Today, my girlfriend broke up with me and said I was not 'Christian enough' for her. Later I found out she had been cheating on me with my best friend. FML
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On 02/09/2009 at 6:41pm - misc - by feenix89 (man) - United States (Ohio)
I had a girlfriend who wouldnt have sex with me because she was "too christian." Later i found out that while we were still together, she had sexy with another guy 7 times. Its balls
#1 - On 02/09/2009 at 7:39pm by kreemo
Most people use religion only when it benefits them, for everything else they just ask for forgiveness....or whatever ritual they use to make themselves feel better. Don't date religious people...duh
#5 - On 02/09/2009 at 9:24pm by truth
dude shes a bitch, you should egg the inside of her house.
#7 - On 02/09/2009 at 10:22pm by aint got jack
that's nothing. last year i was dumped by a girl for not being christian. she's catholic but has had an abortion and goes to church about 5 times a year because she's "usually too hung over." FML
#8 - On 02/09/2009 at 10:59pm by story topper
yeah, she goes through phases where she says she's Christian.
We dated for about a year, we started dating and she sat me down to ask if I was a Christian too.
We had sex 3 weeks into our relationship, and then for another 9 months, and we stopped to 'get closer to God'
And I also think it was around that time she started nailing my friend.
And she still has yet to understand why I don't want to talk to her
Literally the same thing happened to me a few years back... i say screw religion.
#10 - On 02/10/2009 at 4:05am by issorteP
Religion has made too many of my relationships hard. I'm an agnostic, and every Christian I dates seems upset by it. Sorry mate, but the "on and off" Christians are the worst, HYPOCRITS of the highest degree.
Good luck!
#11 - On 02/10/2009 at 6:03am by O_o
If you want to become more Christian, start viscously attacking all non-Christians and calling them immoral.
#12 - On 02/10/2009 at 7:13am by Lee
yeah, im an atheist. makes finding good women difficult cause non of the "real" christians will date me. of course theyre only christian when it suits them.
#13 - On 02/10/2009 at 8:15am by thefauxjew
Never trust someone who says others aren't Christian enough!
#14 - On 02/10/2009 at 9:15am by Schneltor
funny thing was, I dated another girl over the summer, ended up moving 8 hours to be with her, she dumped me a week before I left because of not being Christian enough. But she has every right, one of the few pure Christians I've seen. Good for her, bad for me.
So yeah, screw religion
Your best friend is definitely going to the right church then! haha
#16 - On 02/10/2009 at 11:38pm by Roberto_66
These comments are BS. You're taking one group of people who claim to be religious (cheaters) and use them to describe all religious people. That's stupid. I have many Christian friends and they are generally people whose relationships are steady and don't cheat. In statistical terms this 'sample' is aburdly biased, i.e., in a thread about religious people cheating, you're going to hear more stories about it. Shocking, huh.
#22 - On 02/14/2009 at 2:47am by AJ
Also, most Christians don't attack non-Christians. The Christians I know have all had conversations about the need to show non-Christians Jesus' message, but have had many conversations about not putting themselves on a pedestal and remembering they are also sinners. There are also Bible verses advocating kindness and forgiveness for sinners. But hey, why look at actual regular Christians when you can rely on bad sample data and a few news stories about televangelists?
#23 - On 02/14/2009 at 2:51am by AJ
most christians arent religious anyways. its more a label they pick up to sound like theyre good people...but in turn that kinda kills the idea of a christian being a good person when theyre all hypocrites.
#28 - On 02/17/2009 at 2:41am by doodle
Thank you #22 (and #23). I can accept the fact that there are people here who are angry at people who are hypocritical and use religion to their own means. But I can't accept some of these comments people are making about "don't date religious people," "screw religion," "don't date Christians," etc. I myself am Christian, and I am angry at the hypocrisy as well. I have had two serious relationships; I found out I was being cheated on after four years in the first one, and I have been in my current relationship for four years. I have never cheated, and have never thought of cheating. If you truly believe in a higher power, you don't try to manipulate that power into what is convenient for you.
