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By Ashamed - 07/05/2016 13:49 - United States - South China

Today, while hanging out with a guy I really like, I told him I wanted to wait until we were dating to be intimate. He said that he wanted to make long distance work and asked me out. I was ecstatic. I then painfully lost my virginity to him. He dumped me as he was driving me back to my house. FML
I agree, your life sucks 60
You deserved it 7

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******* hate people like this guy. Talk to someone- what he did wasn't right, and YOU aren't the one that should feel ashamed. He's the liar and the one who took advantage of you, and the blame is on him. Talk to someone who understands how serious the matter is, see what, if any action can be taken against him, and take care of yourself. I'm going to restate it, because people always try to blame people who are deceived like this: You DO NOT need to be ashamed. HE is the one in the wrong. PLEASE talk to someone with training about this- being ashamed in the wake of a violation of trust is not how you should have to feel. Regardless of whatever you may be feeling right now, or what people might try to tell you, you DID NOT DESERVE what he did, and he is an absolute asshole, creep, and pig for doing that to you. No one deserves what he did. So again: please talk to someone with training about this. Do it anonymously if you have to, but please talk to someone.

Unfortunately, guys will do anything for sex. Your #1 priority is to protect yourself. Msg me if you need anything or to talk.

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******* hate people like this guy. Talk to someone- what he did wasn't right, and YOU aren't the one that should feel ashamed. He's the liar and the one who took advantage of you, and the blame is on him. Talk to someone who understands how serious the matter is, see what, if any action can be taken against him, and take care of yourself. I'm going to restate it, because people always try to blame people who are deceived like this: You DO NOT need to be ashamed. HE is the one in the wrong. PLEASE talk to someone with training about this- being ashamed in the wake of a violation of trust is not how you should have to feel. Regardless of whatever you may be feeling right now, or what people might try to tell you, you DID NOT DESERVE what he did, and he is an absolute asshole, creep, and pig for doing that to you. No one deserves what he did. So again: please talk to someone with training about this. Do it anonymously if you have to, but please talk to someone.

Unfortunately, guys will do anything for sex. Your #1 priority is to protect yourself. Msg me if you need anything or to talk.

Some. Some people. We aren't all like that, really....