annie_xox
Neath, United Kingdom
Today, my boyfriend commented on one of his his ex-girlfriend's Facebook photos, saying how smoking hot she looks and how much he wants her. His excuse was that the photo was posted before he was with me, so he's clearly doing nothing wrong. FML
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MDoremis 38
Good for you, OP!
acommonman 23
19, the photo itself was posted before OP and her boyfriend together, but her boyfriend made suggestive comments to the photo while OP and her boyfriend were in a relationship.
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MrConcise 35
The backpedal is real.
exceswater 8
You mean ex boyfriend ?
devildog562 33
I'm sure there is a block button on that site somewhere.... Do yourself a huge favor and don't bother trying to justify your feelings. If he doesn't wise up and have some decent common sense, I believe you should move forward and don't look back.
lovelyvampire 16
He needs a reality check.... sometimes the absolute idiot ness of some goes right through me. sorry loves, hope he realizes his mistake.
ThatDamHuntress 20
Break Up Him. He doesn't deserve you.
igive 29
that is disrespectful towards you. Don't put up with someone who doesn't value you
diagnosed 15
Unfortunately guys are not always the most intelligent. They think that they can get away with making comments like that and have no repercussions. 0p i really suggest that you sit down and talk to him about this and if you can't understand why what he did was wrong maybe its time to find another boyfriend. Not trying to be mean or anything. Nobody belongs being stuck with stupid.
sunnyskys 25
No reason to be sexist. that's not cool. everyone has spikes of stupidity.
annie_xox 1
Hi, OP here! Believe me now, I gave him the dirtiest look and ended things there and then. He can have his "gorgeous" ex if he wants her so badly, just don't come crawling back to me, you dick!
MDoremis 38
Good for you, OP!
TheMalygos 21
Dont worry if you have doubts, you will find a man that is a million times more smarter and caring than that fourth year illiterate
Araj_Hs 19
OP, you should probably move on! You can find someone way better. If he still acts like a dick, you can play his game on himself, and show him what its like!
PresAgent 23
OP, I admit to being slightly confused due to the wording you used. You stated in the FML that your now ex claims the picture was posted before you two were together. Is this in fact true, or was it posted while you were together? If it was the former, I don't see how it's a problem. Ex does not always mean enemy. If he made the comment while you were together, then I can understand the concern and your actions.
acommonman 23
19, the photo itself was posted before OP and her boyfriend together, but her boyfriend made suggestive comments to the photo while OP and her boyfriend were in a relationship.
giantbuts71 14
go girlfriend **** his shit mother ****** doesn't deserve you xoxox
PresAgent 23
That makes more sense, #20. In that case, yes, I do agree with her dumping him. I simply misunderstood the order of events.
Shmatterhorn 38
I doubt that the first ex will want to take him back. He's an ex for a reason. But good for you, OP.
acommonman 23
24, you'd be surprised by how much pheromones and attraction can cloud logic and reasoning.
laden_swallow09 35
That makes a whole lot more sense, 20. Thank you for articulating that. I was having trouble comprehending the way OP worded it, too.
MELKOZAR 27
Then and there*
LittleMissShadow 16
You go glen coco!
happndinmonterey 8
More smarter lol
jkp1291 25
Alright, seems like you got this shit handled.
SlowDownImaNoob 20
#21, "**** his shit"..... Well we all have our fetishes I guess..
ronzi 15
I'm glad you dumped his ass. Good job?
Stryker_13 19
I don't blame you! If a guys reasoning is that idiotic you don't need him! Live your life happily and without airheads lol :3
devildog562 33
36 I wish I saw that before you . You let them off way to easy, and I hate grammar nazis usually. Well played sir I thumb you up.
Secret_Ninjaa 35
You go girl! :D
mwali02 32
Now that is a follow up well done. Good job girl! Moving on! :)
jaydoug92 21
Ahh gotta love the lame ass excuses.. Good for you OP, sounds like you deserve someone better anyways. Look at it as him doing you a favor.. Now you don't have do deal with a prick. Unfortunately, you're probably right, when things go sour with her or they have a tiff, he will more than likely come crawling back.. Seems like they all do.
KociaQ 30
Atta girl :)
Fayern 13
Happy you got outta that real quick. You'll find someone who appreciates you for your beautiful self. (:
giantbuts71 14
I don't think people understood my comment ?
kalbrek009 20
Wouldn't matter if the photo was "posted before" you were together...he made the comments "while" you were together & that shows he's not worthy of you or your time..what a dog. You did right by dumping him..never look back (or go back)...it'll be just the same sh$t, different day.
starile 20
Awesome job, OP! I love hearing resolutions of FMLs with a justified ending.
aseus 9
You go, girl!
bubbat101 36
Good for you OP! No one should have to deal with a jerk like that but I am glad you took care of it.
thatonetribute 31
You go, girl!!
talicaroxi 25
I assume because of the comment he made added with her saying she broke up with him over it.
MidnightRaven963 21
Don't let one jackass ruin your life, op! I'm glad you left! No one deserves that.
MDoremis 38
That would be like me saying to my husband, "It's okay if I flirt with this dude--I knew him before I met you." I think it's time to find someone more considerate.
LadyNightowl 17
What a childish ass. I would say to leave him, but that choice is yours and I lack context to the rest of your relationship. I do recommend a stern talk and to not tolerate such bullshit in the future though.