Today, I opened up to my boyfriend about being sexually abused in the past. He said it explains why I'm "such a bitch" when it comes to personal contact. FML
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btoker 18
Hi guys, OP here. He is my ex now, because I decided that his aggressive undertones means I might be in for a repeat. He is pretty aggressive in general, and this is one of a few examples so its probably best to move on before its too late. I'm 22 years old and was abused at 16, so he doesn't understand how I couldn't be over it by now. I'm currently looking for other places to live because we live together. Thank you all for the positive support, I am going to try to get myself into a better situation as fast as I can.
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laurellkawes 31
He's a douchebag and I seriously hope that you dumped him. Sorry for what you went through, OP!!
haymac 13
What happened to you wasn't your fault, get rid of him
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Comments (118)
xpsychocatladyx 15
seems like some one should be single. sorry OP males suck
laurellkawes 31
He's a douchebag and I seriously hope that you dumped him. Sorry for what you went through, OP!!
ArturoRamirez 16
Yeah, because that's not okay.
kotaro66 10
That is the kind of guy who would leave you in a heartbeat for a "newer" model
higgysaurus 18
Some guys are just idiots and don't think before they open their mouth, that does not make them shallow.
LyricaSilvan 30
So just because he didn't think, that makes judging her and showing no compassion to her situation okay?
deathshead 19
yes exactly, in fact it should be the norm. (before I get downvoted because someone didnt understand, yes that was sarcasm)
higgysaurus 18
#31 I did not defend OPs ex, I was simply saying lack of sympathy does not equate to shallowness
cats54321 19
Wowww that's terrible I'm really sorry.. He must not understand
haymac 13
What happened to you wasn't your fault, get rid of him
amileah13 26
He obviously doesn't understand the impact you've had from it. He's a prick, don't listen to him op. I'm sorry for what's happened to you and good luck in the future. Hopefully you can find someone a lot more understanding than him
janfleury 19
He's an asshat. dump him and find a great therapist. Good luck OP.
THEDUDE1553566 24
What an asshole. Honestly if you stay with him that's shame on you because I bet you deserve so much better
Red_Curls1995 28
Get rid of him. Immediately.
mercyelvira42 23
When I opened up to my boyfriend, who is now my husband, he suggested that we take it slow and didn't rush me into anything. At the time he was a 19 year old with raging hormones. If your boyfriend can't be patient with you and won't accept that you will have sex with him at the times you feel comfortable, I think you should consider leaving him. There are plenty of men out there who will understand and make sure you are comfortable. Good luck, OP.
thecolorabi 19
Your husband is wonderful!
mercyelvira42 23
Thank you. I think so, too.