Today, I finally got the courage to leave my controlling and manipulative ex. He took it well. And by "took it well", I mean he camped out my doorstep, held some of my belongings hostage, and tried to blackmail me into staying with him. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I finally summed up the courage to break up with my abusively controlling girlfriend. I don't know what I was thinking, but instead of leaving as a free man, I left as an engaged one. FML
Today, I escaped an abusive relationship, only for him to manipulate my family into thinking i’m crazy. FML
Today, I finally cracked and told my boyfriend that if he didn't sign full custody of his evil, manipulative 3 year-old daughter to her mother, then I would leave. He picked me up and literally threw me outside his apartment, slamming the door in my face when I tried to run back inside. FML
Today, my cockgoblin of an ex showed up at my house, begging me to take him back. This guy, with his friends' help, faked being kidnapped just so he could use the "trauma" to guilt me into sleeping with him after he "escaped". When he finally left, he yelled that I'm a selfish bitch. FML
Today, after spending the weekend together, my ex turned nasty. I finally had the balls to tell him what a cruel asshole I think he is and really hit him where it hurts. I felt very empowered and strong. That is, until I realized I left my favourite and rather expensive jacket in his apartment. FML
Today, after three months of hooking up and talking about dating, the man I was supporting emotionally went back to his ex, who'd reduced the restraining order on him to a no abuse order so they could be together. He left me in his bed to go be with her. FML
Today, I finally got over my ex and his past of constant lying/cheating/manipulation in our relationship. Only… I'm still living in his house with all of my stuff and my cat, because I've already paid him my half of his mortgage for the next two months. FML
Today, my abusive ex came over to my apartment, hoping to "work things out." Not only did we break up more than 13 years ago, but I moved to a different state just to get away from him. FML
Today, I found out the person who's been stalking and harassing me online was actually my now ex-boyfriend. He only confessed as I finally picked up the phone to report it to the police. He basically said he wanted me to turn to him for comfort and protection, so he could "feel like a man". FML
Today, the most manipulative man I know decided he's going to get me to be his next wife. I'm still in therapy after breaking free from growing up in a violent and manipulative household. He's working with me, so there's limited options of getting out of his presence. I'm scared for my sanity and my freedom. FML
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Top comments
kotaro66 10
You can always call the cops
DEATHLORD_fml 16
Time to buy an M9......or maybe just get a restraining order or something....
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Comments (61)
Etweens96 25
Call the cops. You got away lucky op cause a guy like that doesn't deserve you!
Smilesalot421 10
second amendment...self defence...hide the body
ezrajab 22
Get ur stuff and run
Enzymatically 14
he sounds like a parasite
Msraina 8
Mine threatened suicide if I didn't stay. Get a restraining order.
Xaian1 17
People like that make me feel sorry for the world. I hope you're okay.
VintageVxn 2
Omg I feel awful that you're the girl who ended up with my ex. It sucks, no one deserves to put up with that but you're not alone.
TrainedMonkey 5
Like others have suggested, restraining order. Legalize it, document everything involving him, and look up your state's legal voice recording laws. If it's a 1 party notification state, any and every conversation should be recorded for evidence if and when it's ever needed. Taking the short amount of time to ensure your security can save your loads of time and trouble later on.
nurse123 7
Been there done that time for a restraining order
randybryant799 21
Do not go back!!! You were brave to end it.