Today, I opened up to my boyfriend about being sexually abused in the past. He said it explains why I'm "such a bitch" when it comes to personal contact. FML
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btoker 18
Hi guys, OP here. He is my ex now, because I decided that his aggressive undertones means I might be in for a repeat. He is pretty aggressive in general, and this is one of a few examples so its probably best to move on before its too late. I'm 22 years old and was abused at 16, so he doesn't understand how I couldn't be over it by now. I'm currently looking for other places to live because we live together. Thank you all for the positive support, I am going to try to get myself into a better situation as fast as I can.
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laurellkawes 31
He's a douchebag and I seriously hope that you dumped him. Sorry for what you went through, OP!!
haymac 13
What happened to you wasn't your fault, get rid of him
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Comments (118)
WickedPissah71 0
I hope you're now referring to him as your ex-boyfriend.
alvarny 17
if he's not going to be understanding, you got to find another guy, you really don't want this in a lifetime partner.
juicy_extasy 25
Well, now you know. Sorry about your struggles OP and wish you all the best
I_own_a_dog 11
Usually I'd be saying dump him what a dumbass.. But it's possible he doesn't understand it; I mean that's a very sensitive subject not many encounter. I'd say to talk to him about it and if he keeps reacting the same then yeah he's a asshole that you should dump.
mandyn333 10
More people encounter sexual abuse & it's topic more than you may think.
Sutherland_70 10
okay I'm gonna come out of the closet.....when I was 5 I was sexually molested by my cousin. and then again when I was 7. what happened to you wasn't your fault, you never expected something like that to happen so you weren't ready to try and prevent it. I'm sorry but if he really said that after you opened up to him. end that shit. quick, cause I know how hard it probably was to tell someone especially your boyfriend (asshole) and so now that I have said what I needed. I hope you have an amazing life....peace
truckers_wife 23
I purposely told my now husband about my past before we even started dating just so I knew I could trust him before I got in too deep. it was a big risk since I didn't know him well at the time, but it was definitely worth it. he was very patient and waited until I was ready before he made any moves.
writergirl1029 17
That's a red flag that he may be abusive in the future, OP. Get out, now. Even if he's not, he's a terrible person that you should cut out of your life.
thecolorabi 19
You're worth so much more than he is OP! Please, do yourself a favour and kick him to the curb!
bosniangirl27 21
He's a little b*tch for not understanding.
EyRaB 17
His aggressive undertone, especially after what is clearly a sensitive topic for you, is abusive. Also, he showed a complete lack of empathy towards what's happened to you. Get the hell out now before he sucks the happiness out of you by making you believe you're always the problem.