollars on a girl you like? Use this opportunity to impress her if you can and even if it doesn't work out, you'll get some experience on how to deal with such situations in near future :)
slavka012 11
You must be a girl. What a stupid advice.
leogachi 15
@17 Please don't insult women like that. I'd be willing to bet that most women would also consider this advice stupid.
Rawrshi 25
#17 - "You must be a girl." *ignores the obviously male photo and "mister" on the profile* gg.
FSGInsainity 15
Experience in treating a girl that has no interest in you as a human being?It isn't break up after, it's to stop being friends.
slavka012 11
#30, please treat my two statements separately. I did not imply that girls are stupid. I just could not fathom a guy to advise to go through self-humiliation like this. Hence I made guess.
PANDORUM89 21
here is what most likely will happen if he takes her. He goes to pick her up awkward conversation the whole way or silence. or she will do what some girls do when its awkward in a car... "oh I love this song!" *cranks the volume up too high to talk over* then they get to dinner. if it's just them it will be very awkward if it's with a group she will 100% ignore him unless a friend comments on how good he looks. then she will be all over him. he will either have to sit and be ignored by her friends or hopefully he is friends with some of the guys. at the dance he can either stalk her the whole time which will end up in a fight where the line "I know you're like in love with me or something but ...." will be said. or he can not talk to her for the rest of the evening. probs not do any couple dances. and overall have a shitty time at an event that overall cost him about $200.00. that is how a snide greedy bitch works. So OP is better off telling her to suck a hard one and finding another date. idky you'd suggest him just stick it out to learn how to handle it next time... handle it the right way now and kick that girl to the curb.
Schmavid64 13
You don't have to go, better to find someone else or don't go then be there with someone who doesn't want to go with you.
mrRastafarian 5
**** her take her out thrn dip
Kitouran 30
#10 Can we get a translation on this one?
delfino1604 24
he's saying to take her to dinner. let her order and what not. then get in his car and take off without her.
WriterB 3
Yeah...you really showed her...