Today, after not hearing from my "bestie" for over a month, I realized she completely ghosts me when she finds a boyfriend, only calling me when they break up so she can complain, and hangs up before hearing a single word about my life. I have such low self-esteem, I don't even fight it. Who needs enemies? FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my best friend, who I speak to pretty much all day, every single day, started dating someone and blocked and ghosted me. I guess my only close friend wasn't such a good friend after all. FML
Today, my best friend told me she no longer wants an "active friendship" with me. She says she doesn't have time to see me, since she has a boyfriend and a bunch of friends she's spent years bitching to me about. We've gone from a 14-year friendship to awkwardly nodding at each other in the street. FML
Today, it hit me hard that the girl I love is not still not interested after a year. She's now ghosting me, and she hangs out with my friends daily. She constantly talks about dating in front of me and only text/calls me when I post shorts/stories hanging out with other girls, just to pull me back in. FML
Today, my best friend has blocked or ghosted me on everything. Why? She showed me her plan for getting her life back on track. I pointed out that her creepy, controlling boyfriend would never allow her to do any of it. Somehow, she took that to mean that I'm in love with her, and that I'm trying to break them up on purpose. FML
Today, after I moved across country to move in with my best friend, she decided to move in with her boyfriend a month into me being here. I don't know anyone here. She hasn't been home in 4 months and recently any time we've made plans, she stands me up. FML
Today, after feeling like I've been sucking as a friend and contacting a friend who has called me their best friend, but doesn't talk to me much, we grabbed a coffee. The whole time I was trying to have a conversation, she was on her phone. FML
Today, after months of being friendly and flirty with a very close friend, they've started ghosting me and cancelling everything that has been planned. They will only message to moan or ask for help. FML
Today, I was hanging out with friends when my ex called me, but I ignored the call because I don’t want drama. About five minutes later she shows up and starts yelling at me on how I’m so worthless and useless. She left almost immediately after this, but when I went home she was talking to my fiancée. Like, WTF? FML
Today, I realized one of my best friends was only friends with me because I would take her shopping, spoil her regularly, and help her out financially. She moved to another province and only contacted me whenever she wanted money. After I refused a couple of times, she deleted me on Facebook. FML
Today, after I ghosted a good friend for 6 months due to mental health issues/dropping out/other life changes, it's been a week since I got back in contact, and I think she hates me now. I stalk her on social media sometimes on my laptop and she made a playlist called "What the F*** are you doing?" like 3 days ago. FML
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justwanttobesocial...butalsonot 9
Definitely sounds like you could use some better friends, I'm sorry she's using you like that 😔 as someone who's therapist literally told them to make friends, I understand how much of a challenge it can pose 🙃 been contemplating joining a D&D group in my town - if you enjoy stuff like that there might be local places near you that could offer an opportunity to form new bonds. Best of luck regardless!
RichardPencil 32
Look for new friends, branch out. I'm sure there are lot of girls who want to dump on someone about their relationship troubles. You sound like a great dumpee! Use it to your advantage.
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RichardPencil 32
Look for new friends, branch out. I'm sure there are lot of girls who want to dump on someone about their relationship troubles. You sound like a great dumpee! Use it to your advantage.
justwanttobesocial...butalsonot 9
Definitely sounds like you could use some better friends, I'm sorry she's using you like that 😔 as someone who's therapist literally told them to make friends, I understand how much of a challenge it can pose 🙃 been contemplating joining a D&D group in my town - if you enjoy stuff like that there might be local places near you that could offer an opportunity to form new bonds. Best of luck regardless!
Jonkbaby 23
That is no friend