Today, I found out that my wife of ten years is still deeply in love with her first crush from before she met me. Now I'm starting to wonder whether her first time was really with me, as mine was with her. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out the guy I had a huge crush on back in college, and still think of every day, actually did like me back. Except I’ve been married for nearly 8 years to someone else. FML
Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML
Today, I've been loyal to my wife for almost 25 years then I randomly bumped into my high school sweetheart, sparks flew like when we were teenagers, and less than an hour later we were having sex in her car. I feel like such scum. What the hell is wrong with me? FML
Today, the girl who I had a desperate crush on in high school 25 years ago, and who would never go out with me, told me that she was actually head over heels in love with me, but was so cripplingly shy that she couldn't say yes. She's divorced now. I'm married. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had been debating leaving me for an old boyfriend from high school. They rekindled their relationship on Facebook, and talking on the cell phone. Both things I insisted she have. FML
Today, I found my ex on Bumble for the second time. She lives with her husband, whom she married a decade ago. FML
Today, my wife of twelve years got drunk and told me the best sex she’s ever had was with her first ex after they broke up. FML
Today, I found out that the girl who my high school boyfriend cheated on me with is now the woman my husband is having an affair with. FML
Today, I found out that my husband keeps in contact with the woman he was infatuated with in high school. He texts her more than he texts me. FML
Today, it was me and my wife's anniversary. I spent it consoling her as she cried over a man she loved 20 years ago. They never even dated. FML
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Chazzster 32
After 10 years it doesn’t matter at all (if it ever did) if your wife was a virgin when you first had sex or not. It barely matters what yours and her pre-marriage life was like. It matters a lot what the 10 years of your marriage have been and what it is now. It sounds to me like you are feeling insecure in your relationship. You should have a quiet and non-confrontational talk with your wife and ask if she loves you and if she wants to stay married to you. For Gods sake don’t bring up anything from before your marriage! Stick to what actually matters - Now and the future.
RichardPencil 32
How can you not be sure that your first time was with her? You were there, weren't you? Instead of obsessing about her first time, you ought to focus on her last time with the other dude. Was it 12 years ago or last weekend?
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Chazzster 32
After 10 years it doesn’t matter at all (if it ever did) if your wife was a virgin when you first had sex or not. It barely matters what yours and her pre-marriage life was like. It matters a lot what the 10 years of your marriage have been and what it is now. It sounds to me like you are feeling insecure in your relationship. You should have a quiet and non-confrontational talk with your wife and ask if she loves you and if she wants to stay married to you. For Gods sake don’t bring up anything from before your marriage! Stick to what actually matters - Now and the future.
RichardPencil 32
How can you not be sure that your first time was with her? You were there, weren't you? Instead of obsessing about her first time, you ought to focus on her last time with the other dude. Was it 12 years ago or last weekend?
sweetpotato 12
this comment makes absolutely no sense. but go off sir.
Nhayaa2.0 17
She's in love with someone else and your concern is whether or not she was a virgin? Wow.
Doom_Kitty 14
Really? THIS is what you're wondering about? In this short FML i can find 3 other things to think about that are way more important.
Vesi 30
"Seventy-two virgins? Why not 72 slutty broads who know what the hell they're doing?" Walter, Jeff Dunham: Spark of Insanity In all honesty.. Why on earth are SO many people hung up on virginity? Since when does a little piece of skin matter? She could be WELL versed in bed without having actually had penetrative sex.. even better, sometimes it is not even there or stretchy enough it doesn't "break". First crush is just that.. a crush. It was before your time and even if she still "loves" him now, that does not make any difference to your own relationship. We ARE capable of loving more than one person. You're only concern should be fidelity AFTER your marriage if that is what you two agreed on.
Bogrbon 27
Lying and deception leading up to or during the marriage, or about what happened before is still a betrayal of sorts. Lying will still **** up your relationships. How much would you trust someone you found out had been lying to you for 10 years of your marriage about something she thought you'd find significant. It wouldn't be a justifiable issue if when the subject came up she'd said "I've been with an ex-BF in the past before I knew you." It'd be all on him for being judgmental. But lying, especially if it indicates that she's lying about her commitment to the relationship, or maybe more, is definitely an issue in a marriage. I know someone whose family and husband found out about a kid she'd had and put up for adoption before they met, when the child came looking for her biological parents as an adult. Totally blew up the family. Same thing about just about any family secret. It's different to know you were adopted as a kid and to find out as a young adult your parents lied to you and you were adopted. Relationships require trust and dishonesty breaks that trust.