Today, and every day for the past five months since I got married, whenever my husband and I try to have sex, I think of it as "wifely duties" and it turns me off so much. I can't stop, and we haven't had sex once. My husband is frustrated and angry, and keeps commenting that he should have known this would happen. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I've been married for six months, my husband and I are in our early twenties, and not only does he have absolutely no interest in any kind of sexual act with me, he actually becomes angry and irritated when I try to come on to him. FML
Today, after 10-plus years of marriage, my husband still gets off after 5 minutes. I find myself just wanting to just go down on him, instead of being unsatisfied right when I start to get into it myself. FML
Today, like every other day for the past two weeks, my husband was not in the mood for sex. He told me this while masturbating. FML
Today, my wife has initiated sex less than five times in the 18 years we've been married. If I don't mention it, then she doesn't have to bother. FML
Today, I realised I may have some kind of problem, given that I masturbate daily, and sex with my wife no longer interests me because it takes too long, involves her instead of me alone, is too much hard work, and generally annoys me. FML
Today, marks the sixth month in a row my husband of two years refuses to have sex with me. I've shaved everything, I lost weight to try to be more shapely, I do more chores, work, and go to school. I can't even get him erect with a BJ. I don't know what else to do. FML
Today, I realized that sex with my husband has gotten so boring that I'd rather fake an orgasm than let him continue. FML
Today, my husband and I had sex for the first time because we pledged we wouldn't have sex until we were married. He's terrible. FML
Today, after 5 years of marriage, my once-gym-mad husband is now so unfit that even standard missionary sex makes him so breathless and light headed, he has to stop in case he passes out. He hasn’t given me an orgasm in over a year and yet he insists nothing's wrong with him, and that I’m just being mean. FML
Today, I realized how low my husband's libido has gotten over the years. He has zero intention of trying anything to fix it, no matter how hard I try. I don't even think I'm horny anymore as much as intimately touched starved. He ran his hand down my back in passing and I almost burst into tears. FML
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stickyface 17
Serious counseling, or annulment.
FluffythePink 24
You need to actually talk to him, probably a therapist and maybe try imagining that he's a handyman who's snuck in to 'fix your problem'. The longer you let it go on for the harder it is to fix. Unless, of course, you have outstanding trauma you need to work through or you didn't actually want to marry him in the first place? If it's the latter then you're in the wrong marriage, if it's the former then his reaction says that you are in the wrong marriage. Whatever way, you need counselling to figure out what the actual problem is.
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stickyface 17
Serious counseling, or annulment.
FluffythePink 24
You need to actually talk to him, probably a therapist and maybe try imagining that he's a handyman who's snuck in to 'fix your problem'. The longer you let it go on for the harder it is to fix. Unless, of course, you have outstanding trauma you need to work through or you didn't actually want to marry him in the first place? If it's the latter then you're in the wrong marriage, if it's the former then his reaction says that you are in the wrong marriage. Whatever way, you need counselling to figure out what the actual problem is.