If he keeps sending you texts, just find dick pics online and keep sending those. He will eventually get the message.

He was too forward and a bit creepy but you're too judgemental and shallow.

It's creepy of him. A fetish is a fetish and not usually a problem...but one does NOT start in on it after an exchange of numbers! That's just...creepy and slimy. It's something he should have waited on until after a few dates, if things looked like they might get serious. He's basically pestering you for his version of naked pictures right off the bat. Normally, I'd say to let the guy know you aren't interested, but when they are such a creep? Wanting sexual images immediately instead of wanting to go out for dinner, catch a movie, or otherwise get to know each other? He doesn't need nor deserve normal polite stuff IMHO. The only interaction *I* would have with him at this point is very brief and very impolite. ;)

I strongly agree with what #104 is saying. This guy seems to be very pushy with it which also makes him a creep. There were guys who would hit on me ignoring my "stop," "no," and "I'm in a relationship." That's when they don't deserve any nice and polite way of telling them to stop. People, including my mom, have told me that it makes me a mean person, but if a guy isn't going to respect me, I'm sure as hell not going to be all nice girl for him. It's a good thing you stopped talking to him. Pushy men are very annoying. If he continues, lay it on the line for him in a harsh way to let him know you are not playing. Sometimes it's the only way to get a pressuring guy to stop.

I might be over analyzing this, but why would you send a picture of the jeans you're wearing (or any picture at all) to a virtual stranger? Sure, his fetish might seem a little creepy to you but you should probably try to be a little more careful when exchanging photos with people you do not know very well.

It's not judgmental and shallow at all. A fetish is something sexual. They just met and he is making sexual comments and advances by trying to get ER involved in his fetish. Anything sexual that early is creepy.

I respect your choice, especially if that's all he's been talking about with you. If this is happening one day after meeting him, imagine what would happen if you were to date him for months or years. It's obviously a sexual fetish, so it's sort of along the lines of sending pictures of boobs - he's clearly going to do some weird and freaky shit while looking at any foot picture you might have sent him, had you not just ignored him. Dodged a bullet.

hey, if you want to see what his response is, you can send him a picture of my toes (i have hobbit feet) x3

Why were you texting some one you had just met a picture of you? You even specify that it was of how you looked in that pair of jeans. You opened that can of worms. YDI.

them toes though

... and I thought he just wanted to know if you are Roman, Greek or Egyptian.

Sorry I'm totally with op on that a for fetish is so not my cup of tea. Sometimes you know what you like and what you don't, you shouldn't have to "compromise" and do something that makes you uncomfortable. Feet gross me out, I don't even like people touching mine I'd never go for a guy who within the first day starts go on about my feet ick.

#84 you do realize him asking for pictures of her feet constantly is the equivalent of a normal guy spamming a girl for nudes right?

#84 - No. They met yesterday. It's not like they've been together two years, share an apartment and a dog, and he's suddenly admitted to this fetish. She owes him nothing. If she's not comfortable with his fetish she is in no way obligated to "compromise" with him on this.

He wants to get off on OP's feet, to be more accurate.

Hah Puns

You have to be the original poster

#93, total agreement here. It's way not acceptable.

You can block on androids too.. I always block telemarketers on my Samsung Galaxy S4.