Dobche
Burgas, Bulgaria
Today, I had to take a drugs test at work. Later, I found out it was my fiancé's mother who called our hotline. Her reason: I work till 6 pm, her "baby" should eat before that, but he can't cook, so I should quit my job. He is 35. And he thinks I should apologize for upsetting her at dinner. FML
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rebelbelle 17
wow why are you dating a guy like that? I wouldn't put up with that BS
Thegoofygoober 15
35 and can't cook? dear lord the fabled grown ass man child is real. also sorry op FYL
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Brandon1000 10
Sounds like someone doesn't want to accept their son's failures so they blame you for stuff.
kuro21 20
Why does everyone question OP for being with her fiancé. Obviously there are many ways to feed yourself. They've probably talked about it before they even got engaged.
Algorithm 24
13, it's not normal for a non-disabled grown man to need someone else's help to eat. And even if they somehow worked this part of it out between them, the fact that he doesn't see anything wrong with his mother's actions is incredible.
Bragi 12
13: Not the issue. He sided with his mother against his fiance over the issue. Don't marry a momma's boy.
IndefiniteBeauty 17
...are you sure about this guy?
ImAFaker 29
I think he needs to grow up
beeferjay 34
damaged goods, return for refund
Bragi 12
+1000
brycemash 9
So what was the test result?
aruden 25
Buy him a ton of Lunch ables then her little man can have some nice crackers and meat circles with juice when ever he gets hungry.
Algorithm 24
Just like the eight year-old he apparently is.
NineeCat 32
Lunchables are ******* delicious:)
Szaszaspasz 26
I don't know about OP's fiancé. When I was eight I was able to make a sandwich and heat a can of soup.
Isa_fml 20
Wow. Useless man-baby with mummy issues. What a catch. DUMP HIS ASS BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE, WOMAN.
gracehi 33
Not knowing how to cook is like not knowing how to ****.
getindoe69 17
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So people think she should break off her engagement because her fiancé has a flaw. Nobody is perfect, this just goes to show the shallowness of people...
engineerosaurus 26
No, not just because he has a flaw, but because he allowed his mother to try and wreck her life without standing up to her.
gracehi 33
The bitch tried to sabotage her job--HER JOB!!! Her means for taking care of herself. And the fiancé thinks this is okay. If this is the sort of controlling bull shit she has to look forward to for the rest of her life, she's better off alone.
getindoe69 17
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there are always 2 sides to every story, I'm just trying to justify the other side of it., because so many people don't want to see both sides, they usually just agree with op without thinking of the other side. I personally think what happened was messed up, but I don't think ending her ending her engagement will make everything perfect
gracehi 33
Assuming that OP is telling the truth, there really is no way to justify either the mother's or fiancé's behavior. And I don't think you realize how extreme this situation is. It's not like she was embarrassed at a party or something silly like that. Her livelihood was put in jeopardy. That's a really big deal.
laurellkawes 31
Sorry, but there is no justification for the other side. I don't care that he can't cook. The problem is that his mother tried to get her fired and he backed his mother. Btw, anyone with two hands can make a sandwich or grab an a piece of fruit or chips, so his mother went way too far
Algorithm 24
Acceptable flaws in a relationship: leaving towels on the floor, forgetting to buy dog food at the store, occasionally lazy about doing household chores. Unacceptable flaws in a relationship: being so stunted in development that you rely on your partner to feed you (unless actually disabled), and being so myopic that you'll defend someone else's attempt to sabotage your partner's job. OP needs to be able to be their fiancee's partner, not his mommy, and needs to be able to rely on him to support her. If he can't do that, he's in no way able to sustain a relationship and trying to apply "everybody has flaws" to this situation is like totaling a car then trying to sell it on craigslist with the label "cosmetic damage".