Today, I went to my girlfriend's house to celebrate our 4-year anniversary with a shadow box I had made for her of our memories over the years. I left her house single, with a small bag of "breakup candy." FML
zeeman2015 tells us more.
hey guys, OP here. I would like to say thanks for the support on this post. So as for breaking up, it went as smoothly as I could hope for. She was kind enough to answer all of my "but why" questions and the candy was some of our shared favorites. I guess I should have seen the breakup coming but I was in serious denial for a few months. We are still on talking terms and are separating peacefully but it doesn't suck or hurt any less.. As for why it happened on our anniversary? It wasn't really planned in any way to be on that day. it just... played out like that. I know this sounds dumb but it was the first time we had gotten to speak at length in over a month. I hope this clears up any questions.. Thanks again for the support ya'll show
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lat187 18
She either went out and bought you candy (to cheer you up?!??) or she just gave you some leftover pity candy Either way that is harsh.
viaaaaaa 22
That's horrid she could've at least waited a little longer or done it sooner
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gilligan_isle 6
After 4 years I think you deserve more than than a little candy as a break up "gift".
Thatissarcastic 17
It's sad, but at least you know now and you're aware of how she was feeling.
zeeman2015 22
hey guys, OP here. I would like to say thanks for the support on this post. So as for breaking up, it went as smoothly as I could hope for. She was kind enough to answer all of my "but why" questions and the candy was some of our shared favorites. I guess I should have seen the breakup coming but I was in serious denial for a few months. We are still on talking terms and are separating peacefully but it doesn't suck or hurt any less.. As for why it happened on our anniversary? It wasn't really planned in any way to be on that day. it just... played out like that. I know this sounds dumb but it was the first time we had gotten to speak at length in over a month. I hope this clears up any questions.. Thanks again for the support ya'll show
iiTzNeeNerz 26
Sending hugs your way OP.
ChaiseT 16
She could have waited for another day, one that didn't have so much significance.
bonermonkey 31
Take care OP.
dragoongirl90 34
I'm truly sorry, OP. I feel really bad for you. I know how much this hurts.
vikky538 29
Peace bro!
mercumorr 20
I feel like it's better to do it on the same day. Then there's only one day a year that you spend remembering and getting sad until you're completely over it and moved on.
The_madmax 23
why is this being down voted..
legendof90 14
Doesn't really clear up anything. You make a shadow box and she broke up with u. Why
JadeOmega 23
#40 That's actually a really smart idea!!
TheNewGuy03 29
Chin up, brov. Breakups are painful, but that's a silly circumstance.
Enslaved 38
Did you let her keep the "Relax" T-shirt?
ShortieRose 30
Good Guy Ross
NYGiants1925 22
That sucks. Sorry dude.
wordygirl 11
That breaks my heart. I can't imagine what it did to yours. fyl
Tejanoswhy 19
Candy corn?
leowoman 10
:(
vikky538 29
Thats so broken.