Today, I was at my bf's house (we are long distance, about 5 hours apart). I found an entire drawer of another woman's clothing and belongings. He told me that they were his ex's, but I don't believe him. I thought he was the love of my life and I'm realizing I'm just his side piece. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, while I was looking for a file on my boyfriend's hard drive, I came across photos of a half-naked woman wearing my clothes, but whose head wasn't really visible. When I demanded an explanation, I realised that it wasn't another girl - it was him. FML
Today, I was at my boyfriend's apartment, when I came across a lacy black thong in the laundry. When confronted, he swore it was his. I don't know what's worse, the possibility that another woman left it there, or the idea that my boyfriend owns and wears women's lingerie. FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend has been seeing another girl behind my back. The kicker is that he told her I was his lazy sister and had just moved in. FML
Today, I went to my boyfriend's apartment for the first time, only to see another girl walking out. I accused her of cheating with him and we got into a fight. Turns out I was at the wrong apartment. He lives next door. FML
Today, I called back a number I'd recently missed a call from. To my surprise, it was my boyfriend's fiancée's number. I've been with him four years, he's been with her for six. Turns out, not only is he a cheating jerk, but technically I'M the other woman. FML
Today, I found a pair of women's underwear in the laundry that wasn't mine. I confronted my boyfriend about it. They were his. FML
Today, I found out my fiancé is in a long distance relationship with his ex. Not only do we live on the same island, he's also my neighbor and my co-worker. FML
Today, after suspecting that my boyfriend was cheating while I was out of town, I came across an Instagram picture of him with another girl. I found out that he told her he was single. When I confronted him in a comment, the girl’s friend replied, "He clearly likes her more than you." FML
Today, I found out that the girl my boyfriend says is "just a good old friend" is actually an "ex that got away." FML
Today, I found out that my ex slept with someone during a work trip and came back to break up with me. He spent the whole breakup making me think that the problem in the relationship was me. FML
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Top comments
yeongji 31
Even if it is the truth, there is no reason for him to keep them unless he has not moved on from her (and hope she will return one day). Either way, it is a major red flag and I sure hope you called him out on it before calling it the quits.
Magtec 11
Maybe he enjoys cross-dressing and is too embarrassed to tell you.
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Comments (13)
RichardPencil 32
You could be both. He might be staying in the marriage for social or financial reasons.
RockPrincess26 16
No one said anything about a husband/wife relationship.
yeongji 31
Even if it is the truth, there is no reason for him to keep them unless he has not moved on from her (and hope she will return one day). Either way, it is a major red flag and I sure hope you called him out on it before calling it the quits.
Magtec 11
Maybe he enjoys cross-dressing and is too embarrassed to tell you.
BrotherPhil 35
"Enjoys" might not necessarily be the exact word; some transvestites cross dress for pleasure, for others it's a release, or a way of working out issues. Good thought though.
RetireEngland 24
A duh i could have said this would have happened ages ago, all long distance people cheat cos its easy
TaysDarkLust 11
Not all. Only douchebags. I've been in a really hard LDR for 4 years and we are both truly committed to each other. OP should really talk to her partner about this in depth, it could be several things but it's likely the worst case scenario... Sorry OP
sixtus1973 27
You're not the first one, trust me.
Ashamed_Sister 60
...and you will not be the last one. Other women will make the same experience.
dexter420 21
Im so sorry to hear that
Lobby_Bee 18
Hard times, had to take up a second job as a drag queen but he is just too embarrassed to admit it. Hence the ex-gf excuse.
maritime1992 5
It's 2017. if you're not the one cheating, then you're being cheated on.
SteelSoul5 9
Run like hell and never waste your life as a side piece. You're worth more than that!