Today, I realized I can't afford to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years, as we split the rent. I'll need a second job just to get out of my bad relationship. FML
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emopoe 12
OP here. I can't live with a roommate, did that for 4 years and learned a lot about what happens when your roomie doesn't come up with their half of the rent, and lost way too many friends that way. It would be worse than what I'm dealing with now. Our apartment is already the cheapest in town, I don't have parents or friends to move in with. The bright side is, my boyfriend is NOT abusive. And to the nasty comments that say YDI for using him for money, I clearly stated we split the rent.
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Welshite 40
Find a share with a roommate. There are plenty of available rooms if you look for them.
frizz101 22
You can still break up, maybe sit down with him and talk about your relationship, and how things have changed from when you started dating, you may be surprised he might even feel the same way, and you can figure out the best way to end your relationship amicably. And even have enough time to figure out your living arrangements.
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Gho5tk3y 17
Break up and make him sleep on the couch, I'm sure he can't afford to move out on his own either so there's no reason to pretend you're still in love.
danial1214 21
What if he payed for the bed?
Llama_Face89 34
I have a friend who is still living with her ex. It's rough at times but she felt it was best for her daughter and her wallet. Worst case you might be able to do the same until you find a better option. I hope that helps and I wish you the best of luck OP.
Ksweety_fml 27
Move in with your parents.
BrandiLush 31
What if OP doesn't have parents?
How_you_doin 10
This is so difficult! i could be reading into your comment too much but i hope by 'bad' you dont mean abusive? if thats the case get out as soon as you can, move in with your parents or a friend. please dont stay in a r/ship that involves violence. If this is not a violent r/ship perhaps try to work on things? talk about what it is that bothers you. We all go through patches of disliking our partners sometimes its us being emotional and not knowing what we need. all the best xx
Octwo 16
Is it really that difficult to type out 'relationship?'
How_you_doin 10
Thats the only point you took from my entire response? *claps* Thank you for enlightening me on the use of shortened words. People like you enrage me! You dont have anything of benefit to say so why comment in at all? why dont you just give the OP some advice as that is the purpose of FML not to nit pick on the way people use short hand writing.
Octwo 16
You're welcome.
olpally 33
Ask around for help? Parents perhaps?
jrock9093 18
Is this my ex lol stop being a Mutch and move on and save you both the troubles! Think of it this way your health is more expensive then rent
worldclassrager 41
Can't you find a basic roommate? An old college friend or high school? That's one solution...
allplayedout 20
If you find a roommate and move somewhere owned by the same company, you can often avoid fees for breaking lease and just get an early renewal in a bigger apartment (assuming you live in a one bedroom now and that's why you can't just get a roommate and kick your bf out--though moving may be cleaner either way). I'd call your landlord and check it out, and start looking for a roommate.
simoncat 11
Any job will do! Your self respect and sanity are well worth the drudge.
asylumlane 23
Find a roommate, or move to a cheaper apartment.