Today, a man I once worked with passed away. He was a lovely, caring, and inspirational person whom I looked up to. My husband's form of consolation? "Old people die. Get over it." FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I was working as a nurse, and an elderly man had just passed away. As the patient's wife was leaving she said, "Thank you for taking such good care of my husband." Then I, intending to say "Sorry for your loss," said "Thank you for your loss." FML
Today, the really hot guy that works in the same building as me came to work after being away for the past two days. I said, "Look who finally decided to come to work!" His response was, "I had a death in the family, thanks." FML
Today, while at work, I asked an older customer how he was doing. He told me that he'd just lost his wife. I gave my condolences before he clarified that his wife was not dead, but was lost in Walmart. FML
Today, I was at a party and saw an old friend from college. I went up to her asking how she was and how her family was. She went on to tell me that her husband left her a month ago and started crying. I told her that he was an ass anyway and that she didn't need him. Turns out he died. FML
Today, an elderly man came into my place of work wearing a nice suit. I commented, saying said he looked nice and asked what the special occasion was. He was going to a funeral. FML
Today, I work at a hospice center. At 3AM, a call just went out to a man's family to come because he was dying. I didn't realize that this man was my old friend's grandpa. When I saw her, I smiled really big and said, "Hey! Great to see you!" Her grandpa was ACTIVELY DYING. Stupid stupid stupid. FML
Today, I attended an elderly man's funeral. As I approached the casket his wife said, "Thank you for coming." I replied with, "No, thank you." FML
Today, after months of putting up with it, I finally asked my manager not to put me on shifts with this old guy who is racist, sexist and lazy. This was how I found out that he died over the weekend. FML
Today, my husband's cat died. He has resorted to calling me by her name to comfort himself. FML
Today, at work, I asked a lady how she was doing. When she replied, I didn't understand her, and instead of asking her what she'd said, I just replied with, "Oh, that's good." What she'd said that I didn't understand was that her husband had just died. FML
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ironichalibut 24
Yes, unfortunately the old die, I hope this great man was able to pass on his experience and intelligence before he passed. Just today I had a discussion about how society seems to be evolving slower socially, because the young refuse to learn from the old.
caplox 6
Yeah doesnt mean he has to be a jerk about it.
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Comments (92)
akiahara 14
He does have a point...
outoftown 27
Sorry for your loss, OP. Too bad your husband didn't learn from a man like that.
HarroIAmBob 21
it is true, but he should have said it more nicely
saidoh_fml 26
What your husband said may be true but that was not the time to point it out. He's a douche and he's probably jealous of the admiration you have for your coworker. Next thing you know he'll be accusing you of sleeping with the guy. Hang in there, and try not to let the douchebaggery get to you.
boredguyyy 10
Maybe there is something wrong with him. There are people that don't understand the feeling people get when they feel hurt if someone close to them passed away. Maybe he is one of them?
pdn5 5
The human brain has trouble dealing with the thought of never existing after this life. Accordingly, everyone reacts to death in their own weird way. Some people grieve, and others become aggressive and mean in an effort to block those thoughts out. FYL, because this is a sensitive time for you and he should have been more supportive, being your husband, but I understand the psychology behind why he said what he did.
Thatguy90 7
It's mean, I admit. But it's kinda funny...
SoEmbarrassing1 5
Well im sure this isn't the whole story... Ur husband does have a point though
TcheQ 12
who*
Samuel5463 12
Your husbands a jerk