Today, marks the sixth month in a row my husband of two years refuses to have sex with me. I've shaved everything, I lost weight to try to be more shapely, I do more chores, work, and go to school. I can't even get him erect with a BJ. I don't know what else to do. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I've been married for six months, my husband and I are in our early twenties, and not only does he have absolutely no interest in any kind of sexual act with me, he actually becomes angry and irritated when I try to come on to him. FML
Today, it has officially been two and half months since I've had sex. I've done everything imaginable to entice him, but my boyfriend doesn't seem bothered at all. FML
Today, I realized that it's been well over a month since my boyfriend has even tried to have sex with me. The last time was our first time, and because he couldn't keep it up, he's too humiliated to accept any of my advances. FML
Today, my husband won’t have sex with me anymore because he can’t be bothered. That’s been his excuse for almost three weeks, but he insists there’s nothing wrong, he just doesn’t want to. For reference, we had sex almost every day before this, so this is very abnormal behavior. FML
Today, after an argument, my husband bet he could go longer without sex than me, since he’s used to me turning him down for weeks at a time, it’s now been a month, and all I want to do is rub against him like a cat, while he’s walking around completely unbothered. He even ignores me when I’m naked. FML
Today, and every day for the past five months since I got married, whenever my husband and I try to have sex, I think of it as "wifely duties" and it turns me off so much. I can't stop, and we haven't had sex once. My husband is frustrated and angry, and keeps commenting that he should have known this would happen. FML
Today, for the third night in a row, I went to bed sexually frustrated because my man turned me down for sex. I can’t even use a vibrator because he made it crystal clear that he does not want me using one, but refuses to have sex with me more than twice a month. I’m fit and attractive, so I don't know what his problem is. FML
Today, after 5 years of marriage, my once-gym-mad husband is now so unfit that even standard missionary sex makes him so breathless and light headed, he has to stop in case he passes out. He hasn’t given me an orgasm in over a year and yet he insists nothing's wrong with him, and that I’m just being mean. FML
Today, my boyfriend hasn’t asked for sex in a while, like months, and when I asked him about it he admitted that every day I shout at him, snap at him or act bitchy about anything not his fault, he has a wank and goes to sleep rather than bother asking me for sex. FML
Today, my husband chose to masturbate. I'm not getting laid for the forth night in a row, because initiating sex is too hard for him. Just once, I want to not have to initiate or flat out beg for it. FML
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Nico97 3
have you tried some communication to find out why? maybe couples therapy?
Yudith 28
Maybe a good visit to a doctor to see why your husband's weenie hangs like a deflated balloon whatever you do? Of course, the couples therapy would help as well, with a little side dish of individual therapy for him.
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Nico97 3
have you tried some communication to find out why? maybe couples therapy?
Yudith 28
Maybe a good visit to a doctor to see why your husband's weenie hangs like a deflated balloon whatever you do? Of course, the couples therapy would help as well, with a little side dish of individual therapy for him.
RichardPencil 32
Become male. I think your husband has turned gay.
XRP123 11
Life is too short to go sexless.
cuz803 46
His libido levels may be low. Try getting him to work out with you and doing non sexual forms of intimacy together like working out, cooking, chores, etc. Then level up to things like cuddling, kissing, and sweet talking. If this doesn't or has not work, maybe couples therapy could help.
neonpachyderm 13
If he's willing, see a doctor - sounds like a low T count.
Hangryko 32
If he wasn't willing to communicate and work it out with you, I hope you left him.