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FML - The follow-up
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i didnt have an account at the time this was posted but anyway..we were rough housing and he was sorry afterwards. I have a lose jaw from a prior accident so it pops out of place fairly easy so it wasnt a big deal. We didnt break up for those of you who suggested that we should have..everything is fine now thanks
By aireeahna - / Wednesday 12 February 2014 19:43 / United States - Cedar Rapids
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ya seriously break up with him because he did not want a hickie! I don't blame him if he is on a swim team. he is representing a school, or whatever team he is swimming for. God forbid!!

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She should break up with him. I don't care that it was an accident. That he pushed or hit her with enough force to dislocate her jaw is inexcusable. It was excessive, unnecessary,and he should be held accountable for it. End of story.

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Ridiculously insecure! One my ex's had a little "problem" with sucking on my neck, and the hickey would look more like a giant bruise 3 inches long, 3 inches wide. I sported that shit like a battle scar, haha. If your boyfriend gives hickeys, he better be ready to deal with one on his own body as well. Fuck, it wasn't even noticeable unless he had his shirt off.

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Most guys walk around showing off their hickeys... Especially if it's in a locker room full of other guys. Most guys only hide hickeys from their moms or from their "other girlfriend."

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I know exactly where you're coming from. the only time my baby's daddy was ever worried about me giving him a hockey was when he was cheating on me with his "other girlfriend".

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I'm with klorehore. Maybe in high school and earlier guys show off their hickeys, but once you grow up you realize it's a pretty stupid thing to walk around gloating about. He probably should've used words instead of pushing her away, but I can see why he wouldn't want one.

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How is it fair though, for him to give her a hickey but not to allow her to give him a hickey? He shouldn't have given her one in the first place if he was going to freak out at the idea of getting one himself.

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#58 I gotta ask where you get that knowledge from? Because for me in college football and baseball and now in rugby as an adult dudes still show off their love bites. Im talking 43 year old men who are happily married coming in being like "yeah me and wifey had a great one this weekend!! Check these out!" A locker room is a much different world from work or everyday life. You can try to hide hickeys from your teammates but it's much better to embrace it, show it off, and ask why they d

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59, she isn't likely to be walking around in public with her breast out, but as a male swimmer he will have to be at practices and competitions with his hickey showing. Hickeys are immature and people often judge you for having them.

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I have a strict no hickeys around the neck rule because I'll get in trouble at work, and I once gave my boyfriend three or four on his neck (he reaaaaaally enjoys them) and he got a ton of (not necessarily bad) crap from his own coworkers, friends, family, etc. It may just be because it looks unprofessional, though I think that if anything his swim team buddies would be more like the type to be happy that he's getting some. Hopefully it's just because he may have had a bad experience in the past

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Her abusive and controlling nature? He already marked her, and does not wish to be marked himself it sounds more like he is the controlling one especially considering he caused an unwarranted amount physical harm to his girlfriend when a simple stop would have sufficed.

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@77 It's not showing it off you dummy. Showing it off is like "hey look at me and my hickey!" while pointing at his chest. If anything a hickey being spotted like others have said, means he is most likely getting some action.

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It doesn't say he hit her. I do not think he would hit her, especially over something like that. He probably just pulled her off. Don't jump to conclusions or accusations.

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#12 I'm so glad you said that, I absolutely despise women who think's it's ok to hit guys, but would be the first to scream abuse if a guy hit her. As far as i'm concerned 'if you can't take it don't dish it out' applies in more than one context. If i'm gonna go as far as to hit a guy I damn well better accept that he's within rights to retaliate, whether or not he would. Categorizing 'abuse' should go both ways.

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#9 you are an idiot. this is the very thing that annoys the hell out of me when it comes to women's rights. woman in the work place wants equal pay and opportunities, same woman that night expects her date to pay for everything. why shouldnt a guy hit a girl. If I hit my boyfriend for any reason other than him endangering my kids or myself, then I sure as hell would be expecting him to hit me back. there is no right reason to hit someone, except defense and that goes for men and women.

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If a girl is beating up a guy, is he expected to just stand there and take it? Heck no! I think no one should hit anyone. Or anyone can hit anyone. And on dates I always offer to pay my own way. I don't like girls expecting to be paid for.

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9, he probably pushed her off from the jaw. If he's a swimmer he's probably strong. Haven't you seen how broad their shoulders are and how strong their arms look!?

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In my opinion, either split the bill or the person who asks the other out pays for the date. And fun fact, men paying because tradition cause women weren't allowed to have wallets. Not common courtesy or chivalry. So that's not an excuse anymore :)

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