#30 - On 02/18/2009 at 9:17pm by vvtumblesbee
I'm so sorry that that happened to you! I got dumped 8 months ago because I'm not a Christian - I was born a Hindu. My ex said we couldn't get married in the eyes of God because I wasn't the same religion as him. We were together for over 2 years - he used to talk about how we were going to get married and have kids. I was pretty harsh when I started dating him - I was an atheist and thought all religions were brainwashing. About 5 months after saying that I actually started believing in God and looked into Buddhism, Christianity and Hinduism. I counted myself as a Hindu because Hindus are brought up to believe that there are numerous paths to God. I apologised to my boyfriend because I realised how much it upset him when i disrespected his religion when i said it was brainwashing. I didn't actually realise how offensive I was being. I said I wanted to go to Church with my boyfriend but that never happened...I mentioned a lady who goes to church and to a Hindu temple and he said it was a conflict of interest. I was really disheartened because I thought it was lovely that someone could find God in more than one religion. Anyway, about 11 months later he dumps me. Still hurts. I just wasn't good enough for him because I'm not a Christian. Fault lies with me apparently. 8 months down the line I still feel like the end of our relationship was my fault because I'm not a Christian.
I hope things get better for you :)
#34 - On 02/24/2009 at 6:03pm by MP
Christian my ass... Look on the brightside - at least you don't get stuck with a slut. You'll find someone better.
#35 - On 02/25/2009 at 10:34pm by aiya~
SAME exact thing happened to me. My boyfriend dumped me for not being Christian or 'a good influence on him'...never mind that my morals blow his out of the water. Two days later his best friend was his new girlfriend. FML is right haha.
#36 - On 02/27/2009 at 11:19pm by mdc
That sucks, I'm sorry.
For everyone else, just stop it. Just because some people in a group of people are hypocritical, that does NOT make them all that way. It was obvious she used it as an excuse to sound "greater-than-thou", and try and get out of it. Well, guess what? A good some of us Christians aren't like that.
OP, don't think all Christians are like that. MOST of us are pretty good people. And no, we don't think we're any better than you (Unless of course, like you're ex, the Christian in question is a hypocrite). So people, stop bad talking Christians and Christianity. Not all of us are like that!
#38 - On 03/03/2009 at 4:03am by kayykatastrophii
Yeah, people will come up with a lot of excuses to dump someone so they don't have to admit they're cheating on you.
My best friend's older sister's ex said he "didn't trust her with other guys" when she was about to leave for trade school, when he had no reason whatsoever to think that. He was cheating on her.
Or, when they say "There's too much going on in my life; I can't handle a relationship right now", that usually is bullshit for "I don't really like you that much but I don't want to admit it", especially when you know enough about their life to know that, unless they're keeping some serious shit from you, NOTHING is happening.
#41 - On 03/20/2009 at 12:56am by katzgoboom
That sucks.
To you people who are saying "all religious people do that" or the like, shut up with your horribly inaccurate generalizations made solely to attack people that you don't even know the first thing about.
I dunno, sounds pretty Christian to me. Yay hypocrisy. I used to be intensely religious, so I can speak from experience. And I'm sorry, that sucks.
Sucks bro i would look for a better girl that wouldnt cheat in the first place
#46 - On 06/02/2009 at 10:40pm by footballa6868
what a bitch. and to pull the "christian" card while bein' w/ your best friend... she must be a teenager.
She probably is Catholic, most Catholic people play that card. I should know, I am a Lutheran girl attending a private Catholic school.
Anyways, that is really rude of her, and is a terrible excuse for her wrong duings. You are wayyyy better off without her.
---Cassy
#50 - On 06/05/2009 at 12:57am by xocassylovesyou
Religion is the opiate of the masses.
Fuck her. Go find someone who isn't a bigot and hypocrite.
#51 - On 06/13/2009 at 11:09pm by squigglyshark
A prime example of why religion is not needed to have morals. I wish our race as a whole would grow out of this outdated idea of religion. Sadly I won't be seeing it in my lifetime.
If you don't have morals, you aren't religious. There's a difference between say your christian, for example, and actually being christian. And in this case, I doubt her even mentioning religion had anything to do with actually thinking (wrongly) that she was religious. She just used it as an excuse.
#53 - On 10/11/2009 at 2:33am by TakeItEasyPeople
you should take pics of her and your bestfriend doing it and then send them to her Christian parents
#54 - On 11/03/2009 at 6:29pm by Biohazard808
