Today, I realized just how bitchy my BFF really is. When my sister said hi to her, she just glared back. She refers to a trans woman as "it" and not her correct pronouns. She just sucks the fun out of everything and makes me feel alone and stuck. I can't abandon her though because we're both each other's only friend. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, a girl I despise from our group of best girlfriends, who just moved in with another, has showed her true colors. I smelled her bipolar disorder in our group interactions and took a step back, but was afraid to say something to the two other girls like, hey, she's unstable. Now she thinks she's in the group. FML
Today, I broke ties with a friend of mine. She said I was her only friend and asked me not to interact with others normally. I'd had enough, and asked her not to bother me again. Then I found out that everyone liked her better and left me alone for lunch, even though she's a gaslighter. FML
Today, my sister blamed me for everything again. We're twins and have the same friends, but they all like her better because she's an extrovert and I'm an introvert, and I'm sick of her getting mad at me, copying me, blaming me and making my life miserable for no reason. Why does everyone think I'm so pathetic? FML
Today, I told my sister I felt like her friends didn't like me, since they were ignoring my questions, opinions, etc., in the bridesmaids' chat, but were all over each other's messages. She kicked me from her bridal party, saying her friends wouldn't want me at the bridal shower and bachelorette party. FML
Today, I discovered that my best friend of 3 years has me in her phone as "Stupid Bitch". FML
Today, my sister-in-law told me calmly that she never cared for me, likes her brother's ex more than me, and probably will always dislike me. It was our first serious conversation ever, that I initiated because I wanted to "maintain our great friendship." FML
Today, a close, funny friend who has quite the attitude, received a long email from a long-time friend of hers, telling her how difficult she is. When I told her it doesn’t matter, that she is still wonderful, she went off on how bad a friend I am for saying that, and then deleted me off WhatsApp. FML
Today, my best friend told me she no longer wants an "active friendship" with me. She says she doesn't have time to see me, since she has a boyfriend and a bunch of friends she's spent years bitching to me about. We've gone from a 14-year friendship to awkwardly nodding at each other in the street. FML
Today, I realized one of my best friends was only friends with me because I would take her shopping, spoil her regularly, and help her out financially. She moved to another province and only contacted me whenever she wanted money. After I refused a couple of times, she deleted me on Facebook. FML
Today, my now ex-friend told me she had feelings for my ex and was also choosing him over our friendship, despite being fully aware of the crazy rollercoaster our relationship was and being there to hear every detail of the trauma. She classily told me at random, in a public mall. People suck. FML
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Doom_Kitty 14
You're actually not doing her a favour by supporting the exact reason why she doesn't have any other friends.
RichardPencil 32
Zero friends is better than having one shitty one. Once you dump this shit, you can have time to meet others. Try to pick better this time.
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Doom_Kitty 14
You're actually not doing her a favour by supporting the exact reason why she doesn't have any other friends.
Dumbum123 19
In my opinion, people are entitled to their beliefs, but anyone expressing any kind of hateful rhetoric is not someone I wanna hang out with. You need friends who's beliefs are more in line with yours. True, you may help your friend understand and even accept your belief system by gentle discussion but if she's set in her ways then it's time to say goodbye.
Anderling 33
You remaining friends with her is going to feel like implicit support to her. You really, really need to drop her and find new friends.
Nazmazh 18
Let her carry her own burdens of her own making - She has no friends because she seems like she actively drives people off. Wouldn't you be so much happier, freer, if you didn't have to worry about her and her reactions to things? Would you perhaps be more able to find people who aren't immediately driven away by her? Let go. If she has problems without you, that's not your problem. As for yourself, better no friends than an actively harmful "friend", no?
D J's MOM 17
you don't 'need' to stay friends with her. she has no other friends because she's toxic. you have no other friends because of her. drop her and you'll end up finding healthy friends. you definitely don't need her toxicity in your life.
Justkidding100 41
she deserves no friends actually
RichardPencil 32
Zero friends is better than having one shitty one. Once you dump this shit, you can have time to meet others. Try to pick better this time.
exodeus 9
Abandon said 'friend' because without them you will be significantly better off finding new friends. People like that bring everyone else around them down to their level and you need to escape before you become another crab in a bucket.
SylvarLorali 4
sorry but I wouldn't care if she was my only friend - showing so much disrespect for the trans community is disgusting and I wouldn't want to have any part of that.
xaddrus 17
hit the fyl button before reading. now it won’t let me hit the ydi 😢