Quickie

By HolyyMolyy - 11/07/2016 10:24

Today, I was ecstatic to have received a friend request from my crush of grade 4 after 11 years. He's grown up to be such a hottie. I quickly accepted his request, he messaged me and we ended up chatting for hours. Later, when I messaged him, he called me clingy and unfriended me from Facebook. FML
I agree, your life sucks 13 684
You deserved it 2 023

Same thing different taste

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cranberries_fml 17

If you've had a crush on him since the fourth grade you might be...a tad clingy

Sounds like he's a loose canon anyway. You're better off!!

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Sounds like he's a loose canon anyway. You're better off!!

Yeah, no true bibliophile likes collections that are scattered all over the place. Oh, you mean cannon. In that case, his cannon balls probably lack real substance.

I personally love people who are non-canonical

You waited for HIM to make a move after 11 YEARS? Sorry OP, you deserve this one.

OP may have tried tracking him down through the years, but was unable to find him. It's happened to me. Especially with common names. Or if they've moved far away.

If he doesn't want you around him a lot, you're probably better off without him anyway.

cranberries_fml 17

If you've had a crush on him since the fourth grade you might be...a tad clingy

Not a crush SINCE 4th grade. She had a crush on him IN 4th grade. At least, that's how I read it.

I wasn't crushing on him since 11 years.

I wasn't crushing on him since 11 years.

I've had crushes on people for ages... not a big deal

tantanpanda 26

If he was, he would have stayed till receiving some instant gratification. No fuckboy chats for hours and leaves when it's this easy.

This is kinda..opposite from typical fuckboi behavior? Op messaged him, typically its if women don't respond within a certain limit of time or show no interest in sex with them that they blow up.

Uh, I want to see his side of the story, considering you did wait till you were 20/21 to talk to him. I mean, 11 years later, I don't have feelings for my 4th grade crush, and she's become a hottie, so, I'm wondering if you are indeed clingy.

It doesn't actually say that OP still has a crush on him...

It doesn't have to say that word-for-word. It's clearly implied that she still feels a way for him or she wouldn't have replied. Plus him being a "hottie", might have had something to do with her very eager reply.

Who needs looks? Right? Go for somebody that's a nerd for something that you're a nerd for too.

Mixed messages much? Not sure what the dude was expecting.

I don't know why people are dumping on him. She's acting like she won the lottery because of a simple friend request. It sounds to me like she kept messaging him and he then did what he did. She does seems a little clingy.

Sounds like maybe he over reacted a bit here. You don't need him in your life if he's gonna be like that.