Anonymous
France
Today, after a long series of tests, I found out that I’m sterile. My wife is currently pregnant with our second child. I think I have some questions for her. FML
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longnight83 9
Just to clarify, did you find out you are NOW sterile, or that you have always BEEN sterile? Could be that your kids are yours and this is recent... or not.
norisorroz 28
We definitely need some follow-up on this one.
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zinoxity 23
Oh no... I'm sorry to hear that OP, on both counts...
longnight83 9
Just to clarify, did you find out you are NOW sterile, or that you have always BEEN sterile? Could be that your kids are yours and this is recent... or not.
sophiehelen 32
we need a follow up. As you say, the details can make a huge difference
Candice Teal 5
Maybe it was a miracle
Randomness911 12
Well look on the bright side, no child support and you will never know the pain of a vasectomy. Although I'm sorry OP, there's little else good there.
CrazyChiC42 10
Paternity tests? Even if you are sure they are yours, that would give proof that you aren't completely sterile... or proof that they were not made using your dna.
norisorroz 28
We definitely need some follow-up on this one.
Danne696 14
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
I obviously have no idea how your sitatuation looks like but does it really matter if your children are blood-related to you or not? This seems like a really hard dilemma so you might want to think about it for a while before doing anything.
Lalala579121 28
Well if they're not it means his wife has been having an affair.
RockPrincess26 16
If they're not his kids and he's been sterile his whole life, then his wife is a cheating *****. Also, the other guy should be paying child support.
Fucc_Logic_4evah 13
Are you for real right now? Does it even matter?! The **** is wrong with you? If his marriage is based on a sham, and his wife has cheated him and made him raise other people's kids, the **** would not matter in that situation?
never_three 21
My younger sisters grandpa was told he was sterile but he has 6 kids from 3 marriages that all bear resemblance to him. Anything is possible OP.
bee delivery 5
i would definitely talk to her but keep in mind that you being sterile at this very moment doesn't mean you always were. if you want to be absolutely sure then i would order a paternity test for the kids before jumping to conclusions when your wife may very well have done nothing wrong.
Alexandria79 22
I'm not sure what brought up those tests but as others have said the children may still be yours. Do a paternity test if you feel they need one. without knowing your condition, it's difficult to say if this has always been the case or if it happened recently.